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I´m exiled - 6/11/2006 2:57:24 PM

Minino

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Greetings to alls:

I´m exiled by a Goddess since 6 months.
I´m feeling very sadness and un happy , seems like my heart are out of me.
My girls friends told me...Minino search a new Domina and don´t think more litle kitty.
YEs, yes,yes but i can´t forget to her presence.
I don´t like to start a new relation , i haven´t more force for to do that now.
I wonder if someone with more experience in relation Domina/Submissive could HElp me ¡please.
My hight apreciation that i had about her are dead now.
What could i do for forget this older relations?.and tho this Dominatrix.
My return are impossible in a realy life and on line for the two parts .
My desire of adore and service to her are very dead in my soul. for the moment.
Wonderssssss
THanks by your time reading this humblest words.
Any help could be welcome.
REgards:
Minino.

< Message edited by Minino -- 6/11/2006 3:05:21 PM >

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/11/2006 3:04:33 PM

crouchingtigress

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Minino,

Welcome to the fora. I think all heart break takes time to heal. Give it a year before you start looking, thats only another 6 months, and in this time dont feed the regrets, the pain or the lonliness....you will have those feelings, allow them , but dont feed them....Just be ok with being sad for a while....

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/11/2006 3:13:18 PM

Minino

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Hello Tigress:

I have to give me 6 months more before to do something....Ok THAnk you very much . I will do that for the moment.
Anyways if i won´t find a rights solution i will go to the doctor of my psycho.
Thanks again Tigress by your should with me .
FEline kiss , Purrring to you.
REgards:
Minino.

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/11/2006 4:29:15 PM

crouchingtigress

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I know it sux....and I did not want to do it when I heard it either, but I did, and I am so glad I did....It gives you time to grieve and time to heal...and then you start to refocus and realign. I am so glad I did this, and really its not too bad once you decide to do it....I wish you all the best...

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"Its none of my buisness what other people think of me."

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/11/2006 4:35:12 PM

theRose4U

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Any dominant that "exiles you" basically doesn't have the guts to tell you to piss off and never contact them.
I'm all for time off for introspection but in my world anyone that's going to send you away for an extended time means it for good in most cases. It's time to explore other avenues because the likelyhood is that after your time in "exile" you're not going to be invited back. Closure is a good thing but not always something we get.

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/11/2006 4:37:23 PM

MHOO314

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Exiled? I'd call that dismissed----get over it and move on--you can do better.

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/11/2006 4:42:52 PM

marieToo

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Minino

Greetings to alls:

I´m exiled by a Goddess since 6 months.
I´m feeling very sadness and un happy , seems like my heart are out of me.
My girls friends told me...Minino search a new Domina and don´t think more litle kitty.
YEs, yes,yes but i can´t forget to her presence.
I don´t like to start a new relation , i haven´t more force for to do that now.
I wonder if someone with more experience in relation Domina/Submissive could HElp me ¡please.
My hight apreciation that i had about her are dead now.
What could i do for forget this older relations?.and tho this Dominatrix.
My return are impossible in a realy life and on line for the two parts .
My desire of adore and service to her are very dead in my soul. for the moment.
Wonderssssss
THanks by your time reading this humblest words.
Any help could be welcome.
REgards:
Minino.

Minino:

The most intense feelings we always think are going to last forever. But they dont. You will eventually heal 100%. Give yourself some time. Always in the long run, there is something better waiting. I know that doesnt help much now. But all that comes to pass, is meant to be, leading us to the next era of our lives. Dont fight it so much.

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/11/2006 5:19:06 PM

TexasMaam

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Minino,

It takes time to heal such disappointment.

I recommend you spend time associating with other submissives, male/female, the gender is not important, it only matters that you remain in contact with others in the lifestyle, and most importantly with a few who have happy and fulfilling relationships with their Doms/Dommes.

With other submissives you will find the support you need so that you can at least share your longings and desires in a circle of those who will be understanding of those needs and desires.

Once some time passes, you will find that you are once again ready to put yourself out there to search for the One.

