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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:01:24 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Even if they have a pulse, so what? They could still be someone not appropriate.

I do math for a living, and if someone asked me a math question from the get-go that wasn't from some game or other I would stop talking to them also. I've never engaged with a bot, but I am guessing that that aren't capable of complex conversations.



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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:04:02 PM   
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Even if they have a pulse, so what? They could still be someone not appropriate.

I do math for a living, and if someone asked me a math question from the get-go that wasn't from some game or other I would stop talking to them also. I've never engaged with a bot, but I am guessing that that aren't capable of complex conversations.




Ah..yeah...actually they are capable. They're very predictive, and the entire goal is to get you to sign up for subscription websites. I don't know about the rest of you, but I don't have time to deal with these things. That said, yes, I'm going to make sure the person is alive before I start talking to them. To make it even better, once the bot has your yahoo ID, it'll start spamming you every day. Block it? Sure, then you start getting spam from another bot. I have my reasons for being a dick.

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:08:07 PM   
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So can anyone illuminate to me what a good, fast way to sort the bullshit is and really actually meet people via this site?

Think with the big head and use some common sense. That will take care of 99% of your issues here.

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:10:24 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Why give out your yahoo ID AT ALL?

Is it really this complicated? I MEET PEOPLE FROM THIS SITE ALL THE TIME. I don't HAVE a Yahoo ID. What kind of screening process are you using to contact people?

Also, I hope that you are reporting the scammer profiles.

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:12:42 PM   
ETOX123


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Why give out your yahoo ID AT ALL?

Is it really this complicated? I MEET PEOPLE FROM THIS SITE ALL THE TIME. I don't HAVE a Yahoo ID. What kind of screening process are you using to contact people?

Also, I hope that you are reporting the scammer profiles.


It's pretty simple. They sent me a message that sounds legit along with a yahoo ID and I'll contact them. 90% of the time they turn out to be real. It's the 10% that are bots that turn me into a real dick. Also, I'd like to let you know that typing in caps does not make your message louder. If you are getting angry over my message, you may want to sit on the floor in front of your desk and spin around ten to fifteen times to reduce your anger.

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:15:54 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Why give out your yahoo ID AT ALL?

Is it really this complicated? I MEET PEOPLE FROM THIS SITE ALL THE TIME. I don't HAVE a Yahoo ID. What kind of screening process are you using to contact people?

Also, I hope that you are reporting the scammer profiles.


It's pretty simple. They sent me a message that sounds legit along with a yahoo ID and I'll contact them. 90% of the time they turn out to be real. It's the 10% that are bots that turn me into a real dick. Also, I'd like to let you know that typing in caps does not make your message louder. If you are getting angry over my message, you may want to sit on the floor in front of your desk and spin around ten to fifteen times to reduce your anger.


Oh honey. Please, try and use sarcasm when it's appropriate.

So. Instead of carrying on a conversation via cmail, you immediately go to yahoo. And nine times out of ten they ARE real humans. So, you don't have time to filter 10% of your experiences?

Okay then. Good luck with what you've got going on there.


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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:15:56 PM   
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To make it even better, once the bot has your yahoo ID, it'll start spamming you every day. Block it? Sure, then you start getting spam from another bot. I have my reasons for being a dick.

I wont address the you being a dick part.. I do agree with you about the spamming once they get your yahoo addy... try this.. set up a second yahoo addy to screen people/bots first, if you find that they are real then give them your real addy.. That is about the only thing i can suggest about that.. spammers on yahoo msgr tick me off too.. so I feel for you with that..

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:16:08 PM   
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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:16:56 PM   
ETOX123


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: ETOX123


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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Why give out your yahoo ID AT ALL?

Is it really this complicated? I MEET PEOPLE FROM THIS SITE ALL THE TIME. I don't HAVE a Yahoo ID. What kind of screening process are you using to contact people?

Also, I hope that you are reporting the scammer profiles.


It's pretty simple. They sent me a message that sounds legit along with a yahoo ID and I'll contact them. 90% of the time they turn out to be real. It's the 10% that are bots that turn me into a real dick. Also, I'd like to let you know that typing in caps does not make your message louder. If you are getting angry over my message, you may want to sit on the floor in front of your desk and spin around ten to fifteen times to reduce your anger.


Oh honey. Please, try and use sarcasm when it's appropriate.

So. Instead of carrying on a conversation via cmail, you immediately go to yahoo. And nine times out of ten they ARE real humans. So, you don't have time to filter 10% of your experiences?

Okay then. Good luck with what you've got going on there.



What sarcasm?

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:28:42 PM   
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Funny thing, I assume anyone male or female who wants me to contact them on anything but cmail to be fake-- unless I've met them for that first coffee/tea.


