LuckyAlbatross
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You can't expect to love everything. Some women don't like oral sex and I totally don't get that...but they don't.
I suggest trying something three times before making a clear decision on it when it's a "maybe" situation like this. Once is just to feel it and get a sense of it, twice is to get into the groove, and third is to have enough info to make a decision and to have gotten the "kinks" worked out.
Most people when they do wax ONLY do wax- they don't do any other play as an interference. This is partly because wax gets EVERYWHERE and you don't want it getting on all your other toys and stuff. And because wax takes time to get on and off, it tends to be a nice soft, often spiritually connective, sort of scene. And obviously for the reason of your experience- it distracts and takes away from the wax itself.
For your reading pleasure, why not try this:
This is my general wax play design, easily modifiable if you want to
include multiple people.
Supplies: wax, long tip lighter, sheet or tarp, baby oil, knife,
baby powder, blindfold, (if using a crock pot, ladle, spatula,
paintbrush, any other spreading toys that look interesting)
Get the wax: Either two blocks of paraffin and two glassed church
candles melted together in a crock pot, or just the church candles
for easier transporting. I haven't noticed much temperature
derivation using these types of candles, but white wax is harder to
see where it falls and green tends to just look black on a person.
Start prep at least 2 hours before the scene by lighting the candles
or starting the wax to melt. If the candles are cold, it will take
longer and the wax won't melt as evenly
Prep the area: Flat surface is necessary, a bondage or massage
table usually works fine and is padded. Outside is nice because you
don't have to worry about getting wax on anything. If you are on
the floor, put a flannel sheet or comforter down first to keep
things from being too cold. Cover with an old sheet or tarp, and if
you're off the floor, cover the area nearby as well. Wax will get
everywhere! Lay out all supplies beforehand, you don't want to have
to leave burning candles or naked person alone too long. Also, make
sure your area is well-heated. Even though the wax will get them
warm and give them a nice shell, when it comes off they will feel
the cooler air.
Prep the people: Don't wear your good fetish gear! Again, wax will
get everywhere. For the waxer, wear throw away clothes and/or an
apron. For the waxee, get them naked and blindfolded. I like to
have their focus totally on the wax sensations and you don't have to
worry about wax splattering into eyes. Lay them down on the
surface, starting stomach down usually works best.
Start the scene: Start to connect with the bottom by massaging
their skin, letting them relax into position and get used to your
touch. Massage the baby oil onto their skin. Not only does this
feel yummy, but prevents wax from painfully sticking to hair and
makes it much easier to peel or scrape off. Once you're fully into
the scene, you can get into the wax.
Waxing: I start generally about 18 inches above the persons skin.
Get a good full layer all over their body. Be careful about
dripping on the sides as the skin is more sensitive. Once you've
established an initial layer, you can have more fun with sensations,
bringing the wax lower or higher to build heat (the higher the wax,
the more the splatter). You can paint the wax on, let it drip
slowly or just wash it over them with a ladle. The feet are also
lots of fun. On the stomach, be careful of the belly button.
Sometimes it's good just to put a plug of wax in there or cover it
with a cotton ball.
Removing wax: Wax is likely to still be slightly soft and pliable.
If you're peeling the wax, getting as much in one motion is a very
awesome feeling for the sub. Slowly start at the edges and pull up,
gathering the wax as you go. If you scrape, just press down gently
and pull towards the wax and down. There's always a few drips and
splatters to scrape off. If you've used oil, it should come off
fairly easily. Don't try to get off every piece of wax- a good
shower will do the best job at that.
After the wax: Once you've removed the wax, I sprinkle babypowder
all over the skin. The skin is very sensitive at this point and the
cool softness of the powder feels like rose petals just falling
down. You can rub the powder in and smooth over the skin. This
will help dry off some of the oil as well.
If you want to reuse your sheet, put it in the freezer to freeze the
wax, take it outside and get as much as you can off by shaking or
pulling it. Then toss in the washer and drier to remove the rest.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_313162/mpage_1/key_wax%252Cplay/tm.htm#314761
wax play
http://www.collarchat.com/m_154985/mpage_1/key_wax%252Cplay/tm.htm#155014
wax
http://www.collarchat.com/m_152905/mpage_1/key_wax%252Cplay/tm.htm#153176
waxplay on wikipedia
http://www.collarchat.com/m_124882/mpage_1/key_wax%252Cplay/tm.htm#124963
crockpots used for paraffin
http://www.collarchat.com/m_94679/mpage_1/key_wax%252Cplay/tm.htm#94772
wax job
< Message edited by LuckyAlbatross -- 6/12/2006 5:50:05 AM >
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