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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

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To get back on topic:

The male slaves that I chose, are those that are usually in charge on a day to day basis. They are men who normally do not submit to others. They are far from weak, as it takes a strong person to submit completely to a TPE relationship. Most male slaves I encounter and take on, are the strongest caliber of men in every day society. Like I said before, I want to know I have conquered a champion, not a bench warmer.

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

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To get back on topic:

The male slaves that I chose, are those that are usually in charge on a day to day basis. They are men who normally do not submit to others. They are far from weak, as it takes a strong person to submit completely to a TPE relationship. Most male slaves I encounter and take on, are the strongest caliber of men in every day society. Like I said before, I want to know I have conquered a champion, not a bench warmer.

I agree.
The personals I take, are anything but weak.
Hell some of the strongest men I know are submissive within their personal relationship.

But then I have always said and believed that submitting to someone else's will was hard work and showed great personal strength.

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw

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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

But do you see how illogical this sounds? If he is fantastic at communicating with others, why would he need to dangle a carrot-on-a-stick for her? This is why I find it ultimately pointless to speak to you since I know you're going to just keep babbling on and modifying what is said to benefit your stance regardless of any authenticity your statements hold. The end result will be you running us in circles until one of the draconian mods come to intervene (likely on your behalf if history is any indication).

Personally, I think the men involved in this are creepy curs that couldn't enchant a woman if they had Merlin's wand.

You're right.
I will continue to stand my ground on what I believe and think.
Why?
Well it's called being true to myself.
There are many things in my life I will not compromise on.
And here is a news flash I don't apologize for that.

I am curious though...
Why is this relationship not authentic?
Because it doesn't meet YOUR definition of what a relationship is?
Why the childish, grammar school insults?
Does it make you feel good about yourself?


I am sorry to break it to you.
I don't expect the mods to protect me for the likes of you or those like you.
That those childish insults at me or at other's for taking part in fetishes such as financial domination or even a sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship.

You would know that if you actually READ and comprehended what I typed instead of just jumping up and down and throwing a tantrum like a child because other people don't live in a manner that YOU dictate for them.

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw
I don't expect the mods to protect me from the likes of you or those like you.

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

or just blow Ron which I'd see as a valuable charity cause LOL)

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw
I don't expect the mods to protect me from the likes of you or those like you.

Well no. Wasn't that clearly decided on somewhere in the first few pages. I thought it was us male dominants who were circling to be your protectors (and I'm still waiting for all you fin dommes to sned me some gift cards in appreciation for all my efforts -- or just blow Ron which I'd see as a valuable charity cause LOL)

Now... to expose my own biases further... Let me comment on this statement:

TNDommeK: They are far from weak, as it takes a strong person to submit completely to a TPE relationship.

Yup, that makes me wince. For me, you can't have anything like what I'd call "total" without cohabitation -- and not just cohabitation but over a significant period of time. It isn't a findomme thing... it's a question of what is included in the word "total". I tend to be pretty mathematical and so I need to see something that looks an awful lot like legal slavery before it starts looking total to me. So in me that statement runs up against "trueness violations" which I wrestle down intellectually. But it remains absolutely certain that I recognize that what "total" means in that sentence isn't even remotely what "total" means when I use it.

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
I think I understand what you mean. Are you meaning "total" as in takes a looooooooooot of time to accomplish. Not only that but as you say "total" meaning, total slavery. I might be wrong, correct if so. I don't think right now I use that word in the mathematical sense as you do. I probably was loosely saying it. But I do mean it in a total, as in whole. If that makes sense. :) I think I confused Myself,lol. My head hurts now,lol.

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ORIGINAL: blueocean12

i think finding a good relationship is very difficult period. Doesn't matter much which lifestyle or dynamic is in play. More important is there honesty, trust and loyalty between the two individuals. i like my Owner micromanaging me, being strict, mean and lecturing me. It is what She wants and expects ..... and what i need to be happy. i understand that others may think its crazy, i really don't care what they think, only what She thinks.

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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity
Back to the topic at hand...what two consenting adults choose to do as far as their dynamic goes is the business of only two people. The two who are engaged in said dynamic. Period. End of story. Financial domination is not my personal cup of tea kink-wise, but then again...there are probably things that are my cup of tea kink-wise that are not shared favorably by another. To each their own and we all just need to let each other live our lives without passing judgment.

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
If you can't respect others fetishes, how can you consider yourself a member of the fetish lifestyle?

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
If you can't respect others fetishes, how can you consider yourself a member of the fetish lifestyle?

My standard answer to that? If my neighbors fetishized the barbecuing of babies I wouldn't be respectful of them or their fetish. Nope, I reserve the right to exercise judgement. The question in my mind is what SORT Of judgement am I exercising and whether it's as open-minded as I'd like it to be?

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: TNDommeK
If you can't respect others fetishes, how can you consider yourself a member of the fetish lifestyle?

My standard answer to that? If my neighbors fetishized the barbecuing of babies I wouldn't be respectful of them or their fetish. Nope, I reserve the right to exercise judgement. The question in my mind is what SORT Of judgement am I exercising and whether it's as open-minded as I'd like it to be?

I was meaning that within the guidelines of not cooking babies ;) But I think you caught My drift. Meaning if one is into scat, I am definitely not but, who am I to judge them and their fetish. Now if they are cooking babies, yea I would have an issue as well.

LOL Seeking Trinity.."small human types" lol