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The natural. - 8/26/2012 7:52:12 AM

DarkSteven

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There's a local switch named Kevin, who's just a natural. I first met him when he was with an ex-sub of mine. He came up and asked me politely if he could watch while I topped my sub DSG. A little while later, I saw him doing his very first scene - he had my ex-sub bent over a table, yanked down her panties, gripped her hair firmly, and administered the hardest barehanded spanking I'd ever seen. No hesitation whatsoever!

He was recently at a play party and saw some pro Dommes sitting around being bored. He began chatting with them and shortly thereafter found himself topped by three pro Dommes at no charge (although he did tip them later)! He's so new he doesn't even realize how many male subs would kill for that! He subsequently used some of the same techniques that had been applied on him, on a woman he topped next day.

I've never seen anyone like him - no hesitation, one of the firmest Tops I've ever seen when in Top mode, and no learning curve whatsoever. I'm just curious if there are other men or women like him in other communities, who just take to this instantly?

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 8:35:10 AM

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Sounds to me like he already knows what he likes, and he's simply outgoing and isn't worried about anyones judgement or 'messing up' he's just doing what he likes and exploring as he can.

Many people admire extroverts for being so 'naturally good' at things, when often it is not their aptitude for a skill that's greater, it's their excellence and being outgoing that makes them fly over stumbling blocks that others often stumble upon.

Now if he mastered long tail whips in a day then I'd be seriously impressed.

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 8:42:58 AM

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Sounds like he was fun to watch.

It is amazing when someone falls into their role for the first time with as much or more grace and style than an old warhorse... especially if they are very young. Some people fit so nicely and comfortably in their role (Top/bottom) it seems they can do no wrong. I have seen it and loved seeing it. Renews your faith in the order of things when you see something like that.

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 8:46:32 AM

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OK-I gotta ask-Is it really standard for a male sub to tip a femdomme at a play party? I've never heard of that before...

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 8:48:16 AM

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They were pro dommes.

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 10:03:50 AM

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OK-I gotta ask-Is it really standard for a male sub to tip a femdomme at a play party? I've never heard of that before...

A lot of times when a pro domme has a submissive at a party they are paying to be with that domme for the evening, or paying some form of tribute.

One pro friend of mine didn't necessarily have clients pay for party attendance but they were in service for the evening with no play time. They would do all the driving, and deal with all the details for the dommes entire party. Got to attend a few parties in that sort of entourage, quite fun. Plus pro clients are often rich, we all got to ride in a really nice car all night :)

It was also a good deal for the client since they got introduced to the community in care of someone they already knew and trusted.

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 11:16:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: sheisreeds

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

OK-I gotta ask-Is it really standard for a male sub to tip a femdomme at a play party? I've never heard of that before...

A lot of times when a pro domme has a submissive at a party they are paying to be with that domme for the evening, or paying some form of tribute.

One pro friend of mine didn't necessarily have clients pay for party attendance but they were in service for the evening with no play time. They would do all the driving, and deal with all the details for the dommes entire party. Got to attend a few parties in that sort of entourage, quite fun. Plus pro clients are often rich, we all got to ride in a really nice car all night :)

It was also a good deal for the client since they got introduced to the community in care of someone they already knew and trusted.

This is kana

And I understand that...but this is different. This is a guy who meets some ladies at a play party, talk to em, impresses them enough that they do a scene, then tips them.

(Chortles-tips for tops, sounds like a show song)
I mean hey, maybe I'm being naive. I haven't been to a private play party in ages (boohoo-sobs, nobody invites Kana to the kewl shindigs) so maybe things have changed, but I always thought that they were for, well, you know, play. And not paid play.

Now it may have been pre-arranged in the discussion, but it just strikes a strange chord. And not just with me. The mouse used to own a dungeon and host all sortsa wild parties and she's never heard of it.

That seems kinda weird. You've hosted play parties. Do you have or would you have pro's working them?

And again, I'm not picking a bone, pointing any fingers or taking a side on the paid domme thing, just genuinely curious about something I've never heard of...

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 11:29:08 AM

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That seems kinda weird. You've hosted play parties. Do you have or would you have pro's working them?

And again, I'm not picking a bone, pointing any fingers or taking a side on the paid domme thing, just genuinely curious about something I've never heard of...

I only ever host private parties at my home, there's only one pro I've ever invited and I let her business stay her business.

I have never quite heard of this, though I can see it being a form of respect, though that totally depends on the pro domme.

I tend to let pros and their clients keep their negotiations quiet.

I have seen pro dommes be auctioned for sessions at parties, though all proceeds went to charity (typically NCSF) fundraisers. All parties I've attended do not allow cash for service exchanges on site between the attendees. A lot of the time this is done so the venue can remain open and above board. Pros either attend with their personal submissives, or with clients in service, or have previously paid tribute for the entire night.

I'm certain this sort of thing has happened though the laws in our area, and how well the venues around here work to keep themselves above board if this did happen at a party I bet it would have been done very discreetly.

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 1:54:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

OK-I gotta ask-Is it really standard for a male sub to tip a femdomme at a play party? I've never heard of that before...

I've never been tipped as such but, then, I'm not a pro. I have, however, had my feet licked by a friend's sub that I Topped.

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 2:43:53 PM

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Sounds like you have a little bit of a
"man crush" steven

He sounds like a cool guy.
And it also sounds like he just jumps in feet
first, that's a good quality.

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 3:36:00 PM

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Tipping a pro dom? I would have been really offended if someone had done that to me at a private party.

And...only rocket science is rocket science. Glad he's so enthusiastic right out of the gate.

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 3:56:24 PM

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fr-

thanks for sharing that anecdote! i suppose there's just some people, like john wayne, ronald reagan, Marylynne Monroe;, etc, who just command a presence with many things they do. sorry i'm not up on play party etiquette, but i can see both sides, depending on how it was done (perhaps naively and discreetly), as in appreciation, versus being "utilized" and paid.

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 4:13:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds

They were pro dommes.

And he didn't use money....

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 4:14:34 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

There's a local switch named Kevin, who's just a natural. I first met him when he was with an ex-sub of mine. He came up and asked me politely if he could watch while I topped my sub DSG. A little while later, I saw him doing his very first scene - he had my ex-sub bent over a table, yanked down her panties, gripped her hair firmly, and administered the hardest barehanded spanking I'd ever seen. No hesitation whatsoever!

He was recently at a play party and saw some pro Dommes sitting around being bored. He began chatting with them and shortly thereafter found himself topped by three pro Dommes at no charge (although he did tip them later)! He's so new he doesn't even realize how many male subs would kill for that! He subsequently used some of the same techniques that had been applied on him, on a woman he topped next day.

I've never seen anyone like him - no hesitation, one of the firmest Tops I've ever seen when in Top mode, and no learning curve whatsoever. I'm just curious if there are other men or women like him in other communities, who just take to this instantly?

I suspect he's actually a Savant and is currently working on finalizing his first version of an anti grav machine.

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RE: The natural. - 8/26/2012 6:49:14 PM

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I talked to a young lady at a play party last night, who is new to the lifestyle. She asked for my help in administering a flogging to a gentleman there. While it did take her a few tries, in no time she was paddling and flogging away. I must say that I was impressed with how quickly it fell into place for her.

It was also a boon for me, as it helped me get over my nervousness about playing in public.

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