RedMagic1
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Fast reply to the last couple pages: When I was deciding what I wanted to call myself here, I was torn between "Horny Net Geek" or "Fake Dom." HNG has worked out pretty well for me, because every once in a while, the comments are hilarious. On topic: There are certainly plenty of women in the world with kidnap-and-rape fantasies. I have no doubt there are men with extortion fantasies. Personally, I enjoy giving women gifts. I enjoy giving men gifts too, though, so I don't think it's sexual for me. It's fun! I am certain there are fin addicts, much as there are sex addicts. I'm also certain there are women who take advantage of male fin addicts, and get them to spend way beyond their means. There's even a name for that: rinsers. And, yes, that seems like an abusive relationship to me, regardless of verbally stated consent. But hell. Many vanilla couples engage in some form of findom, because one person deals with the finances and the other does not. This "findom" thing is an extremely common situation, and has been for thousands of years. The controversial aspect here is "findomme" with an M-E at the end of the word.
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Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others. - 15th century Aztec
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