Good luck to you,

TexasMaam

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/12/2006 1:55:44 PM

Minino

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Thanks, thanks , thank you very much to everybody.
I wish to alls the same good soul that i can feel in yours Help words Mistress.
The same Tigress....meowwwwwww.
I think that this was like more a dismissed to me ...i won´t think that her reation will be for changes a new introspeccion in myself Theroses4u.I am not sure about it , because she put me out in my visited to her house and out of all online.I was under her eye and control since 3 or 4 years and it was my first visited to her dungeon like a pet-friend 4roses , i was 5 days only when we had planing 10 by her..Still i´m loose about it.But i accept her order and i obey.
Smile feline for you The4roses4U.Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrring.wops i don´t know why i did that .smile..
Surprise to me MHOO314 , thanks about your trust with me , i will desire the same myself but i am a disaster subie and a dependent pet for a Mistress/Goddess/Lady seem to her.I wonder if we talked before?'''..thanks.
Yes yes yes Marietoo i will wait here .....I´m rebel but at the same time still love the peace ...´ll wait .Only fight with my hard life here now.
Hey TExasMaam i was speak with a few boys here that i know in this lifestile , but every friends of me are Masters or Mistress ..i couldn´t talk with any subie male....it´s a good aidea Maam .THanks.
Anyways i willl try to tell you to alls in this next 6 months What´s happpened with me and this sadness friends?
Regards to alls:
Minino.

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/26/2006 5:10:38 PM

Minino

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Greetings to alls:
Step by step I´m going find every piece of the puzzle of this Maám.
Others lifes and personalitys that she had with me and leave me out.
My sincerity regards for her , she was very Good and very profesional with me.
Every process for the creation of something original "BOOK" , song or picture have to feel in the skin for to be great and diferent to others creations of others.It´s a good thing "HEalthly" to have a longer distance between the creation and the creative , never mixed..
I learned that in other of my pass life...It´s a hard and dificult process only for one of ten could do.
BE well , she doesn´t make me crazy friends i was a litle before ...feline and nice smile remembering.
Now i can breathe very peacefuly when i could understand all and it´s very good to me explain and share with us
my good feel that i have now.
My work are going down because i wasn´t into my body.
But i hope stand up my face again...and walk on lonley but go on walk...
Still she didn´t talk with me for nothing .Psssssssssssssssssssssssssss¡sad¡.
She is more stronger than me and i know that since the first time that i talked with her. OF COURSE:
Anyways I go on put on my songs of LZ and ´ll burn incense and the same time in her memory like a prayer for her felicity. YEssssssssssssssssss¡
REgards :
Minino.

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/26/2006 5:17:01 PM

Misstoyou

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Minino

Anyways I go on put on my songs of LZ and ´ll burn incense and the same time in her memory like a prayer for her felicity. YEssssssssssssssssss¡

I kind of like this... and it couldn't hurt. :)

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/28/2006 7:01:41 PM

sting516

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Funny thing about being dismissed...as i was just this past week...some people on cm decide to pile on...got an email from some Domme i'd never chatted with before who derided me as damaged goods...i mean...WTF, you konw....it's not like i'd contacted her in hopes of anything...in fact, i hadn't contacted her at all...really kind of sad.

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/28/2006 7:27:20 PM

crouchingtigress

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Owchie....*hugs sting*

quote:

ORIGINAL: sting516

Funny thing about being dismissed...as i was just this past week...some people on cm decide to pile on...got an email from some Domme i'd never chatted with before who derided me as damaged goods...i mean...WTF, you konw....it's not like i'd contacted her in hopes of anything...in fact, i hadn't contacted her at all...really kind of sad.

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"Its none of my buisness what other people think of me."

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RE: I´m exiled - 6/28/2006 8:28:25 PM

Misstoyou

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

Owchie....*hugs sting*

quote:

ORIGINAL: sting516

Funny thing about being dismissed...as i was just this past week...some people on cm decide to pile on...got an email from some Domme i'd never chatted with before who derided me as damaged goods...

