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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/1/2012 1:25:08 PM

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I wonder if people are put off by your title?

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/1/2012 2:02:44 PM

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Do 24/7 Slaves exist, or are they a figment of a fetid imagination?

I have the potential of being a humongously humongous pink, orange, blue and purple
swirled lollipop. If you add certain ingredients, I can taste sweet or sour, or a combination of both.
I may even develop a bubble gum center. But right now, I'm just a stick, living a very happy existence in Stickville.

The point is, 24/7 slaves do not come off the assembly line simply because there is a demand for them.
There are many ingredients that you have to provide in order to create the perfect one for you.

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I have spent a while now chatting to people, in an attempt to find someone to join us, I have
spoken to plenty of people who 'say' they are already IN a 24/7 Slavery position,

Why are you talking with people who clearly state they are already in a relationship?
If you are simply looking for play buddies, I think attending local events will be your best recourse.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/2/2012 2:15:34 AM

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Like others have said, it's a numbers game. There are a decent number of women looking for a 24/7 live-in relationship, and a decent number of women looking to have fun with a couple.

But there are very few women looking for a 24/7 live-in life partner relationship with a couple. Even fewer that aren't scammers or fake or crazy. And even fewer that are going to be compatible with you both.

You could easily be chatting with people for a few years before you guys are looking for.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/2/2012 6:49:36 AM

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You could easily be chatting with people for a few years before you guys are looking for.

Uh, that implies they WILL find their unicorn. That's NOT guaranteed.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/2/2012 10:06:34 PM

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In addition to the already good comments here, for anyone who is looking for a lifetime relationship, the fetish and kink will be the smallest component anyway.

We have dated several people who fit us perfectly in that department, but were poor fits outside the bedroom.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/4/2012 7:34:29 PM

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You could easily be chatting with people for a few years before you guys are looking for.

Uh, that implies they WILL find their unicorn. That's NOT guaranteed.

True, true. I just wanted to give them a sense that this is probably going to be a long-term search!

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/4/2012 9:46:28 PM

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are you a real Count? Count Chocula perhaps?

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/5/2012 3:16:51 AM

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Looking for a 3rd.... "Help"

Do poly-bi women exist? Lol.

Poly Households

The desire to have an additional woman

Hunting Unicorns

where can we find a third

Is what Master and i am looking for so hard to find?

*channelling LuckyAlbatross*

Edited to fix a typo I thought I had corrected prior to hitting "OK".

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/5/2012 3:24:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: JanahX

are you a real Count? Count Chocula perhaps?

Or maybe Count von Count! :D

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/5/2012 4:03:43 AM

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I am searching for a 24/7 slave for Myself primarily, but also for My female sub.

I am certainly not writing to judge you Sir, or your profile, more to support and earlier comment about the extremely strong highly active community in Yorkshire. I have visited there many times.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/8/2012 11:17:22 AM

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instead of searching online on website why not join your local BDSM munch group.... find that elusive unicorn as it was so eliquently pointed out....

there just might be someone in your area willing to play second fiddle to your alpha .... me personally i am second to noone .... so it would not work
with me .. plus im not poly in the least... so again it would not work with me ... just saying

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/8/2012 1:00:36 PM

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Looking for a bi woman to join an existing hetero couple is so common, and so rarely found that it is often referred to as a 'unicorn', i.e. you are looking for a unicorn.

Basically, very few female slaves want to join a couple, of those that do, only a few will want 24/7 and out of those few you have to be compatible on other aspects.

I'm not saying it won't happen, but people spend years looking. So expecting to find one in a few months is naive, really.

Just keep looking and accept that it will take time.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/9/2012 7:24:08 PM

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Look op, no smart person agrees to be a slave to two people they don't know. The same people who are now in M/s relationships would, if single, be looking for just kinky relationships without any d/s.

Because to give control and authority over to someone, you need to know them well enough to know that they make good decisions, that they aren't selfish asshats, that they merit respect and authority.

You're looking to get something you haven't earned.

Your gf submits to you. Did she agree to do so on the first date or before then? No, you dated and you slowly earned the right to control her. So why do you think it won't work in exactly that same manner with someone new. Except now it's even harder because both of you need to earn that trust. Both of you need to earn close friendship and love. Both of you need to be compatible kinkwise. As well as poly and bisexual.

