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RE: Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas - 8/24/2012 9:43:55 AM

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Or kneeling on rice during a long cam session.

A few grains of rice in each shoe before a long day on her feet will keep her thinking of you...not so pleasantly toward the end of the day!

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RE: Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas - 8/24/2012 9:54:52 AM

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When I was in a D/s relationship, it was long distance at first. After being together several times, my dom had a pretty good idea of who I was and he was a man with a wicked good imagination! He was able to keep me rather focused. That said...

He was extremely careful about it. He was concerned about my privacy, my safety and my emotional well being. He never pushed it too far. After all, if something went wrong, or it left me in much different frame of mind than he'd envisioned, he was not here to help me deal with it. That was a big deal to him and- honestly- THAT made me feel more connected to him than if he'd gone the other direction. I knew that I could trust him and that he would not be leaving me to deal with things on my own. While pics and cam are a great way for you to see what she's doing for you, the stuff you ask of her that's not private? Make sure you have a good handle on her and her emotional responses before doling out those orders.

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RE: Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas - 8/24/2012 12:05:57 PM

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When he pinches my nipples, I get turned on. When I'm told to do it to myself, there's zero excitement.

If he's inflicting a little pain on me, it can be erotic. If I do it to myself it's not fun and it would be interpreted as real punishment. Or him being a jerk. Sure you want that as a result?

The things that meant the most were the real tasks that he cared about. For example, when I remembered at midnight that I needed to drop off horse show tack at the barn the night before the show, the task was to send a quick email saying I had made it there and back safely. That showed that he cared about me as opposed to stuff that shows all he might care about was his dick.

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RE: Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas - 11/13/2012 3:33:15 PM

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Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas

Funishments...really??? if it were "fun" it wouldn't be a punishment...DUH!!!

Whoever came up with this "word" must be mental...LOL

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RE: Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas - 11/13/2012 10:46:06 PM

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Funishments...really??? if it were "fun" it wouldn't be a punishment...DUH!!!

Whoever came up with this "word" must be mental...LOL

.... but that's exactly why they invented the word. To distinguish it from actual punishments that are supposed to be unpleasant consequences for misbehaviour. Pretending to punish a submissive for mutual fun is such a staple role-play scene, it's convenient to have a quick way to distinguish it from actual punishments which have a very different purpose and execution. It stops confusion like this ^^

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RE: Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas - 11/13/2012 10:50:01 PM

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Well said Athena.

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RE: Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas - 11/14/2012 6:24:40 PM

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If you haven't already, have a few talks with her about what she's done in the past - what worked, what didn't, in addition to things she is willing to try. Share your thoughts with her about what would please you. Some of those things will work despite the distance, some will not; but in the sharing you become closer, and that's always a healthy step to take.

Have fun, be safe!

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RE: Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas - 11/23/2012 12:01:54 AM

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one I've used before was to have her smear herself in food condiments, preferably to where here face isn't recognizable, and get into a yahoo adult chat room, and get her cam going, and masturbate while there is at least 5 or so people watching,

she said she felt very degraded but excited, to the point it was the first time she made herself squirt

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RE: Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas - 11/24/2012 11:07:39 PM

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HAHAHA this is great!

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Reading this thread should be plenty humiliating.

I wonder if it's more humiliating than being forced to go to the store where a beautiful (hot looking) check out clerk works...and buying a bunch of bananas, some K-Y lube and a box of Trojan Condoms. (those three items alone combined). Mind you, this good become rather embarrassing for the check out clerk even. Then again, they tend to deal with a lot of weird and off the wall customers. Come to think of it, It would be even more priceless to make certain the task included... getting assistance in picking out the right size condoms which actually fit over the Banana's. Being forced to engage in extremely embarrassing off the wall interaction. Than again, this is all very crude and vulgar simplistic like atypical humiliation. Really does not deserve an A+ grade.

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RE: Funishments, tasks, humiliation ideas - 11/25/2012 5:03:18 AM

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What are your intentions?
Simply To play, or perhaps to bond?
That would be the real jumping point to the answer.

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