Not to mention a ridiculous thing to say. I'm sorry things didn't work out.

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~ Miss Marie

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RE: I´m exiled - 7/2/2006 9:55:50 AM

Minino

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Hi again Ladys and Mistress:

Of course Miss Marie and more genuine.thank you.
This wans´t any fun to me sting516 i´m learning to survive out of her eye.
Still i used remember to her but today i have a new point of vision more rights.
Regards to alls.
Minino.

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RE: I´m exiled - 7/2/2006 10:53:37 AM

Minino

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Hello to alls.

If she could read this words here ..i would like to sing this song for her:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISeXGBUGxQ0&mode=related&search=kiss%20rock
Now i go on with my Psycho feline kiss for you Goddess in where are you of this planet.
MEowwwwwwwwwwwwwww .purrrrrrrrrrring.

Feline Kisssssssssssssss:
Minino.

< Message edited by Minino -- 7/2/2006 10:57:58 AM >

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RE: I´m exiled - 7/2/2006 11:23:06 AM

MstrssPassion

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I'm sorry to read that you are still hurting over this woman who had no consideration for your feelings. By her not offering closure you will have to find your own closure & this takes a lot longer.

But THANKS for the cool KISS vid...

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RE: I´m exiled - 7/3/2006 1:13:42 PM

Minino

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Hello MstrssPassion:

Nice to read your words Maám . Thank you very much.
You said right in this point , she was play with my feelings .
I used learn about to others humans the badly points for i won´t be and do the same things.
I used said that nobody´s perfect.....she wasn´t very clearly with me and she conceal me her true intention.
But i understand all now and i haven´t any grudge for her.
Never be the same Of course , but yes i would like talk someday with her like two civilize humans out of the rouls of femdom.
I wish the best to her and i hope that someday she could give me the pardon if i did something wrong or bothersome to her . it was in a way unvoluntary.
Again smile and walk on MistressPAssion.Thank you to Mistress like you MistressPassion.
Regards:
Minino.
PD: yes the rock hard are my music and a important part of my life.Good energie..meow.The rock music always are with my in the badly moments like it was.

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RE: I´m exiled - 7/30/2006 4:23:48 AM

Minino

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Hey friends:

The time and yours words will give me more cure about my sadness...that all pills that the doctor would likes give me for take me.ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ¡¡¡¡¡¡
Thank you very much to everybody.....realy...
Meeeeeeeeeeeooooooooooooooooooooowwwww¡.............a new kitty are born this sumer...je,je,je.
I love this sumer time very much friends....news friends here and in my life..hey you ¡.no in BDSM relations ships.
The sun are a litle trouble for my skin and eyes but we have others solutions.
Mybe a new work in other site of the city.....my mates are moving contacts for help me.YEsss,yesss i am not lonley Mistresses.
Mybe i am not too much badly with the other people near of me.....wops . i have peace of mind ...yessssss.
Itś a great thing to have friends in your city and into the net....i think about it.
Be well the progress of my mind are more well.thank you very much to alls.
i have to cross my fingers for go on at the same.
My olders fetichesss and mania still i used do....it are in my genetic feline....excues me Goddess , ladys and mates....
Itś too late for changes in that.feline smile.
the last night i was into the chat of collar me . i have a few troubles for explain in english stay on. but i understand well.
it was very interesting for me , and always i used enjoy a lot nice to meet with someone face of the past (MIstress and mates).....into the chat. thanks collarme.
I hope to meet you here very fast Mistresses and mates:
REgards:
Minino.

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RE: I´m exiled - 1/5/2007 2:13:22 AM

Minino

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-Hello to a/all:

Excues me Please ...the real life and the rutt are rapture to me .

Still it isnt too late for wish you :

HAPPY NEW YEAR¡¡¡¡¡¡ to everydody good ...Goddess/Mistress/LAdys /MAsters and mates of collarme.

I wish you the best things and desires than you could imagine ...MEOWWWW¡

Regards:

Minino

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