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RE: behavior modification - 6/12/2006 9:10:27 PM

MasterHypnotist

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Good old fashioned hypnotism is all about hallucinations (positive: you experience something that isn't there, or negative, you do not experience something that is there) and behavior modification. Plenty of good script books out there, or have someone make CDs for Y/you.

Slightly more advanced work can be done with dissassociation.

Even more advanced are age regression, informed child techniuque, enabling more believable "chair therapy" where accusers can be safely confronted and dealt with, forgiveness work, and parts mediation.

Imo, well constructed direct suggestion can be done by anyone with anyone who is mentally healthy and compliant. It's possible that there might be an emotional release (abreaction) so be prepared to deal with this, or at least ease your /s out of hypnosis should this happen. Ramping it up beyond that, however, is probably better left to the pros. Btw, hallucinations require a strong state of subconscious focus. Don't be disappointed if the casual use of hypnotism doesn't accomplish it.

There are so many skills to be used as a hypnotist. That, and it can be used recreationally, too!

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RE: behavior modification - 6/12/2006 9:16:59 PM

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But even hypnosis will not work if the subject does not truly want to change their behavior.

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RE: behavior modification - 6/12/2006 9:45:59 PM

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Welllllllllll, yes. However incrementalism or repetition can be subtle but powerful resources. In other words, what I could not help facilitate through a few office visits, may be quite achievable in a 24/7 relationship.

Let's face it, people change their minds about what they do or don't do in the waking state, all the time... why not in their hypnotic state?

Just a thought.

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RE: behavior modification - 6/13/2006 8:12:07 AM

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But your making a choice about choices that should be hers to make, dontcha think?

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RE: behavior modification - 6/13/2006 8:09:46 PM

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girl feels that in the lifestyle any true Master or Mistress would wish to help their slave/ or sub. with their problems they see in their selfs. girl sees it as a very positive thing that the slave/sub. sees the problems to make them less than what they want to be. no girl feels its not bad that the slave/sub. wishes to ask for help. this girl wishes and asks for help quite often. so this at no point is a bad thing. girl understands completely.

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RE: behavior modification - 6/14/2006 3:49:47 AM

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I've been reading about behavior modification, in order to help steer my son in the right direction. There is a focus on the positive - approval, encouragement and affirmation. A ratio of five compliments for every one complaint is found to be most effectual in altering another's behavior in a desired manner. It's good to focus on framing things in the positive. For example, I talk to my son about working and passing (in school); I do not mention slacking and failing. The article stressed evaluating and repairing the relationship, part of this can include noting positive behavior and praising it. A change in perspective from the Dom can often change the Sub's perspective. I think that framing thing in the positive can make a big difference. Some parents use "action plans" which are similar to a written contract, covering certain behaviors and consequence. This is used as a tool and also to make certain that the child fully understands the expectations (rules) -- this could also be used as a method to steer a sub's behavior.

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