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LadyHibiscus -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 12:23:39 PM)


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ORIGINAL: pyschosubmission

But you do type oh so well!



I know, and my hands are really lovely, doing it! [;)]




LadyPact -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 12:24:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

LP, do you ever get the feeling sometimes that we're talking to ourselves here on the boards? And just getting typing practice?
It's fine by Me, either way. I'm up to 70 WPM.





LadyHibiscus -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 12:26:37 PM)

Fast typing is the explanation for my post count. That anti spam thing is just MADDENING.




GreedyTop -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 12:27:44 PM)

damn. I suck at typing. I do well at maybe 40wpm.




LadyPact -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 12:28:52 PM)

The speed does vary according to nail length. When they start getting long to the point of typos, I know it's time to have them trimmed.




GreedyTop -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 12:32:08 PM)

my nail length doesnt vary enough to matter. I am just a lousy typist.




LadyHibiscus -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 12:32:53 PM)

I've always had long nails. It's odd for me to touch the keys with my fingertips.

Oh dear. Thread drift. Bad Hib, no biscuit.




pyschosubmission -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 12:35:27 PM)

Can I just point out when I clicked on this thread I thought it was going to be about "Star Trek: First Contact"

I'm mildly disappointed




GreedyTop -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 12:45:31 PM)

gawd, I so adore you.




msub1000 -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 2:44:16 PM)

we dont know what the borg girls reaaaly did to the captain ;) :P




BitaTruble -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 2:46:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: msub1000

we dont know what the borg girls reaaaly did to the captain ;) :P

Maybe not, but we do know that resistance was futile and implants were involved. [;)]




msub1000 -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 2:47:05 PM)

Mmm exactly, Beam me up scotty!




pyschosubmission -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 2:51:20 PM)

AND they added his biological characteristics to their own, if that's not a euphemism I don't know what is




msub1000 -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 2:53:37 PM)

the borg queen is the ultimate femdom




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 3:51:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: msub1000

for example slyvere you say you almost at number 4 of play partners, doesnt that make the connections you made pretty much sexual? wheres the emotional depth in that?


*sigh* Oh, man...you are so green you're Astroturf. Lemme break it down for you...

I've been here almost 5 years. In that time, I've met roughly a dozen people. Of those, I've played with three. Another likes to have me tell him what to do over the Internet, but I wouldn't call us play partners. Of those four individuals, I've had sex with one. There was some physical contact with two others, but since I never took my clothes off, I'm not counting it.

Does that sound like a purely sexual connection to you?

Of the dozen or so people I've met, I've stayed friends with three. I have fairly regular contact with them, but we don't work as romantic partners for various reasons. That doesn't mean I have no emotional bond with them, however. In fact, I love my Faerie Princess very much, but she already has a Master and that relationship is primary for her, as it should be. She's more of a BFF than a girlfriend, but I would never say we had no emotional connection. That's just ridiculous.

I'm wondering why you seem to think that play = sex or that there's no emotional intimacy involved in it. You need to get out more.




msub1000 -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 5:55:15 PM)

Its because im a guy, there's just not enough blood to maintain functionality of the brain and the penis simultaneously, I am only capable of doing emotions with one.

I do believe that sexuality is a huge part of any relationship, just being physically and mentally attracted to that person, wanting to satisfy their needs and making them happy and satisfied, and any relationship without sexuality is on the level of friends and or family type thing, and cant advance to high emotional complexity.

the proper sexual attraction is glue keeping partners together




LadyHibiscus -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 5:58:04 PM)

Okayyyyy.





Alecta -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 6:06:14 PM)

That may be true, but nowhere does it say the sexual tension needs to be resolved or consummated. Indeed for most in the lifestyle, it is the alternative things you do with that sexual tension/attraction that really does it ;)




msub1000 -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 7:02:50 PM)

lol alecta thats just evil! so you lure them in, build their sexual tension and make them do your bidding as the unseen leash on your sub




Alecta -> RE: First Contact (10/3/2012 10:02:28 PM)

Here's the thing, if us Dommes feel no "sexual attraction" towards someone, we wouldn't want them as a submissive either!
You are young and green. Eventually you will learn that there are much more exhilarating and fun things between heaven and earth than straight up tab-A-slot-B lol




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