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Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/18/2012 5:55:50 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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Status: offline 		As Masters, if you were involved with a couple...would you demand (wish for) a sub (male in this discussion) to call you "Master"?

What else would you demand (wish for)?

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/18/2012 6:02:56 PM   
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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/18/2012 6:20:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

As Masters, if you were involved with a couple...would you demand (wish for) a sub (male in this discussion) to call you "Master"?

What else would you demand (wish for)?


There are many different types of couples out there. The both slave types, the dominant says and they just do. The submissive ones, the dominant has to have both involved and so making the male of the couple bi. The couple has the wife a slave and the male a cuckold, just cleaning her up afterward. The couple are just after being taught in a non sexual way and learning the ropes.

It just depends on what the couple decides on their involvement of the life and how they want to go from there.



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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/18/2012 6:30:19 PM   
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JJ? What have you succumbed to now?


It's a weakness....I've finally allowed myself to "Ask a Master".

I blame myself.

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/20/2012 4:53:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

As Masters, if you were involved with a couple...would you demand (wish for) a sub (male in this discussion) to call you "Master"?


Demand? No.

Wish for? Depends on the dynamic.

Some subs say it as a term for one person, others as a term for their own positions. If my relative position is in line with what they use the term to denote, then I would obviously prefer for them to apply it. Generally speaking, if the sub is supposed to treat any dom a certain way (or, in the Gorean case, treat any uncollared person a certain way), it would be nice to be included. If that's not how they do it, then there's no exclusion involved and nothing to care about.

It's not a magic word.

You know this already, so what did I just step in?

IWYW,
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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/20/2012 5:15:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

As Masters, if you were involved with a couple...would you demand (wish for) a sub (male in this discussion) to call you "Master"?

What else would you demand (wish for)?


Symphony tickets. Did I win?

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/20/2012 5:27:51 PM   
LadyPact


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That a Master is not always male,
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Now, turn the tables,
And ask what I see,
Yes, there are females,
Who defer to Me.


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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/20/2012 6:11:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aswad
It's not a magic word.

I'm not entirely sure I agree. Word choice does shape thought. There was a period of maybe 3 months or so when Carol and I were new to this that I had her calling me "master". It was useful to insert that word into our lexicons and even more importantly, to get the underlying concept into our world views.

Once it became just a word to use I removed the command. Now she calls me "master" when that's the appropriate word to use and otherwise "bunny". For me personally, I like it that when she uses the word it has actual meaning behind it (by that I mean she had a variety of words to choose from and she chose that particular one on purpose to convey a specific meaning).

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/20/2012 6:26:29 PM   
Aswad


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Status: offline 		Good point.

That said, in the specific context of playing with a couple, which I take to mean a couple I don't have an ongoing 24/7 dynamic with, extensively reshaping their perceptions would be a bit out of my way, so to speak.

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 4:02:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Quick question to the OP - What significance does the "Couple" have here? (I mean if you're asking about the use of honorifics in a poly relationship you could have kept your vow and asked this question in the Poly section ;-)

To the actual question... Fuck no. But then being addressed as "Master" leaves me cold.

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 7:26:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

As Masters, if you were involved with a couple...would you demand (wish for) a sub (male in this discussion) to call you "Master"?

What else would you demand (wish for)?

Truthfully? I'd tell him to leave while I plundered his hot ass wife.

But then again, I have no attraction to guys so he would serve no purpose at all to me except get in the way. Hence, his Snagglepussian "Exit, stage right..."

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 9:14:20 AM   
Aswad


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Status: offline 		What's wrong with "keep the condoms coming", "hold the bitch down for me" and "she vomited; clean it up while I have another go." ?

I mean, he can stay in the corner when he's not being useful, can't he?

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 10:05:16 AM   
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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 12:36:37 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: Aswad

What's wrong with "keep the condoms coming", "hold the bitch down for me" and "she vomited; clean it up while I have another go." ?

I mean, he can stay in the corner when he's not being useful, can't he?

IWYW,
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True. But I'm a minimalist. I don't like excess furniture, ruins the sight lines of my house

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 12:46:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

As Masters, if you were involved with a couple...would you demand (wish for) a sub (male in this discussion) to call you "Master"?

What else would you demand (wish for)?

Truthfully? I'd tell him to leave while I plundered his hot ass wife.

But then again, I have no attraction to guys so he would serve no purpose at all to me except get in the way. Hence, his Snagglepussian "Exit, stage right..."

I generally make em watch. After I leave, if they wanna clean up the mess, that's their pervy shit, not mine.

I don't want him to call me anything. I just want him to STFU and listen to his wife moanin and screaming.

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 1:03:49 PM   
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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 1:20:48 PM   
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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 1:34:18 PM   
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Stop posting your college tequila party pictures, Cryptic...

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 1:47:38 PM   
CRYPTICLXVI


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"Double bourbon, beer back"...

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RE: Okay, I've finally succombed... - 8/21/2012 1:57:15 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: CRYPTICLXVI

I only had tequila once, I was so far gone on acid it tasted like water and seemed to have little effect.
"Double bourbon, beer back"...

Ahhh, my Southern drink of choice-Jack Black and Dixie back.


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