Extravagasm
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Cautiously written documents of consensual submission are not contraband. They are legal to have, but not court enforceable. This is as it ought be, because (contact or not) BDSM bottoms (or tops for that matter) never eviscerate a faint possibility of walking away, at the cost of forfeiting the relationship. But promises are strengthened by writing. There are even legal advantages to writing, for some personalities: 1. Persons whose intentions are stellar, but whose memories tend to stray or be unreliable or have a problem with casual lying. Keeping visible commitments can be great feedback reference for both parties. Sound familiar? 2. Persons with a history of (false?) accusations against lovers, either should abandon BDSM altogether, or reenter with evidence of consent. Written promises, though not obligatory, are nonetheless a fair, piece of evidence that consent was present. A polite approach. Even under laws of chattel, marking did not constitute the legal obligation, only EVIDENCE of something more. In this odd way, contracts are somewhat like marking, and not to be marginalized.
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