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Curious Boston Area Sub - 9/29/2012 9:51:39 PM

xjennabellex

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Hey all~

I'm new and curious about getting started in the scene. Where can I meet doms? How do I know I can trust one?

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RE: Curious Boston Area Sub - 9/29/2012 11:17:12 PM

ARIES83

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Welcome, I'm sure someone from your area
will be along soon to give you some info.

There's a lot of helpful people here,
Good luck.

-Aries

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RE: Curious Boston Area Sub - 9/29/2012 11:27:05 PM

xjennabellex

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Thank you~

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RE: Curious Boston Area Sub - 9/30/2012 8:58:42 AM

ResidentSadist

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"How do I know I can trust one?" Same as you would dating anywhere, it is no safer nor more dangerous in the BDSM community. Head this old Arab proverb, "better a thousand times careful than once dead".

Welcome aboard and have fun.

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RE: Curious Boston Area Sub - 9/30/2012 9:24:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: xjennabellex

Hey all~

I'm new and curious about getting started in the scene. Where can I meet doms? How do I know I can trust one?

All over planet Earth, and you don't.

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RE: Curious Boston Area Sub - 9/30/2012 3:37:03 PM

kalikshama

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Welcome from another Massachusettsian. (One of these days I'll break down and call myself a Masshole, which is easier to spell :)

Boston is chock full of kinksters. Fetlife is a great way to find events. Don't expect to be swept off your feet by your Dream Dom at the first munch you attend, but it's a great way to network.

As for trust, the short answer is trust your gut and watch to see that his actions match his words.

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