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RE: What am I? - 10/2/2012 9:58:25 AM

peppermint

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You are a wonderfully unique person. Your Master is also unique. Together you have a special relationship that is different from any others. Enjoy everything that is special about yourself, your Master, and your relationship. Don't try to stuff it all into a meaningless definition that couldn't come close to trying to explain what you have together.

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RE: What am I? - 10/3/2012 6:46:45 AM

JeffBC

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You're right, but being an indecisive person, I like to get opinions from others to help me see if I'm right or wrong. Sort of like asking the audience on Who Wants to be a Millionaire. lol

For someone who's been in the lifestyle for 20 years you've certainly gone a different direction than me. You seem to have gotten seriously into the label fetish whereas I rejected it as pointless. In your post you use lots of terms that apparently are meant to have some specific meaning like "sub", "slave", "play sub", "master", "dom", etc. Here's the rub. I don't know your definitions so I can't possibly tell you how your behavior maps to any of your definitions. I no longer have such definitions myself (too pointless). My real answer to your question would be something like:

It makes you neither since both words are totally undefined. It's akin to asking if you're a myzwrath or a panorion.

In the end, I encourage you to remember that the magic happens between the two of you. The label adds nothing and frequently can become a serious problem in the relationship. The labels are basically made up crap at this point... debated by internet people for internet people with no real connection to anything actual in the real world. Is that seriously what you want to use as any sort of lodestone or map for what sounds like a pretty nice relationship?

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