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NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 3:12:10 PM)

kinkiboiuk, the place for your personals ad is here, not on the message boards. The message boards are for discussions. That being said, I think man-on-man is uber hawt & I'd have you doing that before getting near my own "business."

NBMG



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/29/2012 11:17:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kinkiboiuk

I've been 100% gay throughout my life but suddenly have the urge to be dominated by a sexy slim woman. I have this fantasy for being stripped, tied up and blindfolded and made to suck your tits and lick you out and forced to fuck you with my thick 7.5" cock. We'd both be wearing sexy stockings. Would like to go further and maybe try that as a threesome with a couple!

I live in Bristol so someone in the local area would be great.



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Oh, be still my heart and fluttering tw*t!

[8|]Seriously dude, know this about women: generally speaking, we are very discriminating when it comes to whom we allow to touch and especially lick our peach. Again, I generalize: where many guys will encourage just about anyone to suck their dick, not so with women. Many of us don't like oral (even so-called 'good' oral, which just about every guy thinks he does so well...and doesn't) so don't get all excited thinking you're offering something special. Nor do women generally take much stock in casual penetration; your cock does not mean nearly as much to us as it does to you. Trust me on this one.

We don't like to be thought of as fetish delivery systems. Don't hand us the equivalent of a paid-session script like you did in your post: 'we'll both wear stockings, and you'll blindfold me and I'll suck your this and that, then...' For that scenario, you will have better luck hiring an escort who includes sex in her list of services.

That we are dominant women with kinky proclivities does not mean we lie in wait to indiscriminately take on any stranger wearing his fetish on his sleeve (or in his pants.) Generally, we want to know him very well, at the least like him very much, and preferably love him.

Even if I fit your desired criteria, I wouldn't be interested in what you're offering physically...there are SO many better ways for me to get off than having somebody I don't know and care for fumbling around with my delicate machinery, and don't even THINK about putting your mouth on it or my 'tits'. (That's another thing different about women: many of us are offended by crude references to our body parts. Yes, 'tits' is considered a crude reference. In established relationships, certain women may accept that type of language within context, but a dominant woman hearing it from some plonker on a message board will get you an automatic block.)

However, if you were a good friend of mine I'd sure as hell wanna direct you and another boy of my choosing in male-on-male. Now there's some good times.

Best of luck on your journey.



kinkiboiuk -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 3:36:22 AM)

Bristol is a lovely place Lady Pact!

Alecta to correct you, I was on Cam4 doing a striptease when a Mistress from the UK came online and started to talk to me, it was she who was telling she like to see me stockings tied to a bed (something she does with other guys) and it actually made me think that maybe this different direction would excite me. We will be meeting later in the year. So I am indeed a gay man about to become bi!



MsGypsey -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 4:42:09 AM)

Is it really as fluid as that? Presuming that a man has identified their sexual orientation as 'gay' for perhaps all his life, then after one experience to identify as 'bi'? I didn't think it was that simple, but I have no idea.



Alecta -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 1:07:52 PM)

What? and you're already stepping out on her? Gee. That doesn't say a good deal about your capacity for commitment lol

I stand by what I said. If a fantasy fuck from a woman is enough in your mind to turn you bi, then you were never really completely gay to begin with. I have gay friends who've had straight sex, and straight friends who've have gay/lesbian sex. It doesn't turn them bi. There's much, much more to it than who you'd let near your knob.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 1:24:47 PM)

If all it took to become bi was having sex with someone of the same gender, I would have become one a longggg time ago.

Good luck with that thing you've got going on there.



hauser -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 3:41:17 PM)

Not interested in turning you Bi. You're gay. I'm Bi. I love my life. Don't want to change it. Why would you want to change your life????



LadyPact -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 3:45:19 PM)

Oh, I'm not interested in attempting to turn the OP bi, either.

However, male on male cocksucking is always fun.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 5:49:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkiboiuk

I was on Cam4 doing a striptease when a Mistress from the UK came online and started to talk to me, it was she who was telling she like to see me stockings tied to a bed (something she does with other guys) and it actually made me think that maybe this different direction would excite me. We will be meeting later in the year. So I am indeed a gay man about to become bi!


OP, I have a question for you. Did you actually see this 'woman' interacting on cam or were you the only one visible? 'Cuz not too many actual females hang out playing the cam game unless it's for $$, and the things you described 'she' wants to do sound suspiciously male to me. Maybe 'she' figures since you're gay it won't matter when/if you actually meet that 'she' is a 'he'...



