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sub smoker ladies - 6/13/2006 3:11:46 PM   
stu


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Status: offline 		im a naturally dominant young man who allthough is a none smoker has a smoking fetish, and likes the idea of forcing/ controlling the amount of cigarettes smoked by a sub female, and of course there would be the serverest of punishments if she failed to please, does any 1 else share this intrest , or would any 1 be intrested?
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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/13/2006 3:39:48 PM   
missturbation


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Status: offline 		Can i ask to what extent you wish to control this? Are you talking to the point where the sub turns green and pukes or just general sensible limit. I'd love to put here how smoking kills and this is probably irresponsible behaviour but im a smoker so that would kind of blow back up my face lol.

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/13/2006 5:27:47 PM   
TrainMeSir


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Status: offline 		I'd have to say you'd probably die, or at the very least be horribly maimed in this pursuit, Stu.

But, she'd be sorry, later...............

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/13/2006 8:05:08 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		Smoking Kills! There I said it for you missturbation.

I smoked for 23 years and quit because my Dom wasn't going to have me if I continued. Best thing I ever did and I feel wonderful. I understand you have a fetish and all, but really, find a new one.

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 2:12:31 AM   
slo18


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Status: offline 		hmm as a smoker I would have to say that that is one of my limits. I smoke no one controls how much but me.  I have had to chose early on in relationships, smoke or him, and I chose smoke so that tells u how important my niccotine is.   thank god i wasnt in love with him cause then I dont know what i would have done. now I simply tell people " till there is a bun in the oven the chimny will smoke" and if they dont like it oh well.  I simply cant see myself giveing it up any time soon. as for smokeing killing  me, I am sure it is. so is the suger, the fats, the sun, radiation from my cell phone, and a number of other things.  eventualy given enough time science will find a reson why EVERYTHING is bad for u.



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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 4:12:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TrainMeSir

I'd have to say you'd probably die, or at the very least be horribly maimed in this pursuit, Stu.

But, she'd be sorry, later...............


lol!  thats about it too

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 8:28:57 AM   
servicing


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Status: offline 		Smoking is a terribly strong addiction.  Since you're not an addict you don't really understand what you'd be dealing with.  If you'd like to experience it, smoke a bunch of crack.  The craving after you come down is similar.  I don't suggest you smoke crack, of course.  I think you'll have a very difficult time finding a nicotene addict to consent to what you want. 

I smoked for 17 years and it's still a struggle after quitting for a year.  When I had to have my daily injection, I would have chosen celibacy over not getting my fix.

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 8:50:48 AM   
mastersayed


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Status: offline 		smoking is the stongest addiction out there (with substances, the faster they work, the more addictive they are)
I've been trying to quit for the last 3 days and its not easy. controlling how many cigarettes a smoker smokes might be a little annoying and it might cause flying tempers. I'm ready to bite peoples heads off when I dont have my fix.

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 8:58:54 AM   
hizgeorgiapeach


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Status: offline 		I'm a smoker.  I've had various dominant types tell me "It's the nicotene or it's me."  I still smoke, so that should tell you where They are in the equation.  I've had one in the past go so far as to intentionally destroy all the cigarettes I had at the time - and the outcome (for him) wasn't pretty.
 
I've tried to quit - it was the worst 10 minutes of my life, and 3 people nearly got beaten to death...

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 9:09:45 AM   
stu


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Status: offline 		i prefer to encourage them to smoke but not to extremes like being sick etc, but occasionally would like to restrict the women to smoke for a few hours, this makes her realise how much she likes and needs to smoke , and she would probally smoke more in a smaller time to get the required amount of nicotene that she had previously missed out on , 

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 9:56:08 AM   
BreakMeShakeMe


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Status: offline 		Easily enough to do .I do my own restrictions as well. To me.. there are two favorite times.. Morning coffee and first smoke of the day...and after dinner smoke. Well... now I wait for 3rd cup of coffee before first smoke...and sit in non smoking sections of restuarants.... and at home .. dishes are done before smoke. 

My doctor actually hinted I need not give up smoking... he got tired of my blood pressuring going up...when i've tried to stop... I go out.. have a smoke.. come in... blood pressure has dropped... he hates that.. but hates high blood pressure more...LOL

I have become a bad smoker... I hate other peoples smoke... can't stand smoking sections... refuse to allow ashtray in bedroom.... and they are starting to taste nasty..... so when doc and I can keep blood pressure down while NOT smoking... i'm gonna try again. But till then... if I have to choose between my smokes and caffine.... over a Dom... well then.. I guess I  already serve one dominant....lol...so I have a smoke and cup of coffee while celebrating my still known freedom....


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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 12:06:18 PM   
carolsea


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Status: offline 		Have y'all seen the commercial - or I guess public service announcement - on TV lately with the woman who couldn't give up her cigarettes and now has a contraption in her throat so she can breathe?  She can't speak except in a crackly whisper.

Look at a smoker, then look at a nonsmoker.  Or find an ex smoker who has just quit.  The change in their SKIN, the smell of their hair, their general appearance - is dramatic.  Besides, for us nonsmokers (AND I'M ALSO AN EX SMOKER) we can stand to be around them!  Nothing worse than being kissed or even just hugged by someone who reeks of stale cigarettes.  YUK.

