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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/18/2012 10:11:08 AM   
GreedyTop


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that $300 p/week!! woohoo!! after taxes....




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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/18/2012 11:09:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Oy.

that $300 p/week!! woohoo!! after taxes....





It will pay for hair/mani-pedis/make-up!!

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/18/2012 11:10:48 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/18/2012 11:18:20 AM   
myotherself


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He found me here, online. We talked in a very vanilla way for a few months before we decided to meet for coffee.

We both enjoyed the coffee, so we began to date. Still vanilla. I decided he had what it took to be the kind of dominant I needed. He decided I had what it took to be the kind of submissive he needed. That took about 3 months.

So the dating continued, but with the D/s stuff included.

After a year together we realised that I fit his definition of slave, and he fit my definition of Master. So we became Master and slave.

He still treats me like a person. He loves me, respects me and cares for me, even when he's whipping me with wire, choking me with his cock or using my nipples as his personal 'stress toys'.

I also do everything he asks, whenever he asks, because I love, respect and care for him.


Really, it's just like vanilla, but with a twist.

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/18/2012 11:34:15 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		We met at a social.

We were friends for three years.

Then we went out on a date and realized that we really liked each other beyond friends.

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/18/2012 12:15:00 PM   
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but then there are the pesky things like rent, utilities, food, etc... *sigh*


He's providing these, as well as clothes. After these expenses were met, I could certainly live on $300/week.



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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/18/2012 2:12:08 PM   
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http://www.collarchat.com/m_3234821/tm.htm

We are still together.

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/23/2012 5:39:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mensexy

hello everyone
how do i find a slave ?



First you'll need to prove that you're worthy of a slave. I'd suggest you go to the "ask a submissive" forum and talk to some subs and slaves. Do not make the mistake of treating them like subs or slaves when you ask questions. Personally, I think you're too young to have a sub or a slave, but that's just my opinion.

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/23/2012 6:06:45 PM   
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< Message edited by littlewonder -- 9/23/2012 6:07:05 PM >

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/23/2012 6:20:06 PM   
DomDaddy155


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Status: offline 		A good pro sub/slave can make 300$ an hour, not a week. If you're looking for a full time slave to hire, you better up your ante to 40K a year with benefits.

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/23/2012 6:23:49 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: mensexy

i want to hear from all the master's member in this website how they find what they need ?


Get your own mojo, Jack. Don't be going all Dr. Evil and trying to steal mine.





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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/23/2012 6:29:08 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		You are asking the wrong question. The first question should be, how can I be the man that my perfect match will want to submit to, when I find her?

To answer the question you did ask, I met my sub at a spanking party. We chatted, I asked to play with her, and afterward, we chatted some more. We exchanged Fet usernames. After the party, we chatted some on Fet and then exchanged phone numbers. I asked her over for dinner, a movie, and play - twice. Then we ate out together and went to a local show. After a couple of months, I asked her to go to synagogue with me. She moved in after a few months of dating.

We share a spanking fetish, good senses of humor, a love of gardening, high degrees of literacy, and honesty. We both needed to have all of these in our partner to make it work. In addition, I wanted a family, and she has one; and she was looking for a house to expand in and take care of, and I have one.

Please note that the entire thing was very vanilla - spending time together, checking out compatibility, etc. - except that kink was one of many components.

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/23/2012 6:30:32 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mensexy

hello everyone
how do i find a slave ?



Slaves R Us.

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/23/2012 7:15:05 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: mensexy

hello everyone
how do i find a slave ?


Go to Slaveway.

Seriously, are you 30 and you still don't know how to meet women? I say that because what you really want to know is how do you find a woman you are compatible with. Slaves are PEOPLE first. Try meeting them at munches. And DON'T just jump right into power exchange and treating them like you own them from the start. A woman may be A slave but she's NOT your slave until you both agree on that. They hate that, at least the ones I've talked to do.

NBMG

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/23/2012 8:53:01 PM   
Titaniya


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mensexy

i want to hear from all the master's memeber in this website how they find what they need ?




You get that, power dynamics aside, it's still a two way relationship, right?

You're coming off as very self-centered, and it seems like you don't fully grasp that many of the best relationships even within BDSM are reciprocal... You very well might know this, but if you're trying to impress a lady, you might want to watch the way you phrase things.

To answer your question, I usually find s-types the same way I find other partners - by stating what I'm looking for explicitly but also trying to get to know them as people before pursuing sex, romance, and/or BDSM. I have more potential partners than I have time to take on, so I'm fairly certain my approach is a reasonably good one (albeit, my gender and sexual orientation almost certainly play a role).

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/27/2012 7:31:05 PM   
Toysinbabeland


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Status: offline 		If you want to find a slave you must look within a person first.
No One can own a slave that they don't see as a conquest first.
That requires some dignity.
All others are simply doormats.

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/27/2012 7:45:56 PM   
JanahX


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ORIGINAL: mensexy

hello everyone
how do i find a slave ?



put up a big cock shot - rumor has it that brings the slaves out in droves.

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/27/2012 7:56:47 PM   
Arturas


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ORIGINAL: JanahX

quote:

ORIGINAL: mensexy

hello everyone
how do i find a slave ?



put up a big cock shot - rumor has it that brings the slaves out in droves.



Greetings JanahX,

That did not get me any slaves.

I wish you well,
Arturas

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/27/2012 8:05:43 PM   
JanahX


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Status: offline 		c'mon now - I was being DEAD SERIOUS!! I always am.

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RE: i have a qestion ? - 9/29/2012 5:25:28 PM   
stealthmeister


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www.chudwah.net

:-)

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