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Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 3:59:38 PM   
MasterTitlis


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Status: offline 		As We/we know this topics has been raised many times I will ask those reading this the question again? Is BDSM and/or a D/s lifestyle perversion?

The reason I pose the question again is to get some fresh perspective for a new website I am launching in September. If you would, please keep your opinion/answer as pointed to the question as you can.

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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:01:17 PM   
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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:03:14 PM   
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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:04:09 PM   
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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:07:10 PM   
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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:08:47 PM   
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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:09:04 PM   
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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:15:59 PM   
ARIES83


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But lets face it how many people have tied
up a partner at some point or had less than
conventional sex?
Everyone is a bit perverted!
Lets face it... Doing dirty, nasty, kinky stuff
to them is fun.

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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:16:04 PM   
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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:17:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterTitlis
Is BDSM and/or a D/s lifestyle perversion?

To my mind, BDSM and D/s are forms of sexual deviance, but a belief that women don't get pregnant in the event of legitimate rape is sexual perversion.

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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:27:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterTitlis
Is BDSM and/or a D/s lifestyle perversion?

To my mind, BDSM and D/s are forms of sexual deviance, but a belief that women don't get pregnant in the event of legitimate rape is sexual perversion.


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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:30:47 PM   
needlesandpins


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Status: offline 		i'm a little pervert, yes i am,
try and prove me wrong if you can,
i wear all the gear, <<there to see,
Master even spanks me over his knee.

he has a special bed with hooks and eyes,
he binds me up with ropes, not silk ties,
he made a special spanker for my pussy,
he says he has to use it coz i'm a hussy.

i gave myself to him to use and abuse,
he bites me hard enough to leave a bruise,
i love to watch his eyes, see that look,
while he holds me by the throat as we fuck.

i know i like vanilla just a bit,
it's great as he drips it on my clit,
i know i could be normal in some way,
but i'd rather be a pervert any day!

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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 4:32:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BurntKitty

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: MasterTitlis
Is BDSM and/or a D/s lifestyle perversion?

To my mind, BDSM and D/s are forms of sexual deviance, but a belief that women don't get pregnant in the event of legitimate rape is sexual perversion.


QFT.



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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 6:19:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterTitlis

As We/we know this topics has been raised many times I will ask those reading this the question again? Is BDSM and/or a D/s lifestyle perversion?

The reason I pose the question again is to get some fresh perspective for a new website I am launching in September. If you would, please keep your opinion/answer as pointed to the question as you can.

Master Titlis


Considering everyone I've ever had it come up in conversation with.. Co-workers, school mates, teachers, bosses, family, friends, etc through out my life... Has been into it to one extent or another. No, it seems pretty darn every day in my opinion.

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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 6:31:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterTitlis
Is BDSM and/or a D/s lifestyle perversion?

1. (Psychology) any abnormal means of obtaining sexual satisfaction

Since BDSM is not, even now, anything like mainstream I'd have to say that BDSM is a perversion. D/s... not so much. I'd actually call that as normal and vanilla as you can get.

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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 6:34:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Perversion is in the eye of the beholder.

To my eye, it is normal to be perverted.

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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 6:53:01 PM   
ARIES83


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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterTitlis
Is BDSM and/or a D/s lifestyle perversion?

1. (Psychology) any abnormal means of obtaining sexual satisfaction

Since BDSM is not, even now, anything like mainstream I'd have to say that BDSM is a perversion. D/s... not so much. I'd actually call that as normal and vanilla as you can get.


Tell me bout it Jeff, when did traditional
Patriarchy become a taboo.

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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 6:54:50 PM   
ARIES83


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< Message edited by ARIES83 -- 8/21/2012 7:38:34 PM >

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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 7:04:54 PM   
pinkbtmwoman


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Status: offline 		Being completely new to the D/s part of BDSM or any part of it, I'm gonna go with no. It's not a lifestyle perversion. Having crossed over, so to speak, from the strictly vanilla side, I'd say it's less perverted. On that side this all exists, but is hidden behind fear of doing it or wanting to do it. Some are born to Lead and some are born to follow, in and out of the bedroom.

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RE: Is BDSM & D/s Perversion? - 8/21/2012 7:13:46 PM   
JeffBC


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ORIGINAL: ARIES83
Tell me bout it Jeff, when did traditional Patriarchy become a taboo.

Oh I am SOOOOO not going there. Down that road lies the path of me being vanilla which will be met with the derision of an awful lot of folks on these boards and pretty much everyone BDSM who knows us in real life.
but yeah... that is pretty much what I've been thinking when I USED to call myself vanilla.


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