SUPERSUBMAN -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 6:17:36 PM)

kinkiboiuk,

You are now experiencing what heterosexual male submissive males experience on a daily basis.......you will never make these women happy, they constantly complain.....the fundamental problem is that they enjoy complaining. They are all divorced, many with multiple divorces......why you may ask......it's because they never stop complaining.
Bitching, whining ,complaining, all with a sense of self entitlement that defies all sense of reason.

And you are seeking a "petite" dominant woman....my friend you have a better chance of winning the Powerball Lottery 5 times in a row than you do in finding a petite woman in this crowd.....




MistressDarkArt -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 6:23:14 PM)

[8|] Great first post, dude. You just cemented all chances for meeting someone you don't have to pay to the bottom of the pond. Nice job.

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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 6:26:57 PM)

Another charmer! Yay!



Titaniya -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 6:30:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SUPERSUBMAN

kinkiboiuk,

You are now experiencing what heterosexual male submissive males experience on a daily basis.......you will never make these women happy, they constantly complain.....the fundamental problem is that they enjoy complaining. They are all divorced, many with multiple divorces......why you may ask......it's because they never stop complaining.
Bitching, whining ,complaining, all with a sense of self entitlement that defies all sense of reason.

And you are seeking a "petite" dominant woman....my friend you have a better chance of winning the Powerball Lottery 5 times in a row than you do in finding a petite woman in this crowd.....





Something tells me you've failed at finding a lady willing to do what you want and your attitude is to blame.

I receive numerous messages daily from men begging me to indulge their fantasies - why would I go to the trouble to attempt to turn a gay boy bi if all I want is some play/kinky sex?

I take pride in my sexuality, but I don't like being reduced to it, and there are submissive (wo)men who share my kinks and are willing to treat me like a human being. There's absolutely no reason for me to spend my time on people who treat me like a fetish delivery system.

Dominant women wouldn't have such high standards if there weren't people willing to meet them. If you're not in that group, don't blame us for passing you up for someone who likes us outside of the bedroom as well as within it.



SUPERSUBMAN -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 6:39:58 PM)

"Great first post, dude. You just cemented all chances for meeting someone you don't have to pay to the bottom of the pond. Nice job."

I have been in an established, long term, D/s based relationship for many years......so this "dude" has no conerns over meeting anyone. And by the way I met her at a munch, not via the Internet......and she never complains.

All you women do on here is complain and be critical of sincere male submissives seeking a relationship. Sine the original poster is bisexual he should just go back to cock and not waste his time with ladies who are just that...waste of time.



hausboy -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 6:41:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SUPERSUBMAN

kinkiboiuk,

You are now experiencing what heterosexual male submissive males experience on a daily basis.......you will never make these women happy, they constantly complain.....the fundamental problem is that they enjoy complaining. They are all divorced, many with multiple divorces......why you may ask......it's because they never stop complaining.
Bitching, whining ,complaining, all with a sense of self entitlement that defies all sense of reason.

And you are seeking a "petite" dominant woman....my friend you have a better chance of winning the Powerball Lottery 5 times in a row than you do in finding a petite woman in this crowd.....




And apparently...you are an authority on complaining.



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 6:43:58 PM)

Hmm...Super just joined, already in AAM to criticize. Do I detect the odor of dirty socks? I think so.



Titaniya -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 6:51:32 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SUPERSUBMAN

All you women do on here is complain and be critical of sincere male submissives seeking a relationship. Since the original poster is bisexual he should just go back to cock and not waste his time with ladies who are just that...waste of time.



We're critical of submissives who want us to act as personas to fulfill their fantasies. That's hardly the same thing as seeking a relationship.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 6:59:27 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

Hmm...Super just joined, already in AAM to criticize. Do I detect the odor of dirty socks? I think so.


<sniffs and sneezes> Why yes, it's definitely eau de socque.

And if Mr. Sock is so happily in a relationship, we know he's here for one reason only...



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 7:01:46 PM)

He has an abiding concern for his fellow man, MDA. [;)]



Alecta -> RE: Turn a Gay Boy Bi! (9/30/2012 7:44:04 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SUPERSUBMAN
All you women do on here is complain and be critical of sincere male submissives seeking a relationship. Sine the original poster is bisexual he should just go back to cock and not waste his time with ladies who are just that...waste of time.




Au contraire, we are ridiculously easy to satisfy, there are only two rules:
1. Don't be a twat, and
2. Be a sincere male submissive seeking a relationship.

But since the OP was GAY looking for a one night stand with a fantasy domme that will magically turn him bi with the one night stand, and since this means he wasn't seeking a relationship and makes his sincerity questionable, that makes everything you've said there off-topic.

Also, as a general statistic we tend to get a lot more done than the average guy pervving over profiles with stolen pics, with or without help from submissive men (or women). See, typing with both hands tend to get things done faster ;)



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