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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/6/2012 4:25:53 PM   
littlewonder


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Dude, if you felt I was making fun of your dyslexia, I wasn't at all. I can't respond to how you decide to interpret something. The information I gave you was information to help you on this site so that others will understand you. I was trying to be ya know....rational.

As for having dyslexia and using it as your excuse....don't. It makes you look.....not very intelligent and lazy. There are a TON of programs online that will help you with editing your posts before you post them. There are also some very good translation sites online as well. I would look for one that works the best for you.

Now if you want to sit and cry, whine and moan, then you have no one to blame for your problems here except yourself.

I gave you advice...take it or leave it. I don't care.


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/6/2012 10:34:52 PM   
michaelhfrit


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Status: offline 		I use 2 programs first cdord a. dyslexic program after goggle translator and it's not so good have to find other words to make it reasonably close to what I want to write some times do I have to back to the dyslexic program again to change words and sometimes must I give up and form a completely different sentence I write in Danish but must use inverted word order, I know how hard it is to use the dyslexic programs

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/6/2012 10:41:23 PM   
michaelhfrit


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/6/2012 10:46:48 PM   
Alecta


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Status: offline 		That is an interesting mix of languages. Why Vietnamese and Arabic?

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/7/2012 2:29:57 AM   
michaelhfrit


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/7/2012 2:33:29 AM   
michaelhfrit


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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/7/2012 6:45:41 AM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: michaelhfrit

I use 2 programs first cdord a. dyslexic program after goggle translator and it's not so good have to find other words to make it reasonably close to what I want to write some times do I have to back to the dyslexic program again to change words and sometimes must I give up and form a completely different sentence I write in Danish but must use inverted word order, I know how hard it is to use the dyslexic programs

Edit is your friend. I'm dyslexic and if you look at my post, I bet 80% are edited, mostly because of my dyslexia.
No shame in that game

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/15/2012 1:48:49 AM   
Aswad


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Status: offline 		There's degrees of dyslexia, and differences in the level of coping techniques learned and/or imparted. When I met nephandi, she couldn't read words she hadn't already memorized, unless they were four characters at most and monosyllabic. Now, she can read WOT, though it requires significant effort for her to read long polysyllabic words that are unfamiliar to her. Some people can't string together any words at all.

I'm thinking kudos to him for trying to overcome what must be a difficult condition to deal with, and in a second language to boot.

The program he's using is a $500+VAT specialized tool that incorporates speech transcription and more.

Thus, the "everything has spellcheck" thing people throw out doesn't really cut it.

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/15/2012 6:19:49 AM   
Muchtado


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Status: offline 		This is a good question and one that everyone has to deal with at one time or another. The other posts in this thread are correct. Being in a BDSM relationship, as far as getting to know your partner, is the same as any other relationship.

In a vanilla relationship you will be looking for certain traits that compliment your own personality. Unfortunately there will only be about 1% of the population have those traits or enough of the traits for which you are looking for you to be comfortable. So there will be about 10 people out of every 1000 is compatible with you.

In a BDSM relationship the search can be even harder. Because only about 10% of the population is open to exploring this lifestyle. So just with that added factor, the number drops to 1 in 1000. Then you need to factor in all the different kinks that a person can be interested and you can see how hard it can be to find the right person.

But there are some signs that you can look at to make a preliminary choice. I am not saying that these statements are always true. But as a rule I have found them helpful.

1. I rarely send a message to anyone that has been a member here for less than six months. Though longevity on the site does not guarantee authenticity, most scammers will not last that long on this site. Someone turns them in.

2. I rarely write someone that has no profile or has very little written in their profile. If they do not take the time to fill out their profile then I feel that they will not take the effort as our slave.

3. I rarely write anyone that says that they are a “No Limit” slave. IMHO most of these are fakes or scams. Or they think it sounds like fun and have no idea of the reality of what they are asking. Of course some days I am in one of my sadistic moods and can not resist writing them a message.

Look for someone that has the same interests as you. (As in a vanilla relationship.) If the profile you are reading says that they are into pet play and you have no interest in that then just do not write them. It does not mean that they are a fake it simply means that they have different interest.

I am sure that others have other rules that they use to determine who to talk to and, personally, I would not mind hearing them. I am sure there are things that I have not thought about.

But to answer your question, there is no way to know for sure if a profile is a fake. However, if you set yourself a few things you are looking for then your search will be much less daunting.

I hope this is the information that you were looking for.

L & M

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/15/2012 2:03:34 PM   
TieMeInKnottss


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Status: offline 		About as fast as the slave can tell that you are not some psycho or a guy who thinks this is a quick and easy way to get free sex and housekeeping. The trick is to treat her LIKE A PERSON when you correspond and meet with her. Get to know her, have discussions on a variety of topics, find out about past relationships (ask questions, pretend you are INTERESTED).. Like masters, a slave who goes on and on about nothing other than what she looks like and what things she is willing to let you do to her, is probably not going to have the depth of one who has more to offer.

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RE: how do you find out whether you can trust that a sl... - 10/22/2012 11:17:07 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		Michael

I am too dyslexic! They are true to tell you to rewrite you profile!

DarkSteven is one of the best listen to him, he is what he is a Master, he is helpful to everyone
who comes here to find out information! I hope he does not mind my saying he is a Master!!!

Their are others besides him but he is the one I have seen be very open and honest with his answers!!!
They mean well, it is hurtful when your words do not match what the brain means!

But everyone remember
this does not make anyone less intelligent!!!!!

Go back and redo your profile! This will be a learning experience, go back and redo all of your profile!!!

It feels so good when you do come back and it is written the way you wish, and it feels so, so good!!!!!!

best regards,
Mons

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