And her wanting to top somebody doesn't make her a dominant. At least not one worth submitting to. Go to local play parties and let her top a guy there. It's a much easier way for her to scratch that itch.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/10/2012 7:48:45 AM

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In this household, the option to pull the M/S switch exists 24/7 -and may I add /365?

But it would be like leaving the Christmas tree up all year. We need it go away often so we can be hungry for it again.

She gets a lot of warm fuzzies knowing that she's on permanent beck and call, I feel luxuriantly grounded and satisfied. That part is certainly 24/7 -but the kneeling and I dream of Jeannie-speak? Maybe more like 2/3, than 24/7.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/17/2012 12:03:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Look op, no smart person agrees to be a slave to two people they don't know. The same people who are now in M/s relationships would, if single, be looking for just kinky relationships without any d/s.

Because to give control and authority over to someone, you need to know them well enough to know that they make good decisions, that they aren't selfish asshats, that they merit respect and authority.

You're looking to get something you haven't earned.

Your gf submits to you. Did she agree to do so on the first date or before then? No, you dated and you slowly earned the right to control her.

^^^^ This is something that should be on every profile...or at least something akin to it.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/17/2012 12:08:37 AM

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But in response to the OP:

Yes, 24/7 does exist. I know a couple that uses that to describe their relationship, and it works for them. It basically boils down to personal preference, in my experience.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/17/2012 3:24:48 AM

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If you keep getting nigerian scammers means you are contacting all the 23 year old hotties tha cm promotes that are 99.9% fake. Part of your problem is you are dreaming.

Intelligent grounded women who are low drama rarely want to be secondary partners! Married women are the exception but you want one 24/7. I have had one, I know a couple of others...and I know people all over!

You need a great relationship that radiates magic, an amazing life someone wants to be part of, and most importantlt very very lucky.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/17/2012 3:31:07 AM

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No it means you don't know all the porn stars by now by there pics...
I can tell most fakes straight away and there is a lot of them.
Just by looking at the pics.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/17/2012 4:08:19 AM

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Do 24/7 Slaves exist, or are they a figment of a fetid imagination?

They exist, I used to be one (slave to a Dom/Switch couple). I've met several others offline.

Several others have given you very good advice already, and you've taken it all in grace (lots of newbies here get pissy if they get answers to their questions they don't necessarily like, which you haven't done at all.)

I'm short on time, so I'm going to quote myself on a piece of advice I gave somebody else with a like question a while back. Don't take the tone personally, his attitude was far less pleasant than yours.

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Well...
So... you want a slave girl... good... nearly every male Dom on this site wants the same, join the club.

The thing that leaves me wondering on if you're going to find her though is this: why?
Why would a girl want to be your slave?
What do you have to offer her?
What makes you different than every other male Dom looking for the same thing as you are?
Why YOU and not the next guy?

You give no information whatsoever on what SHE is getting out of this, other than that she'll have the privilege of being your slave.

If that's all a girl needed to beg a collar from a man then ANY man would do...
Seriously, it's not because you're looking for a slave that suddenly it becomes ALL about you.
Really... it doesn't become ALL about you until AFTER you've got that collar around her neck.

Prior to that, you are still courting a... WOMAN.

Not a slave, but a woman.
You are still trying to convince HER that you are the right guy for her.
That you're better than the next guy.
That you're different than the next guy.
That YOU are going to make HER feel special.
If you can't do that, then sorry dude, she IS going to move on to the next guy who CAN make her feel special...

So if you're the guy that has one of those none descript profiles... or one of those profiles that is all about what YOU want, and about what she has to offer to you... you might wanna think about that a little and make some adjustments to your profile...

Because that magical "perfect" woman for you you're describing here... she exists.
She really does exist.
But not only does she exist... she also has the luxury that EVERY guy like you wants her...
And because of that... it's HER and not you, that can afford to be VERY selective and picky about her future D/M/partner.
And sorry dude... unlike some of the other men out there... you just don't show that you've got her anything at all to offer...

So no matter how much you want her... she'll never want you...

Unless you clean up your act, and put forward some semblance of realism in your desires.

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RE: Does 24/7 Slavery ACTUALLY Exist? - 10/17/2012 4:23:46 AM

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24/7 certainly exists.
But you're trying to find a 24/7 slave who also wants to join an already established couple.
Basically you're unicorn hunting, which has it's own variety of pitfalls and challenges.

All you can do is be patient. Some never find their magical third.

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