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kalikshama -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/30/2012 5:40:26 PM)

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added a line in my profile that I was not a tourist attraction

can I borrow this for my prof? I like...


By all means!




kalikshama -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/30/2012 5:45:55 PM)

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Oh, Kana, if you were not taken I would meet you anytime. I might RUN after I meet you, but I would totally meet you.


Ditto!




JanahX -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/30/2012 7:14:47 PM)

In my hood, thats what we call a drive-by-dom. I flip 'em off and tell 'em to keep on driving -




MercTech -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/31/2012 10:44:13 AM)

Ok... have to talk about the flipside.

I spent several years traveling for employment. And I would often invite someone from this site to meet for a meal when I was in their area.

The girl I've been with for four years was one I invited to dinner as I was passing through her town.

You never know what will happen. I would not even consider asking for a play date with someone I had not met in person ahead of time but I'm enough of a conversation slut I'll invite someone interesting to meet at a neutral location like a restaurant to meet and chat face to face.




sexyred1 -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/31/2012 12:20:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MercTech

Ok... have to talk about the flipside.

I spent several years traveling for employment. And I would often invite someone from this site to meet for a meal when I was in their area.

The girl I've been with for four years was one I invited to dinner as I was passing through her town.

You never know what will happen. I would not even consider asking for a play date with someone I had not met in person ahead of time but I'm enough of a conversation slut I'll invite someone interesting to meet at a neutral location like a restaurant to meet and chat face to face.


See that makes more sense. I actually did that with someone from another site, he and I had chatted and I went to dinner with him when he was on business. No play, just two people having dinner.

And that approach would work much better, especially if you had already introduced yourself. I think it the ones who just randomly drop into my inbox who just say, hey, I am passing through let's hook up.

As in all things, it is tone and intent and approach.




ChatteParfaitt -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/31/2012 12:39:35 PM)

It would be completely different if someone I knew from online only, said "Hey, going to be going through your area next week, how about hooking up for lunch, dinner, a beverage?" my answer is pretty much always going to be: "I'd love to."

If you're on my IM list or someone I talk with on the boards here or elsewhere, hell yeah, I'd like to meet you in person. I do this once or twice a month on a routine basis. I really have met a *lot* of people from online.

The drive by invite with the naming of the hotel is so very different in a cheesy sleazy kinda way. It's yeah, all sub fems must be sluts, and if I message enough of them, I'll get lucky. Gawd I hate that crap.





Lucifyre -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/31/2012 1:23:07 PM)

Well...consider this a drive by invite...if anyone (only names I have conversed with and recognize btw) is ever passing thrugh the Orlando/Daytona area feel free to PM me, Mr and I would love to come out and hang out for a dinner evening ;)
There's plenty of decent restaraunts around here for any taste you can imagine...and Luci likes to eat!
Just dinner ya perverts!

Anyway...there it is ;)

Lucifyre




LadyHibiscus -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/31/2012 1:24:47 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MercTech

Ok... have to talk about the flipside.

I spent several years traveling for employment. And I would often invite someone from this site to meet for a meal when I was in their area.

The girl I've been with for four years was one I invited to dinner as I was passing through her town.

You never know what will happen. I would not even consider asking for a play date with someone I had not met in person ahead of time but I'm enough of a conversation slut I'll invite someone interesting to meet at a neutral location like a restaurant to meet and chat face to face.



Well sure, I do that whenever I'm travelling to an area where one of my online pals is. People that I have some kind of contact with already. Not random folks off the profile side.




sexyred1 -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/31/2012 1:26:27 PM)

Exactly. If anyone from here that I have interacted came through and wanted to meet, I would do in a heartbeat. Just not a strange dude.




Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/31/2012 2:43:01 PM)

What do you do with an ashtray? you put a cigarette out in it, or dump your ashes in it. So it's pretty self explanatory to me what that means.
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ORIGINAL: culareD

"i'll give you 500, To tie my legs spreed wide open and use me as an ash tray."Here's another one...what does this even mean?????? WTFE

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Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (8/31/2012 3:06:40 PM)

And If someone offered to pay me and was serious and not a flake I'd totally take their money for something like that, and give them exactly what they asked for and nothing more lol.




everhope -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (9/1/2012 8:39:29 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

Well...consider this a drive by invite...if anyone (only names I have conversed with and recognize btw) is ever passing thrugh the Orlando/Daytona area feel free to PM me, Mr and I would love to come out and hang out for a dinner evening ;)
There's plenty of decent restaraunts around here for any taste you can imagine...and Luci likes to eat!
Just dinner ya perverts!

