tetonguide -> RE: Non-BDSM man with SM girlfriend (10/1/2012 3:23:01 PM)
Your "deal" presents you as being broken. It is unfair to atempt to engage in the level of intimacy you need when you are not "whole". Get over your issues before they stain someone ele's soul....harsh? maybe....true....absolutely. she has been upfront with you....find your spine and be upfront with her.