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ORIGINAL: BambiBoi

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ORIGINAL: KaleidoKenlyn

Now as I said, he doesn't completely cut off my air for more than 90 to 120 seconds at a time. The rest of the time, he'll be squeezing and pressing, but always leaving me the tiniest of ways to get some air, but never much.

I've been watching this thread for a while, trying to find a nice way to say "with dangerous kinks, its not uncommon for the sub to want more more more harder harder harder, which forces a responsible dominant to show restraint."

I don't care if I was choking out the free dive champion of the world, I would never go two minutes without air. I recognize that I'm soft when it comes to being extreme, but how much more do you want? (Please keep in mind that the mammalian diving reflex doesn't work without water). I get the sense we are no longer talking about wanting breath play of this caliber more often, but instead to deeper degrees.

You don't want to be preached at, and that's not what I'm trying to do. You asked why he doesn't want more. If I were your top, I'd say "every time we go in I worry, it frightens me. I don't feel comfortable going longer, and the amount of completely uninterrupted effort I need to focus on her every twitch is grueling on me."

Find a way to be content before too long. There's a reason free divers leave pretty corpses.