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Any advice would be greatly appreciated from this new "girl" in the scene.
Professional experience. As others have pointed out, the maid thing comes first. I can keep a house, but there are things a professional housekeeper know that I didn't realize there was to know. Learn those things, and get some real time experience doing them on a professional, paid basis. Put in additional hours on a volunteer basis, unpaid. Then consider the kink scene, where you may attract some attention right away by simply being good at it. Being the maid everyone wants to hire will leapfrog you ahead of 99.9% of the men out there that are looking to be sissy maids.
Since you're considering the feminization, too, the acting classes tip is a good one. If you don't already have a full height mirror, get one. It will help you do your homework. But don't neglect those classes. You won't spot all your own mannerisms, and you won't be able to get them fine tuned without that feedback.
Leaving aside the weight, six feet is tall for a woman over there. If you're going to consider feminizing your voice, you will need to see a logopede, for the simple reason that your voice box will be far larger than that of an average woman, and the exercises that can change your voice should not be attempted without a professional to work with you, as they can really mess up your vocal chords and speech habits if you don't know exactly what you're doing.
If you're going to feminize your appearance, be realistic. You will not be a small sissy. Work on getting your porportions right. Men and women usually have different muscle distribution, and almost always have different skeletal structures. Build the muscle you will keep, burn the fat you won't, but don't burn so much that you can't "sell" the contour you build under it. Your anatomy is different, and your hormones give you a different baseline, so this will take some work. Just the right amount of padding over the right muscle contour will put you closer to an atypical woman than to an akwardly styled man.
As to dress, don't make your would-be mistress teach you why long nails need to be properly filed and tapered when wearing stockings. You can learn tons about how to dress from online and offline sources, and about all the little details that go with it. Perhaps you'll never wear a bun, but it doesn't hurt to know as well as she does all the various tricks to keep one in order. Dresses and skirts are folly until you've got a good idea what your final figure will be like, but when you do, consider what will look good on you. If you can't pull it off, don't put it on. There's plenty of women that can't pull off X, so they wear Y instead. Makeup: practice makes perfect, but perfectly what? Again, figure out what works for you.
In short, don't wait around for a mistress to turn you into something you're not; become what you want to be, and let a mistress discover someone she wants to be with. She'll be looking for you, and the sissy maid part is just going to be a part of that package. Changing you will not carry a relationship. The relationship will be built on the end result.
Also, stop thinking about gender and just concentrate on being beautiful and graceful.
It's probably pretty close to what you had in mind anyway, and avoids getting locked into a specific idea about how you "should" look. Overall, women will care more about how good you look than what gender stereotype you fit into, if the most recent research I read on the subject isn't way off base. Perhaps you can totally pull off looking like a woman, but that might not be what makes you look your best. Perhaps beautiful for you won't look anything like a woman. Some of the most attractive people out there don't fit the stereotype of either gender.
Now, I have no idea what the femdoms here are looking for, but I strongly suspect that if I were into guys and had as many prospects as women tend to have, the best bet for you to get my attention would be by me turning up at an event, seeing you and wondering "Who is that class act there? I've never seen him- or is it a her?- around here before."
Be an addition to someone's life waiting to be picked up, not a project for someone to start working on. There's plenty of fixxer-uppers out there, but very few good package deals. Don't compete in the crowded, shallow end of the pool. You'll find the competition there isn't cutthroat; there's just a whole lot of it.
Then again, maybe I'm just sleepwalking at the keyboard again.
IWYW,
— Aswad.
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From then on I knew: God doesn't make the world this way.
We do." -- Rorschack, Watchmen.
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RE: Sissy maid Advice - 
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Its all part of the humilation. I was a little worried I wouldnt look girly enough because the crossdresser that did my make up was skinny as a bean pole. As I have a small petite frame, I also workout a lot and am also a little muscular. Once all dressed up I looked like a fit bitch. I was proud and humiliated at the same time. 
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