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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/4/2012 6:30:18 PM   
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I'm surprised you did NOT get directed to the "Ask a Mistress" forum.  There's some stickie notes at the top wiwth helpful hints as how to approach the women (NOT "girls," dummy - you lost lots of points for that) that might appeal and vice versa.

BTW: Your loins are girded, not girdled, unless of course you've got that "make-me-into-your-sissy-doll" thing going on. LOL!

The last sentence was brought to you by a member of the On-line Grammar Nazis Alliance (a.k.a. OGNA which also stands for Oh, God. Not again.)

Welcome.  I agree. Ding, ding, ding!  We have a winner!

Now if only he was even a little "bi" and in Denver and ..... what else?  Oh, yeah. Brought some of his "secret" cheese with him.... why, I'd just HAVE to break out my razor..... LOL!

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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/4/2012 7:50:12 PM   
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Hiya, cbx. Nice ta meetcha.


And Hill...that tip on the brie is worth this entire website. Thank you.

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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/5/2012 5:24:54 AM   
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Fantastic pictures and profile. If i were even switchy i would be all over you... even from here because i have a 'thing' for English men =)

I like most cheese but havarti is likely my fav especially when it has bits of jalapenos in it mmm

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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/5/2012 1:19:28 PM   
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LanceHughes, I hold my hands up on the spelling, although i'd pick having my loins girdled over having them gridled any day if an L is being thrown into the mix!

The girls/women thing is an interested point actually. I guess I'm looking for someone who is somewhere between 20-30 years old, I wonder which the females at the lower end of that age range prefer to be called and better relate to? The same applies to the upper too, do all prefer to be labelled as women? Which should it be to address all by?

Autumnember, that is sweet of you and very kind. It's quite nice to be seen as just an englishman for once, i often find being a brown person makes me an acquired taste and that i have to try a bit harder to get past most people's perception of a stereotypical indian lad but it can be a lot of fun surprising people too. I was born here so I have the charming accent and everything!

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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/5/2012 5:29:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: cbx16v

I have to try a bit harder to get past most people's perception of a stereotypical indian lad


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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/6/2012 9:02:36 AM   
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I am older than 30 and i prefer to be called a girl... woman sounds so staunchy

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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/6/2012 2:38:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: cbx16v

The girls/women thing is an interested point actually. I guess I'm looking for someone who is somewhere between 20-30 years old, I wonder which the females at the lower end of that age range prefer to be called and better relate to? The same applies to the upper too, do all prefer to be labelled as women? Which should it be to address all by?



As long as you understand that you can't please everybody no matter what you use, you're golden.

My personal take on it is that "girl" is often used in a quasi-derogatory way particularly by male doms, so I don't care to be called that ("little girl," "good girl," using "girls" to refer to all women while simultaneously using "men" to refer to all men). It's used by some men (and women) as a way of diminishing women. I'm not the type to get my panties in a wad over it, though. If it's just that one thing, I ignore it. If it's one thing among many, many other things that add up to a man (or woman) who seems to think that women are inferior to men, I write him off and don't waste my time on him. However, I don't automatically think that somebody who uses "girls" to refer to women is being derogatory. It depends on the way that person uses the word and what else that person says. Somebody who uses "girls" and "guys" equally doesn't strike me as the least bit derogatory, just somebody who likes informal speech.

I suggest using "women" in general, particularly for writing your profile. I think it makes you sound more respectful than using "girls" when you refer to dominant women of any age. But that's just me.

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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/6/2012 8:25:53 PM   
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I think for now I would always refer to myself as a boy and I don't think there is anything I could achieve alone that I could claim would make me a man. I'm curious to know how this works for women? Is there a point where you see yourself as a woman as opposed to a girl, do you see certain events or changes in your life as turning points?

Having thought about it a bit more, I do agree that 'woman' sounds more respectful so I will be mindful of which I use in future.

Sim

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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/6/2012 8:30:02 PM   
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cbx. Want a helpful hint?

Ive never seen a female human offended by one referring to them as a "lady"

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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/6/2012 9:44:32 PM   
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British Indian guy + Canadian prairie girl = chocolate milk!

Love your profile and pics. You seem to have your head set quite firmly on your shoulders. The paintings are beautiful! My favorite pic of you though, is the second, with the suit.

I love a man in a suit...

...I love a tall man...

......I love a man with a British accent......

.........Oh damn! Where is my switchy side when I need it?????????



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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/7/2012 5:58:28 AM   
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I'm curious to know how this works for women? Is there a point where you see yourself as a woman as opposed to a girl, do you see certain events or changes in your life as turning points?


Upon menstruation, or perhaps turning 18, or at the very latest enlisting in the military at 19.

For me, the only acceptable context these days to be called girl is by my SO, when qualified with a "good" or a "bad."

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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/8/2012 2:54:28 PM   
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Mmmm Chocolate milk!

YDD, you're too kind! That picture of me in the suit is from my university graduation 3 years ago. Glad you like it.

Sim


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RE: I hear its all about the cheese! - 10/9/2012 5:05:43 AM   
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My favorite everyday cheeses are Cabot Extra Sharp Cheddar and Cabot Pepperjack. When I want to spend a little more money, I'll get Cabot Garlic & Herb.

I am getting a new apartment and think I will make the baked brie for my housewarming party.

Hilly - was this a wedge or a pound of brie?

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My personal favorite cheese is a baked brie.

Here's the simple way to do it. Leave the brie out all day on top of the fridge to soften. Buy a can of crescent rolls. Whop the crescent rolls on the counter to open them and roll them out. Use them as a puff pastry and wrap it around the brie. Bake according to the directions on the can. You'll have some pastry dough left over so just make the rolls like normal and bake em alongside the brie.

Serve with fresh fruit n veggies, especually granny smith apple slices, raw broccoli, grapes and cauliflower.

It goes really good with one of the sweeter German wines like a Zeller Schwartz Katz. Get Auslese though if you have the wallet for it.


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