And yes, you all smell like that, you just don't know it becuse you're used to the smell.  I was the same way.  I was AMAZED when I realized how bad I used to smell.

As for controlling someone's smoking or forcing them to smoke more, that's just plain stupid.  Besides healthwise, a person addicted to nicotine really IS a bear if they're not allowed to smoke.  The nicotine IS a drug that they need a fix of periodically or they start getting the jitters or even getting mean.  Yes, I've been there, so I know whereof I speak.

Find another fetish.  Or encourage your loved one to quit.  They'll live a lot longer and be happier for it.  I know.

Carolsea
Smoked 2-3 ppd for 35 years.  Quit in 1995.  When I was ready, it was easy.

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 2:15:24 PM   
stu


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Status: offline 		yeah i understand all the health concerns but millions of people still choose to do unhealhy things its what makes us human and makes life fun , enjoy ureself and try all the things you want to do while you still can live for today dont worry about tommorow because it may never come,

as for saying it a stupid fetish the only thing i find stupid about that statement is the bit where you said find another fetish, you do not choose what you find attractive , so unfortunatly that is impossible and im stuck with this "stupid" fetish for the rest of my enjoyable life

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 2:33:39 PM   
BreakMeShakeMe


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Status: offline 		Stu.. I agree with you...  that is fucked up is someone telling another their fetishes are stupid. (I made that mistake and seen the light of it as well ) And from what i've seen you saying about your fetish... you're not talking of having someone go till sick.. or addicted. And no Marlboros are not addictive over night. If I was a non smoker... I would rather have you hand me a marlboro and a cup of your piss.... (and no... not knocking no piss drinkers.. I don't do it... but don't think others that do it are stupid fetishes)

Good Luck Stu.... I'm sure she's out there....

Jessica




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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 2:35:13 PM   
amaidiamond


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Status: offline 		Heh I'm on day 8 of no cigs and have not cracked yet, He can't abide me smoking and although he has not told me outright to quit he has made it obvious what he thinks of the habit, in theory i'd rather please him than smoke (in practice may not be that easy lol) so i am going it a go although several people have nearly died at the sharp end of my tounge!

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 3:57:02 PM   
kickinchick


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Status: offline 		Fastlane monitors my ciggerettes and is teaching me to quit.
slowly but surely he is bringing me along. He stopped years ago, but I'm having problems...which makes the spankings more often.  cheeky grin as I light up!  Tee hee hee

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/14/2006 4:41:10 PM   
Darkraven6


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Status: offline 		Im not saying smoking is good for you, not in the least.  I smoke as well, and make that crystal clear when ever I meet someone new, as well, I have no intension of stopping.  I was in nursing for many years, and have seen smokers of two packs of cigs every day, die at the age of 82 and have extreamly good heathy lungs. Im not saying its the case with every one, but I agree with the above, every day, theres another statement that this or that is killing us.  I refuse to feel my lit cig is worst then seeing a smoke stack down the road from a factory shooting out huge billowing clouds of smoke.  To me, its no more or less correct then seat belts save lives.....as I know for a fact a few people who died due to their seat belts being on.  Its all a toss of the dice....what happens to one, may or may not happen to another. As for being a sub that smokes, its what I do.....I dont drink, I dont run around, its my one bad habit of choice. Either they can deal with it or not.  Ofcourse, what the topic should be...is respecting your Dom/Masters wishs as well, if he isnt a smoker, then Id not smoke so often around him...maybe in another room or later outside, what ever.  But..as a sub who does smoke, Id as well expect that same respect from a Dom/Master...it is whom I am as youve met me...please, respect that thats whom I am, or a part of me, if its that big a problem, then maybe Im not someone for you.  But, its just wrong to find a sub, enter into a relationship, then to expect them to simply give it up or else.  As I said, Im not saying my opinion is right, but, it seems a little respect for both sides of the arguement, and a bit of common thought, could be all thats needed.

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/15/2006 12:00:35 AM   
lechat


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Status: offline 		eric clapton has been addicted to every drug imaginable including heroin. but he said nicotine was the hardest to kick. i agree.

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/15/2006 2:37:13 AM   
Gem


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Status: offline 		Brightest Blessings
 
I have been clean for 7 and half months, *chuckles* and while I hate the smell and the whole shbang that goes with smoking, I have to honestly say thee is not a morning I don't wake up not missing my smokes. It is a twisted addiction. I smoked steady one pack a day for 25 years.
 
That said, befoe I quit, Man contolled my smoking, from deciding how many I could have any given day, to me having to beg fo them, to lighting up his cigas and denying me smokes. Pushing me to the very edge of nic fit or indulging my addiction moe than I may have wanted.
 
Be careful when you get into playing with the mind phuck that is addiction, know your subject well, and how far you can push and pull them. Other than that have fun enjoy. Oh and I would hope that you use a smoker, even a causual one, nicotine addicition is harder to get off and control than herion and you would not like to subject a non-smoke or recently quit person to this.
 
Blessed Be
Gem

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RE: sub smoker ladies - 6/17/2006 2:45:38 AM   
champagnewishes


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Status: offline 		I have a Dom who does this...it's called working on the 17th floor of a high rise in a state that makes it impossible to smoke just about anywhere you might come within 50' of another person.

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