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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/23/2012 8:23:16 AM

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Good for you for taking in what others have to say, even if it is input that maybe you didn't want to hear.

I am two rungs up on the ladder from you in the Transgendered Submissive category and I managed to find someone and am blissfully happy.

Yes, the pool of people into AB is small, as is the pool of people into Trans-folk is. I know of one couple that has a third girl (into AB) in the entire state of Colorado. Lots of littles...mostly boys.

You know, it is what life has dealt us. Make what and who you are positive. Work on any negative issues that your childhood has wrought with a professional if you can. Be sane, be courteous, and have a life outside of your kink that you highlight and are enthused about.

Most importantly, get out into your local community - go to events, go to munches, get to know people and make friends. Create an overall kinky life with people who care about your happiness and you care about theirs. They will help you search and even search for you. And what's best is that you will create a circle of people who will embrace you for you.

Good luck! :)

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/23/2012 8:24:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Not My turn to suffer fools. Somebody else step up.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

There are a number of AB/DL groups out there. Not so popular on these boards, from My observation.

However, if you check out Fetlife, they have oodles of ABDL groups on there. And Fet is free just like CM is. They offer you the option of being a supporting member, but you don't have to be.

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Suffer fools? And that's rolling on the floor funny to you to NBMG? Lady Pact I rarely disagree with you, but your initial comment to him was needlessly harsh, compared to some of the idiots that come here and make wank fodder posts, I found this one to be sincere and honest. Of course you follow LP around and agree with anything she says anyway.

OP, sorry that you just had a prime example of YKINMK. Keep looking and talking and learning, I hope you find what you seek. Lord knows we ALL have issues.

I'm a switch, I have my pick of males to dom, and an adult baby isn't an area I wish to engage in but I have some friends that do, sadly you are a bit far away. I absolutely understand how someone with a shitty childhood would like to recreate it in whatever manner heals their psyche.

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/23/2012 11:54:21 AM

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Of course you follow LP around and agree with anything she says anyway.

This is an untruth. I do not "follow her around" and I recall times that I did not 100% agree with her. Even if I did, what's it to you? I'm sure we all have people we normally agree - or disagree - with. It wasn't so much that I agreed that the OP was a fool, but more that the phrase in general was funny.

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/23/2012 1:26:33 PM

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Suffer fools? And that's rolling on the floor funny to you to NBMG? Lady Pact I rarely disagree with you, but your initial comment to him was needlessly harsh, compared to some of the idiots that come here and make wank fodder posts, I found this one to be sincere and honest. Of course you follow LP around and agree with anything she says anyway.

OP, sorry that you just had a prime example of YKINMK. Keep looking and talking and learning, I hope you find what you seek. Lord knows we ALL have issues.

I'm a switch, I have my pick of males to dom, and an adult baby isn't an area I wish to engage in but I have some friends that do, sadly you are a bit far away. I absolutely understand how someone with a shitty childhood would like to recreate it in whatever manner heals their psyche.

Yes, Aynne. In this day and age, anybody who can't put a subject matter into google and find popular results????? How else would you like Me to term it? Just flipping through a few pages from a google search, Myself, I went through eight full pages (at which point I gave up) under the classification "adult baby" and CM didn't even hit the list. Harsh or not, I wouldn't send anybody to the farmer's market to try to find a Gucci bag.

CM has been pretty much a catch all of the kink/alternative lifestyle world. Certain interests which are on the fringe aren't especially going to be found here. When was the last time you saw somebody meet a partner that "lived for" roman showers on this site? How popular is scat? Dolcette?

As much as I like this joint, it's not where I would send certain people looking for a match. It's not a YKINMK issue. It's about pointing the OP in a better direction.

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/23/2012 6:33:12 PM

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i was thinking id have some positive feedback

Not here. What you will soon find out (unless you get lucky or are blessed by the diaper gods) that it's hard (to nearly impossible) to woo a female partner with a minority kink that many are turned off by.

