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What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/25/2012 4:05:56 AM   
TheWriter13


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Status: offline 		I'm curious what qualities do you feel make up a good Master/Mistress?
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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/25/2012 4:42:22 AM   
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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/25/2012 7:13:12 AM   
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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/25/2012 7:29:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JanahX

I look for ones that are charged for capital murder- but get off on a technicality.


I love you

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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/25/2012 7:39:44 AM   
GreedyTop


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Besides, I was trying to be *choke* helpful.....

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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/25/2012 8:09:26 AM   
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And if you want to define the subjectivity of 'good':

http://records.viu.ca/~johnstoi/nietzsche/genealogy1.htm







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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/25/2012 9:41:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I loved her first.. back off ;)


Besides, I was trying to be *choke* helpful.....


Whoa! Back off. I PM'd my love to Janah months ago.

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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/25/2012 9:58:27 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/25/2012 4:25:04 PM   
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For me a "good" master has great self control, doesn't act out of anger, knows himself very well, and is (dah!) a dominant man. He is also something of a sadist, and knows how to listen.

everything else is window dressing.

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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/25/2012 11:45:45 PM   
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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/26/2012 12:34:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Good decision making skills. If you want to be the one in charge, that means you're responsible when things go south. Which means it's really important that things go badly as rarely as possible. If you can't think things out, or don't have sufficient knowledge to know what you're doing, then you aren't safe to play with or turn control over to.

Recognizing your own limitations is essential.

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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/26/2012 3:19:14 PM   
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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/26/2012 4:42:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Intelligence, maturity, sence of humour, got
their life under control, responsible, confidant,
self reliant, competent/capable, understanding,
good social skills, down to earth.........

The list goes on!

-Aries

*umm these are really my "ideals", I'm sure
you can be a good dom without most of that...*

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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/26/2012 4:46:24 PM   
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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/27/2012 2:53:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		My Owner has all the qualities that I need in a Dominant, hence why he owns me.
These include but are not limited to;
a strong sense of will.
a firm hand
a guiding voice.
confidence not arrogance
what he says is what happens
consistency


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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/27/2012 6:55:15 AM   
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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/27/2012 4:16:16 PM   
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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 9/29/2012 8:17:29 PM   
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Oh your list mirrors my own! The ones who qualify seem to be so far and few between tho!

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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 10/1/2012 6:15:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		A good dominant leads yet almost never follows. A good dominant doesn't destroy valuable property (including their slaves) because only someone insane permanantly damages something they own. They brook no nonsense and quickly quell any sign of rebellion without anger but a have a strong will to see rebellion finished. They are the decision maker.

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RE: What qualities do feel make a good Master/Mistress? - 10/1/2012 2:17:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Honesty, intergrity, confident, responsible, loving, good sense of humor, intelligent, respectful ,set goals and takes steps to achieving them, good listener(that actually hears what I am saying) Doesn't back down challenges(be if lifestyle or otherwise) Have my back no matter what..because I will surely have his. Allows me to be myself.

Those are just a few...lol

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