For the most part, I do too...if it comes in the very first email. But, I don't do yahoo with anyone, anyway.

As for the rest, if anybody asked me to prove myself before we even have a conversation, I would just click the little red X and move on with my life.


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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:31:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Alecta

Funny thing, I assume anyone male or female who wants me to contact them on anything but cmail to be fake-- unless I've met them for that first coffee/tea.


For the most part, I do too...if it comes in the very first email. But, I don't do yahoo with anyone, anyway.

As for the rest, if anybody asked me to prove myself before we even have a conversation, I would just click the little red X and move on with my life.



Yeah, I'm afraid it's a little different when you're dealing with instant messenger conversations. If I don't know you, I'm going to question why you gave me your Yahoo ID, and I'm going to make sure you're human. Don't agree with me? Not my problem.

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:37:03 PM   
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Don't agree with me? Not my problem.



It really doesn't matter to me. I've found what I'm looking for.

But in a venue where men outnumber women at least 10:1, it seems like you're cutting off your nose to spite your face by being "a dick".


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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:46:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Why give out your yahoo ID AT ALL?

Is it really this complicated? I MEET PEOPLE FROM THIS SITE ALL THE TIME. I don't HAVE a Yahoo ID. What kind of screening process are you using to contact people?

Also, I hope that you are reporting the scammer profiles.


It's pretty simple. They sent me a message that sounds legit along with a yahoo ID and I'll contact them. 90% of the time they turn out to be real. It's the 10% that are bots that turn me into a real dick. Also, I'd like to let you know that typing in caps does not make your message louder. If you are getting angry over my message, you may want to sit on the floor in front of your desk and spin around ten to fifteen times to reduce your anger.


You have a pretty smart mouth for someone so young and new to the forums. You might have an easier time here if you stop insulting people who have years and years of experience.

Oh, and maybe stop trying to get into the pants of every girl you meet.


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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:48:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		I wanna say to the OPs and the guy who is about to make tons of friends on the forums, that you guys have gotten great advice by people who have been on this site and the other side for a number of years. So take it for what it is worth to you.
And as far as the "stay away from fin Dommes" part...well if that is your thing, don't stay away. I would make sure that the particular fin Domme you found an interest in was real (and by real I mean knows what she is doing and isn't just trying to rinse your ass. But hey- you might be into that). I will say there are very few who IMO do know what they are doing.
Hmm, a few more pieces of advice, do not knock another's kink, always lead with your vanilla self first (kinks and fetishes will fall into play later), get out and go to parties, have patience-LOTS of it. Oh and try not to be a dick and you will get far on this site.

Oh one other things, have a sense of humor...people like that sort of thing.

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 12:54:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'd recommend chatting about local events/landmarks. Lots of bots can talk about sex, but if I run into one that can talk about hiking the M trail,
I want to talk to it's author about AI :) Of course this only works if you are looking for someone local, but I am. Once I confirm that someone is
human, local, and at least slightly interesting, the next step is to meet somewhere public so that we can both get some idea if there is any chemistry.
This weeds out the ones who are just having a fantasy of meeting and too scared to ever do it.

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 1:02:57 PM   
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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 1:08:27 PM   
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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 1:13:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Why give out your yahoo ID AT ALL?

Is it really this complicated? I MEET PEOPLE FROM THIS SITE ALL THE TIME. I don't HAVE a Yahoo ID. What kind of screening process are you using to contact people?

Also, I hope that you are reporting the scammer profiles.


It's pretty simple. They sent me a message that sounds legit along with a yahoo ID and I'll contact them. 90% of the time they turn out to be real. It's the 10% that are bots that turn me into a real dick. Also, I'd like to let you know that typing in caps does not make your message louder. If you are getting angry over my message, you may want to sit on the floor in front of your desk and spin around ten to fifteen times to reduce your anger.


You have a pretty smart mouth for someone so young and new to the forums. You might have an easier time here if you stop insulting people who have years and years of experience.

Oh, and maybe stop trying to get into the pants of every girl you meet.



I don't want to get into anyone's pants, but that's a great assumption on your part. I appreciate it. being a sub is about being submissive to the right person, not having sex. Also, I will insult anyone I want. People don't get my respect automagically, they earn it.

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 1:16:10 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Did you know that on this site, all your forum posts are viewable? So... some female who IS interested in you can see your posting history, your style, your attitude toward women.

Some dominant women care about that sort of thing.

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RE: Hello, question about the site - 9/13/2012 1:17:09 PM   
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Did you know that on this site, all your forum posts are viewable? So... some female who IS interested in you can see your posting history, your style, your attitude toward women.

Some dominant women care about that sort of thing.



I don't have an attitude toward women, I have an attitude toward everyone. Anyone who doesn't understand this doesn't need to be in a relationship with me because I won't get along with them.

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