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RE: Training - 6/10/2006 8:44:57 PM

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do I look like a trainer to you... they are the ones that housebreak us.... not a poor little weak subbie like me

ROFLMAO I haven't seen a weak sub on here under the right circumstances.

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RE: Training - 6/11/2006 6:38:37 AM

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I would ask -them- what training they expect you to have, and where they expect that you would get it.

Frankly, we do training here, but most often, we work with individuals who are looking for something specific. They're looking for training in, say, formal tea service, or training as a dresser, or training as a butler or downstairs servant, or training in cooking or patissierie. If you don't know what training someone wants, and you don't have a specific goal in mind for your own service (or you're not interested in service training because your D/s or BDSM has a different goal), then how the heck are you supposed to find the right trainer to provide that training.

If a potential owner has something in mind that he or she wants, I often suggest that he pick the servant that he is interested in, THEN arrange for the training he or she specifically wants. Asking about random training is pointless. For all they know, the potential servant could have been trained -- as a truck driver or softball player... and unless that's what they're looking for, all the training in the world isn't going to make that person a better fit.

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RE: Training - 6/11/2006 6:47:56 AM

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good morning..I got a good chuckle reading post on this thread,WE get mail every day from those that seek training,"SIR i wish to be trained as a cum slut etc...I perfer instead of the word train to passing on knowledge..so all of you little house broken subbies out there take heed smiles...Bounty

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RE: Training - 6/11/2006 6:54:08 AM

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DIANE and I do specialty training for other owners that just don't have the time or the knowledge.From pony girl.boy all the way to forced lacation..Some send their ones for intense pain training .forced fem...So there is a calling for this lost art...WE are in the process of building a bdsm training/vacation spot for those that are like minded..All depends on the monies that become available.WE will build some cabins this summer...Take care and if any one needs that "special" touch for their own feel free to contact us...BOUNTYHUNTER

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RE: Training - 6/11/2006 9:15:50 AM

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A desire to obey and do as your told goes a long way.

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RE: Training - 6/11/2006 1:10:54 PM

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It's a nice innocuous way that dork doms can get into your email queue and start getting your interest- first by piquing your curiousity over training, then by making you feel desireable FOR training once they've convinced you that it's something you need (which most novices don't need a lot of work to do anyway).

Once they've got your regular attention, it's just a matter of leading them along with time, showing how easily to deal with the "other" dork doms and let your own feelings take you straight into their arms.

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RE: Training - 6/11/2006 1:20:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: BOUNTYHUNTER

good morning..I got a good chuckle reading post on this thread,WE get mail every day from those that seek training,"SIR i wish to be trained as a cum slut etc...I perfer instead of the word train to passing on knowledge..so all of you little house broken subbies out there take heed smiles...Bounty

LOL... here is something to think of as a reply "My training course called 'Cum Slut 101, a beginnners guide' is presently full. I will be taking applications for the fall semester starting 7-5-06."....lol

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RE: Training - 6/11/2006 1:41:55 PM

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Some basic training is nice, however with meeting new people and developing relationships with your partner you may find that previous training was not tailored to your needs. Each individual and style is different.

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RE: Training - 6/12/2006 7:05:39 AM

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Well when thy ask me am i trained all i can say is yes i was trained to kill people and brake things in the USMC i seldom get a response back though lol

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RE: Training - 6/12/2006 10:58:09 AM

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I was trained by my Master. I wouldn't call him a dork-dom, though (ahem, LA!). I was trained/taught (same thing, but people are put off by the word, "Trained") to learn his desires and preferences, and to express myself appropriately and effectively. I was trained to understand myself and analyze my thoughts and feelings. I was trained as a puppygirl. I was trained to release my inhibitions and give everything over to him. I was trained to let the raunchy slut come out, in ways I had never before fathomed. I was trained to cum on command. I was trained to have orgasms so great they catapult me into subspace. I was trained to find my inner strength and rely on it. I was trained to stand up for myself for the first time in my life. I was trained/taught many things, and am better for it.

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