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RE: I´m exiled - 1/5/2007 7:52:45 AM

thetammyjo

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Any dominant that "exiles you" basically doesn't have the guts to tell you to piss off and never contact them.
I'm all for time off for introspection but in my world anyone that's going to send you away for an extended time means it for good in most cases. It's time to explore other avenues because the likelyhood is that after your time in "exile" you're not going to be invited back. Closure is a good thing but not always something we get.

I agree.

I once had a slave whose previous.... top (I don't feel she was much of a dominant) would just tell him "you screwed up, don't contact me for X number of weeks". Then she'd go to the same munches and parties he went to but ignore him.

I have no idea why he put up with it for over a year.

I think that if punishment is required it needs to be done and over with. If an error has been made, it needs to be pointed out and corrected.

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RE: I´m exiled - 1/5/2007 8:36:51 AM

ToGiveDivine

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I'm surprised no one has asked why you were "exiled" - was it something you did / did not do OR did your Domme just decide it was time for something new, etc.?

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RE: I´m exiled - 5/25/2007 10:11:43 AM

Minino

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Wops¡

Greetings to everybodys.......be well My dismissed are going eternity.
But i 've been with alot changes around me...?????I wonder why now?
Now the youngers LAdys comes to me like the bee to the honey dangerously for me.
I not ready like a teen for these spanish Ladys , me as a black cat , older and "picaro" villainous.
I used be like a gentelman but i think that she could see indeep of my crazy soul and hearth..ohhhh¡
Mmmm reading this olders words i am learn alot things and , it are help me for to get a good evolution to me.

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RE: I´m exiled - 5/25/2007 10:19:06 AM

Minino

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Hey toGiveDivine ...ja,ja,ja...a good point .....

Today i never mind that ... i was suffering too much about it , I had alot questions into my mind.

they was tryed help and understand this feel , that is all.

I was very gratifuly about it ...

Thanks mate , you said a time for a something new.... ineterestins point of vision ..i haven't any idea , with alls respects.

Bye

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RE: I´m exiled - 5/25/2007 12:52:59 PM

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Minino, I am glad to see you are doing better!

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RE: I´m exiled - 5/25/2007 1:55:36 PM

Minino

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Wops thanks Mistress i love to know it.

My mind and soul are complety when a Maam take a litle of satisfation ..purrrrrrrrrrrrring.

I will try to put on this post more oftten Maam. Excues me ....by the lazy of my fingers for writer here.

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RE: I´m exiled - 5/26/2007 3:06:33 AM

Minino

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You said

I have no idea why he put up with it for over a year.

I think that if punishment is required it needs to be done and over with. If an error has been made, it needs to be pointed out and corrected.

Dear Mistress thetammyjo , It was over a year because i was blocked my mind , soul and heart ...i was not into my body .
When i feel like it scares me . I am not a human feel , confuse , lose and i am sure that you could understand me.
In this cases the friends of here and the Mistress told me very rights . the timeeeee and the long distance are a good the cure for it..
But it was very hardest over a year and i tryed to loud help here if someone could give me someone.
I am sure that i was doing someone error but i belive that the answer of her was extrem in my case,corrected.. i would like to see it .. but i don't think it Maam