Anyway...there it is
Lucifyre


hey..i live in Port Orange...close enough to Daytona to have dinner, lunch, breakfast?
b




RemoteUser -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (9/1/2012 8:57:23 AM)

I don't mind meeting other peeps, but I tend to travel with purpose. [:D]

When I head out on the 5th to see my girl, I'll be stopping in Chicago, and then in Charlotte on the way back - but those layovers are only an hour long. Not enough time to really meet anyone, more like wander through gift shops waiting for the flight to take off, eh.




JstAnotherSub -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (9/1/2012 1:22:38 PM)

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You should add into your profile: I will not meet with anyone for any reason no matter how special you think you are before I've come to know you well online.


That doesn't even work for fat old broads like me, much less someone with those shoes!




Lucifyre -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (9/1/2012 2:03:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: everhope


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

Well...consider this a drive by invite...if anyone (only names I have conversed with and recognize btw) is ever passing thrugh the Orlando/Daytona area feel free to PM me, Mr and I would love to come out and hang out for a dinner evening ;)
There's plenty of decent restaraunts around here for any taste you can imagine...and Luci likes to eat!
Just dinner ya perverts!

Anyway...there it is
Lucifyre


hey..i live in Port Orange...close enough to Daytona to have dinner, lunch, breakfast?
b



Sounds like fun!
p.m me and we can set up a good day to hang out!
Since you live so close, we could even make it a beach afternoon if you want ;)

Lucifyre




BambiBoi -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (9/1/2012 2:43:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: culareD

My question though, what should I do before I block this guy, if anything?

What am I missing in my profile that would suggest I would even do this?



Nothing. And nothing. There is nothing you did or could do to prevent this other than sending all messages from males directly to junk folder. Unless he becomes habitual, put it out of your mind, it's as done as getting cat called on your way to work. This is the kind of guy who wouldn't read your profile and certainly wouldn't comply with your rules.

He is taking a quantity over quality approach. And if you tag enough doe with "hey, how you doing?" you're bound to get a little tail.




BambiBoi -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (9/1/2012 2:45:14 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

quote:

ORIGINAL: everhope


quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucifyre

Well...consider this a drive by invite...if anyone (only names I have conversed with and recognize btw) is ever passing thrugh the Orlando/Daytona area feel free to PM me, Mr and I would love to come out and hang out for a dinner evening ;)
There's plenty of decent restaraunts around here for any taste you can imagine...and Luci likes to eat!
Just dinner ya perverts!

Anyway...there it is
Lucifyre


hey..i live in Port Orange...close enough to Daytona to have dinner, lunch, breakfast?
b



Sounds like fun!
p.m me and we can set up a good day to hang out!
Since you live so close, we could even make it a beach afternoon if you want ;)

Lucifyre


If I started my day at 4:00am I could make it too! But I need lots of subscreen since I'm all fair and shorn. That was honestly supposed to be "sunscreen" but I opted to leave the Freudian slip in.




Lucifyre -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (9/1/2012 4:14:55 PM)


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ORIGINAL: BambiBoi

[If I started my day at 4:00am I could make it too! But I need lots of subscreen since I'm all fair and shorn. That was honestly supposed to be "sunscreen" but I opted to leave the Freudian slip in.



*or* you could do what we already talked about on the phone and when you get more than 1 day to yourself and happen to be headed this way you could make whole day of it.
Once I am well enough in a few more weeks I am planning to head to the Woodshed more freuqently than we did before on Saturday nights and Mr and I are happy to have you come along maybe do the afternoon beach and then dinner then the Shed...

Lucifyre




BambiBoi -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (9/1/2012 4:29:56 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Lucifyre


quote:

ORIGINAL: BambiBoi

[If I started my day at 4:00am I could make it too! But I need lots of subscreen since I'm all fair and shorn. That was honestly supposed to be "sunscreen" but I opted to leave the Freudian slip in.



*or* you could do what we already talked about on the phone and when you get more than 1 day to yourself and happen to be headed this way you could make whole day of it.
Once I am well enough in a few more weeks I am planning to head to the Woodshed more freuqently than we did before on Saturday nights and Mr and I are happy to have you come along maybe do the afternoon beach and then dinner then the Shed...

Lucifyre


Decisions, decisions: The good problems in life.




Aswad -> RE: HECK no..she won't go... (9/2/2012 1:01:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Then, I hit that nice "mark as spam and delete" button.


While I sympathize with the frustration and probably have more reason to want to be rid of them than you do, that's not spam.

How about petitioning for a "mark as idiot and delete" button, or a karma system on that side of the board?

IWYW,
— Aswad.





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