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Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 1:47:20 PM   
patrick15sub


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Status: offline 		Hello Mistresses,
i was wondering what types of gear you enjoy having Your sub/slave wearing for play, scenes or sessions.

i just bought a harness, gag, collar, and hood. i thought this was an adequate first step in accessories.

i would like to know what You all enjoy the most, in terms of wearable gear for Your sub or slaves.

Thank You for the gift of Your experience and preference.
-a sub named Patrick.
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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 1:56:02 PM   
MsSylverdawn


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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 2:04:38 PM   
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A smile!!!



That's part of my permanent gear, i am so happy to be where i am and the track i am on:)

i am grinning while writing this, You made me smile quite a lot! Thank You!

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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 2:11:01 PM   
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While I am adequate with bondage, I seriously don't have a huge interest in rope. I'm not here to spend a lot of time making ties looking pretty. It looks lovely when it's done, but it bores the shit out of Me! The purpose of bondage, for Me, is to secure a person well enough to get to the good stuff.

Leather cuffs. Take less space in the bag than rope and faster.


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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 2:20:42 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Cuffs.

While I am adequate with bondage, I seriously don't have a huge interest in rope. I'm not here to spend a lot of time making ties looking pretty. It looks lovely when it's done, but it bores the shit out of Me! The purpose of bondage, for Me, is to secure a person well enough to get to the good stuff.

Leather cuffs. Take less space in the bag than rope and faster.



I so agree. I'm a rope dyslexic. I would love to know how to do excellent rope work, but don't have the motivation required to actually learn it. And yeah, bores the living hell out of me.

Though I do admire great rope work in others.

And I would alter the above request of a set of cuffs to a full serving set, that is, a pair of leather cuffs for wrists and ankles.

I like my boy restrained.




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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 3:01:56 PM   
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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 3:31:26 PM   
Alecta


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Yea, you're missing a set of cuffs.

And while we're at it, I always like seeing some nice pieces of bondage fashion, my favourite being those latex bondage pencil skirts mmm...... straitjackets with strategic holes cut in them are also fun.

You could also expand towards cock bondage (stuff that forces you to be erect) and chastity (that forces you from being erect).

Oh, in relation to the harness, did you mean a barbarian harness or one that goes around your hips for holding toys in place?

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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 4:00:38 PM   
MsSylverdawn


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Status: offline 		I am such a rope freak... I have to say its the one thing that takes me to my special place quickly .... I love the texture, how it bites the skin, how it moulds the body.. its like art for me.. its creative, sexy, hot, its the one thing I have a lot of patience for.. but it weighs a fecking ton.. which I loathe... someone invent light as air rope that is as strong as hemp pls... so as I have gotten older and less willing to heft my weight in rope around.. Yes a good quiality set of ankle and wrist cuffs.. I like them lined for comfort and the leather medium stiff for maximum fit...

Ms. B.

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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 7:17:54 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I like "rope dyslexic"!

I have a full set of gear, few subs come prpared. It's nice that you're starting your own collection, Patrick! I like the suggestions the other ladies have given. If You are interested in rope, learn about the various types. Riggers are mad for rope, and ten meters of processed hemp will certainly win you points with the right person. :)

I have...wrist and ankle cuffs, these velcro/elastic tie down thingys, snap hooks and cheap carabiners, a little hogtie X of leather and rings, odds and ends of rope... I'm not wild for bondage, really, so I am very basic. I also love mummification, so yay pallet wrap.

It's a world of stuff!



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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 9:07:13 PM   
MsSylverdawn


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Status: offline 		Get you a chin up door frame bar or two Hib... Im telling you portable.. instant bondage frame... and not that expensive..

And yes I like it when a boy comes with his own stuff... it means he is prepared willing serious about investing time and money and thinking about his personal safety... all turn ons for most Dominants I know.

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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/2/2012 9:20:02 PM   
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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/3/2012 10:04:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		Basic collar and cuffs. With those I can do all sorts of restricting and hauling them around.

I have a set of LED sensory-dep goggles. I'd link it but I can't find where I bought them from now... Basically they block out all light except a slow swirling of colors from the LEDs.

Gas-masks for breath and vision play.



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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/3/2012 11:30:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: patrick15sub

Hello Mistresses,
i was wondering what types of gear you enjoy having Your sub/slave wearing for play, scenes or sessions.


Blank canvas.. seriously, all that other stuff gets in my way. I'll decorate as I see fit.

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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/3/2012 12:11:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm big into CBT, so I like some of the more...dedicated devices, such as humblers and presses. Of course, this is my personal preference, as not all people like such things. A telescoping spreader bar with multiple attachment points (you can make one yourself for just a few bucks out of PVC pipes of different diameters + eye bolts if you're handy) can be a fun piece of gear at times.

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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/3/2012 6:15:34 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		The very basics? Collar & wrist & ankle cuffs set and rope, lots of it in various lengths.

But I also have a humbler and some clothespins in there(I love CBT), four tie-down straps, a couple different styles of ball stretchers, hehe. That's just the stuff he can wear, not counting floggers, whips, canes, paddles, strap-on, muscle rub, etc.

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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/3/2012 9:25:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

The very basics? Collar & wrist & ankle cuffs set and rope, lots of it in various lengths.

But I also have a humbler and some clothespins in there(I love CBT), four tie-down straps, a couple different styles of ball stretchers, hehe. That's just the stuff he can wear, not counting floggers, whips, canes, paddles, strap-on, muscle rub, etc.

NBMG

Muscle rub piqued my interest, I am wondering as to it's use?

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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/3/2012 10:23:58 PM   
Alecta


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Status: offline 		There are many uses for muscle rub... therapeutic as well as alternative recreational.

NBMG reminds me though, have your own first aid kit. That'll impress us with your fore-thinking (and possibly inspire some of us to get you to use it hah)

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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 10/4/2012 8:17:22 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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ORIGINAL: patrick15sub
Muscle rub piqued my interest, I am wondering as to it's use?

I do have a first aid kit in my toy bag, but that's not where the muscle rub is. lol

When my play partner whines "take it out! take it out!!" about my pegging him, instead of using his safeword, well hehe....I do "take it out," slather muscle rub on his asshole(sometimes some accidentally gets the back of his balls too), and start pegging him again. He calls me bitch and a few other colorful things, and I just keep on going. He always thanks me afterward though.


Oh, the last time, he told me it took all night for his asshole and the back of his balls to stop burning.


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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 11/7/2012 8:32:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		Must haves - I agree with those that have suggested cuffs - full set. Wrist, ankle and collars - leather is my favorite, and lockable is best. :)

Then I would recommend a trip to your local hardware store to pick up several of my favorites: carabiners, double ended clips, small locks, and tie-down straps (adjustable - remove the hooks on either end and replace with carabiers.) I use these in almost every session. They are simple yet effective and quick to change up!

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RE: Mistresses, bondage gear favorites? - 11/7/2012 9:34:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DNAHelicase

I'm big into CBT, so I like some of the more...dedicated devices, such as humblers and presses. Of course, this is my personal preference, as not all people like such things. A telescoping spreader bar with multiple attachment points (you can make one yourself for just a few bucks out of PVC pipes of different diameters + eye bolts if you're handy) can be a fun piece of gear at times.

Humbler is easily made from 2 pieces of cull lumber ($1 at dom depot) & a hinge

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