In general, women prefer straight males. Women also like it if you are accomplished or are developing yourself in the real world. Women also generally want adult males. Given this dating predilection, leading with a diaper interest makes you look maladjusted or like a guy who lacks judgment. Although you might not think these norms would apply on CM, they still do. Although you might think bigotry and kink prejudices don't exist here, they do. You really have to use judgement and tact, and it will be up to you to position your kink in a way that a partner might engage you with it.

From my experience here, I would say that CMMB is a bad site for someone with your interest. If you feel like you are being run out of town, you're probably right.

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/28/2012 12:47:24 PM

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I agree...don't come here hoping for positive feedback or kindness.

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/28/2012 3:38:59 PM

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I am a masochist slave AND a non sexual ab/little

Up till my current relationship my Dominant/Sadist and my "caregiver" have been two seperate people.

I met a man two years or so ago who is both Dom/Sadist and a "Daddy" non sexually but he'd never net a girl who was both slave/service orientated/maso and little girl in one body.

We found each other in the uk - much smaller than the USA so it IS possible it's just a very small subsection of the community in general that you will be compatible with.

I started going to munches at 18 - I'm 30 now, 10 years to find the man who is my "match" so don't give up

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/28/2012 3:45:07 PM

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DIA!!! *tacklesmoooooooches and hugs*

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/28/2012 3:50:30 PM

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Hey everyone! Im new to the site! And kind-of new to the whole mistress thing.

I grew up with some family problems.. moved out when i was 15. (being abused and shit, not really wanting to start a sob story) but for a long time in my life ive been wishing, and wanting someone special. Someone who can baby me, and give me the love i never really had, (accepting my AB/DL side) but also treat me as a slave, aswell as a baby. Someone I can cook/clean for, and devote my life to, and in turn, have a loving, and caring mother figure to look up to, and love.

Now for the reason im writing this, you all are masters in these fields, and im sure (me) being an ABDL doesn't phase much of you, but i wanna learn more!

Am I normal? Are there alot of guys/girls (maybe not my age(18) ) that want to devote their life to a woman, (or man) and in turn only want love, and harsh discipline? I feel like i am alone on this, and thus im hard on myself :( thinking im a freak....

help me someone?

Im looking for a mistress/mommy to give my all to, here in Minnesota by the way :)

-love

baby willy

Great post Babywilly.

I too have some unique predilections.

For instance, I've always been captivated by Wiley Coyote...and that whole Acme thing.

How is that he always ends up being the beneficiary of his own intentions? But maybe it's not a he....hmmmmm?

Soooooooo....I have this fantasy that a Domme (who looks EXACTLY like Wiley Coyote....but with a sexy twist ya know....eh???? You know what I'm saying? I think you do)..... and Wiley (or actually, to be more accurate....Ms Wiley....get it? Ms Wiley Coyote....as in....oh shit...I can't even type now....fuck that's hot) comes after me with an Acme explosive kit in tow...."she" (get it...."she"? even though Wiley is actually a he....total conundrum eh?) is wearing like a leather flea collar (because coyotes have fleas you know)...totally bitching...anyway....back to my fantasy....

Fuck....shit...I just came....I can't type any more now....(refractory and all....)

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/28/2012 4:22:38 PM

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Hi BW-

there are some folks on here...not a lot of active posters, but I've seen profiles of a few AB/DL and there some Professional Dommes who cater to that particular fetish. If you're looking for more than pro sessions....I would also suggest FetLife as they have more forums where you'll find more folks into what you're into, hopefully something local to you.

good luck.

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/28/2012 5:27:51 PM

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DIA!!! *tacklesmoooooooches and hugs*

*falls over in a heap giggling*

Hi hi

We have been staying with friends so not online much - how's you?

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RE: Hi! Into being a baby/diapered?- MN - 8/28/2012 8:01:57 PM

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I know a few AB/DLs, I can point you towards them on FL. They're plenty of ways AB/DLs meet each other and maintain community.

A lot of groups are more accepting of age players these days.

I think it is important to make sure you are healthy with yourself, but that's true for everyone abuse or no abuse. You sound clear in your interests which is not a bad thing.

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