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RE: First Contact - 2/5/2013 9:59:57 PM

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I find it funny when a dom is expecting the sub to approach her, doesnt that defeat the point of a sub? a dom should know what she's looking for, would want to go out there and get what she's looking for.

Being dominant doesn't necessarily mean, one is not shy. We don't go around ordering the public you know. M

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RE: First Contact - 4/1/2014 4:15:32 AM

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with all due respect nakedburns I feel that a mistress can keep hold of that undefined power when she messages first. if anything in my humble opinion it makes the mistress more powerful. as she is not prepared to wait around for the sub, she is prepared to go and GRAB said sub and let THEM know how it is gonna be. That in my opinion makes a mistress even sexier.

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RE: First Contact - 4/1/2014 8:03:08 AM

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with all due respect nakedburns I feel that a mistress can keep hold of that undefined power when she messages first. if anything in my humble opinion it makes the mistress more powerful. as she is not prepared to wait around for the sub, she is prepared to go and GRAB said sub and let THEM know how it is gonna be. That in my opinion makes a mistress even sexier.

Dommes are women FIRST and foremost and most of them prefer to be courted. We have more than enough email in our boxes that we don't have to seek out male subs. If you are going to wait around for her to find you, you will be waiting a looooong time.

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RE: First Contact - 4/1/2014 7:51:06 PM

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You've had a lot of women and dommes expressing identical opinions, yet you deny their experiences.

A polite and twue sub would have said, 'Ah, thank you, ladies, I hadn't considered that you're being constantly barraged by cheaters, liars and do-me bottoms. Thanks for the tips, I'll change my strategy, write a brief but interesting autobio, and initiate contact with a polite and thoughtful vanilla message to prove I've read their profiles and want to please them.'
A do-me bottom would deny reality and persist with his original fantasy. Ahem.

Your choice.

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