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Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 11:21:06 AM

paavo

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i want to ask Dominants Mistresses , what will be the hardest punishment which You will give to Your sub / slave and what will motivate You to punish him or what will be the reason for punishing him ?

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 12:31:26 PM

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The harshest punishment would be being released.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 12:35:38 PM

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The harshest punishment would be being released.

This, definitely. The end of the relationship would be the worst consequence he could impose.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 12:39:39 PM

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OsideGirl,

releasing him is a gift for him or a punishment for him ?

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 12:42:52 PM

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AthenaSurrenders,

if the end of the relationship is a punishment then You are very kind and merciful

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 12:52:50 PM

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Release would be the worst, I agree with Oside. I have done that to a few, it is not pretty. It breaks my heart sometimes, but it has to be done.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:05:44 PM

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if You release him , he will be captured by another Mistress

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:06:38 PM

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AthenaSurrenders,

if the end of the relationship is a punishment then You are very kind and merciful

I'm actually the sub, but either way, I don't see it as merciful.

I love my partner, I find being his sub to be immensely fulfilling and my life is very happy. If it all ended, I would be incredibly sad to put it mildly.

I would willingly suffer pretty much any level of pain rather than lose him.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:08:07 PM

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AthenaSurrenders,

if the end of the relationship is a punishment then You are very kind and merciful

I'm actually the sub, but either way, I don't see it as merciful.

I love my partner, I find being his sub to be immensely fulfilling and my life is very happy. If it all ended, I would be incredibly sad to put it mildly.

I would willingly suffer pretty much any level of pain rather than lose him.

Pretty much this.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:14:16 PM

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if You release him , he will be captured by another Mistress

That would make for amusing gatherings. Dominant women tiptoeing along at play parties or munches, sticking to walls and hiding behind furniture, approaching the wary sub men who stay huddled and whispering in nervous packs, ever watchful for those predatory femdoms. One of them hears a floorboard creek. He turns, startled, just as a femdom leaps out at him, swinging her giant butterfly net in the air with a triumphant, primal scream, bringing the net down squarely around the panicked sub. But alas for the sub, whose pack has already fled in terror before the advancing femdom, he has been captured by the wily dominant woman and is now hers until she releases him.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:15:34 PM

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if You release him , he will be captured by another Mistress

That would make for amusing gatherings. Dominant women tiptoeing along at play parties or munches, sticking to walls and hiding behind furniture, approaching the wary sub men who stay huddled and whispering in nervous packs, ever watchful for those predatory femdoms. One of them hears a floorboard creek. He turns, startled, just as a femdom leaps out at him, swinging her giant butterfly net in the air with a triumphant, primal scream, bringing the net down squarely around the panicked sub. But alas for the sub, whose pack has already fled in terror before the advancing femdom, he has been captured by the wily dominant woman and is now hers until she releases him.

I am deeply grateful that you have stopped lurking. Yes I am.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:16:59 PM

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You could get yourself quite a fanbase if you started writing erotica along those lines.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:23:12 PM

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if You release him , he will be captured by another Mistress

Or he will be alone for the rest of his life, with his only outlets being immersing himself in pornography and asking mind-numbingly stupid questions on internet forums.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:24:56 PM

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if You release him , he will be captured by another Mistress

Or he will be alone for the rest of his life, with his only outlets being immersing himself in pornography and asking mind-numbingly stupid questions on internet forums.

Your cruelty excites me.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:26:30 PM

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if You release him , he will be captured by another Mistress

Or he will be alone for the rest of his life, with his only outlets being immersing himself in pornography and asking mind-numbingly stupid questions on internet forums.

I think I love you....

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:38:23 PM

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Stef,

You assigned by Goddess Ishtar to punish me

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 1:38:37 PM

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Also agree with this.

It basically means you have done something bad enough that I no longer wish to have anything to do with you.

If the submissive cared about it as much, or more, than you... this will be a very distressing action. They are now out on their own and no longer have you to turn to for anything. Doesn't mean they will "hate" it, but if they enjoyed the relationship they certainly shouldn't be thinking it's a reward. If that's the case the relationship is better off over anyways.

Short of that the most severe punishment short of dismissal would be someone dependent upon the submissive in question.
Usually I find lack of attention/affection (such as corner time) to be the most generally affective. But YMMV on that as the variety of people out there mean at least one will get off on anything you can think of.

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The harshest punishment would be being released.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 2:06:15 PM

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Stef,

You assigned by Goddess Ishtar to punish me

If she is, she'll release you from the forums.

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 2:34:01 PM

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if You release him , he will be captured by another Mistress

That would make for amusing gatherings. Dominant women tiptoeing along at play parties or munches, sticking to walls and hiding behind furniture, approaching the wary sub men who stay huddled and whispering in nervous packs, ever watchful for those predatory femdoms. One of them hears a floorboard creek. He turns, startled, just as a femdom leaps out at him, swinging her giant butterfly net in the air with a triumphant, primal scream, bringing the net down squarely around the panicked sub. But alas for the sub, whose pack has already fled in terror before the advancing femdom, he has been captured by the wily dominant woman and is now hers until she releases him.

Of course for the more resistant sub, the femdom will need to use the tranquilizer gun, like they do in so many of those nature programs on television. Once he's down, she can walk up to him and, while stapling the I.D. tag to his ear or whatever, declare, "Oooohhh ... he's a big one!"

To get back to the O.P.: I've given a couple hard corporal sessions for punishment, but I'd much rather just discuss why I'm displeased and how I'd like to see his behavior improve. Like the others I suppose that releasing a sub would be the ultimate "punishment," but to me releasing him is more like saying, "We've gone as far as we can here; this is no longer working for me."

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RE: Hardest Punishment ? - 8/30/2012 8:52:06 PM

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Stef,

You assigned by Goddess Ishtar to punish me

If she is, she'll release you from the forums.

Ha! this^

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