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Fp4 -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 9:38:01 AM)

I think a pro would be your best bet. Make sure they're good looking, lots of dommes who engage in this type of activity are hideous.




Lockit -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 9:41:31 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kmm7162

Lockit, again words of wisdom.
Thanks!
I have never allowed a Dom to take full control of me, I usually end up twisting things in my favor....and she gives up and allows me to indulge.
There has been power struggles...b/w me and the Dom.



Well that sure as hell wouldn't happen with someone like me or a number of the ladies I know around here. See, we see you coming a mile off. However what is really important is, that you don't see us coming even if we are one inch from your face. You want the position, but you don't get it. Therefore, I doubt you will get it.

I see power struggle and I don't see it as a flaw in myself unless it is a flaw in myself. I see it as... someone trying to convince me of something that holds no merit in my life and therefore he has no merit in my life. If I can't own his heart/respect/dedication... why would I wish to give him anything at all? There are better submissives out there... somewhere.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 9:50:34 AM)

We've had "submissive" men come here trying to tell us what we should do to express our dominance, how Activity X should make us feel, all that sort of thing. I'm not buying it. Most of us aren't buying it. Because guess what! MEN DON'T GET TO TELL US WHAT TO DO! It's pretty great.




Kmm7162 -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:22:24 AM)

lady H and lockit, for some reason i am not able to read your responses- have you both responded after my 2nd from last post?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:23:01 AM)

I think so! :)




Lockit -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:31:06 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kmm7162

lady H and lockit, for some reason i am not able to read your responses- have you both responded after my 2nd from last post?


ROFL! Do ya think we're stupid?

Oh yeah... you can't see this! [sm=seesaw.gif]




Kmm7162 -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:33:34 AM)

Well ladies, I have finally read your most recent posts.
I am confused!
This thread was not intended to play mind games with Mistresses or sit behind the computer masterbating over the responses I read.
But my only experiences with Mistresses or Doms have been as a service and tribute paid.
The confusion on my part is that both the Dom and the Sub are part of a business deal correct? IF the Sub does not express his desires and how he wants them performed to the Dom without requesting, questioning performance and expectations...where is that confusing to you or as an act of disrespect or replaced control?
I think your responses to my posts without merit.
Lady H, by no means have I intended to disrespect your lifestyle- please forgive me.

Lockit! "you see guy like me coming a mile away"?
What do you see?
I am only a man that has desires and requests.
If I dont ask or inquire, how can the Dom and Sub co-exist.
Respect should be earned and received with integrity.
If you are mistaken to believe that a sub has no opinions-request or rights then I pity the sub in your presence.
And to you Ms. Lockit, I do not intend to be disrespectful or insulting.
I hope you realize my sincere intentions for inquiry and analysis.




GreedyTop -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:35:06 AM)

quit watching porn, dude. seriously.




Kmm7162 -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:37:13 AM)

My only intention with this thread is to learn more about Dom's




Lockit -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:42:47 AM)

What might I ask is sincere or has integrity in the following statement?


quote:

ORIGINAL: Kmm7162

Lockit, again words of wisdom.
Thanks!
I have never allowed a Dom to take full control of me, I usually end up twisting things in my favor....and she gives up and allows me to indulge.
There has been power struggles...b/w me and the Dom.




You cannot make a serious conversation out of combined motives. You cannot compare your experience with professionals you have experienced in one post and then those you manipulate by twisting things up. If you think we will continue to play this game... well, you are twisting it all up... solo as far as I am concerned. I have no time to play games of this nature. I would rather play jewels on my kindle or something equally as boring and non productive.




Kmm7162 -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:43:01 AM)

Greedytop...what gets you going?
Whatever it is....i dont care!
So in turn- dont bother commenting on my thread- this isnt about watching porn!
It's my thing- and I want to learn more about Doms and toilet slavery




Kmm7162 -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:47:49 AM)

Lockit,
I do not claim to have unlimited experience as a sub.
I am learning and if mistakes are made at least would admit to that.
I have paid for services, and along with that...even before the initial appointment, I explained to each Dom that I need to be coached or taught as well and I would have no problem paying more as a tribute for patience and a willingness to teach.
If I appeared to play games....then that has never been my intention.
Maybe I havent found the proper Dom who can teach me.
I do not attempt to play games with a Dom.




GreedyTop -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:51:43 AM)

I will comment anywhere I care to as long as the Mods do not determine it is against TOS. DEAL.

Folks who are NOT pros have given you their views on your original post. Apparently, that is not what you want to hear.

So you are left with posts that don't feed your kink. again, deal. your kink is NOT COMMON as several people have said.

DEAL.




Kmm7162 -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:54:28 AM)

greedytop- this isnt about watching porn BRO.
negative or positive points of view are welcome but your post was unnecessary.
It's that simple.





GreedyTop -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:55:35 AM)

bro *laughs*



so, you haven't bothered to read anything that doesn't feed your kink.




Kmm7162 -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:55:46 AM)

Anyway...I am not here to create enemies or make harsh statements.
So greedytop...you are correct, you can post whatever you wish.
It really isnt my place to comment about what you post.




Lockit -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:58:18 AM)

Okay that made me laugh! The proper dom to teach you? Paying for submissive training and telling her you need it? ROFL! What kind of domina worth her weight in chocolate would fall for that fantasy line? What kind of domina worth her weight in gold wouldn't already know or as I said... saw you coming a mile off?

That innocent... new to this and need training... all while manipulating, calling the shots and getting out of a situation by claiming to be innocent, newbie, needs training and hasn't found the PROPER dom to change all that is a dime a dozen around here and doesn't work except on those taking your money and not having to agree with you or the fool that will fall for anything.

See ya dude...




GreedyTop -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 10:59:35 AM)

Like I tried to tell him, Lockit.. step away from the porn.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 11:28:23 AM)

If you are PAYING for your scene, of course you can get what you want from that BUSINESS TRANSACTION. That's why we're pointing you to that. Those of us who are dominant for "free" as it were get to do what pleases US.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Toilet slavery and a Mistress (9/5/2012 11:30:02 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Fp4

I think a pro would be your best bet. Make sure they're good looking, lots of dommes who engage in this type of activity are hideous.



Hideous? How unfortunate. But how many of us are figures of beauty from that particular angle?




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