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GreedyTop -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/11/2012 4:10:29 PM)
I read Killerangels post to be tongue in cheek rather than as meant as a descriptor of how poly actually is.

areuhim -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/11/2012 4:24:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: sassy252 Since being in the lifestyle 5 years now. It has always just been me the sub. I've never played with a women and theres never been another sub in the pic .Then i met my now Dom ( 8 ) months ago and his sub and yes i join there family and she became my sister sub. He released her months ago and since then its just been him and i till last week we did play with a sub but that is not leading any where. I have never looked for a female sub are a women to be honest so all of this is very new to me. I am trying to please my Sir and do what he has asked of me. I'm not hear to be called names are to be put down but for help plain and simple and as subs we are all sister and i am one sister to another asking for help. Two things..... The first one is I don't know who fed you the "all are sisters" crap but it's nonsense. The second one is, when history repeats itself, and you are the one getting released in favor of the new sub that's been found, please don't start a thread crying about it. ^^^^^^ This absolutely!!!

Killerangel -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/11/2012 4:36:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Killerangel quote: ORIGINAL: secretlyDS I understand why you are doing this - because I am doing the same thing! This is impossible, though....ugh. Yes, it's so hard to find indiscriminate submissive women who would dare to want to be something more than a guy's second best playtoy. Of course these women have to be young and attractive and accept whatever you want them to. It is absolutely incomprehensible to understand why women aren't lining up for the chance to be someone's bit of physical relief on the side when there are a shit ton of available men that aren't in a relationship looking for submissive women as well, and have no dynamic in place to fit into. No, I did not accurately describe what poly is. What I responded to was a post by SecretlyDS after reading her profile in which she outlines that the second woman would be there only for physical relief, needs to be young and attractive, yada, yada. I'm sorry if I did not outline my response enough to make that clear. I guess I thought the quote would be enough. It wasn't, my bad.

OsideGirl -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/11/2012 5:11:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Killerangel No, I did not accurately describe what poly is. What I responded to was a post by SecretlyDS after reading her profile in which she outlines that the second woman would be there only for physical relief, needs to be young and attractive, yada, yada. I'm sorry if I did not outline my response enough to make that clear. I guess I thought the quote would be enough. It wasn't, my bad. No worries. I didn't bother to look at the profile, so I missed that. Very deja vu-ish for me. I had a woman who tried to recruit me because her "Dom" was a professional and didn't have time to do it. She said he wanted someone for when she wasn't available. She told me over and over again how wonderful he was. It turned out he was a serial rapist out on parole. He raped 8 women in 6 months and put her in the hospital for close to a month.

slavegirl2sir -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 9:33:11 AM)
I have been looking for a sub for my owner also.They are very hard to find.He isn't looking to replace me.It actually was my idea to find another for days that I am ill or my monthly friend has come.I want my owner happy and satisfied at all times.[:)] Jewell

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 9:55:06 AM)
It never ceases to surprise me how different one D/s relationship can look from another. It would make me feel sad if I were ill and my dominant couldn't go without for a few days until I got better. Of course I want him to be satisfied but I honestly don't think he feels dissatisfied caring for his sick wife to the point that missing sex would be a concern. Likewise with time of the month, although that doesn't limit activities very much anyway. I also think I wouldn't want to be the other sub in that situation, only needed when his primary was out of action. I think it would make me feel less of a person and more of an object to satisfy his sex drive. Though perhaps there are some out there that appreciate that type of relationship, I find it hard to comprehend being someone's back up plan. I hope that doesn't sound bitchy - I'm just marveling at how differently people run and enjoy their relationships.

GreedyTop -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 10:03:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders It never ceases to surprise me how different one D/s relationship can look from another. It would make me feel sad if I were ill and my dominant couldn't go without for a few days until I got better. Of course I want him to be satisfied but I honestly don't think he feels dissatisfied caring for his sick wife to the point that missing sex would be a concern. Likewise with time of the month, although that doesn't limit activities very much anyway. I also think I wouldn't want to be the other sub in that situation, only needed when his primary was out of action. I think it would make me feel less of a person and more of an object to satisfy his sex drive. Though perhaps there are some out there that appreciate that type of relationship, I find it hard to comprehend being someone's back up plan. I hope that doesn't sound bitchy - I'm just marveling at how differently people run and enjoy their relationships. This. adores Athena

OsideGirl -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 10:29:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders It never ceases to surprise me how different one D/s relationship can look from another. It would make me feel sad if I were ill and my dominant couldn't go without for a few days until I got better. Of course I want him to be satisfied but I honestly don't think he feels dissatisfied caring for his sick wife to the point that missing sex would be a concern. Likewise with time of the month, although that doesn't limit activities very much anyway. I also think I wouldn't want to be the other sub in that situation, only needed when his primary was out of action. I think it would make me feel less of a person and more of an object to satisfy his sex drive. Though perhaps there are some out there that appreciate that type of relationship, I find it hard to comprehend being someone's back up plan. I hope that doesn't sound bitchy - I'm just marveling at how differently people run and enjoy their relationships. Yeah, nothing like being the "substitute".

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 10:37:05 AM)
I understand that some people enjoy the lower level of commitment that comes from certain types of casual open relationships. I can see why a person might enjoy dating or even being fuck buddies with someone who already has a primary partner and could enjoy having occasional meet ups without the full-time aspect. But that situation really screams 'second best' or 'you'll do'. I don't want someone to screw me just because his usual shag is ill (and to be honest, it'd put me off the guy if he was busy getting laid whilst his partner is unwell) or to only get the call once a month. I need to feel that I'm important to someone and have some value beyond a back-up vagina.

slavegirl2sir -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 11:02:46 AM)
I want her to be a live in with me.She wouldn"t just be for when I am sick or ill. I want another for me as well.We would have to be very compatible.Sir is on the road a lot and I don't go with him so she would be there to keep me company also.

OsideGirl -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 11:12:11 AM)
And usually two women that spend a lot of time together end up on the same cycle.

wnyThroatLover -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 11:14:05 AM)
Aww comeon...cant we all get one before you get 2? Haha ...........so totally beyond the horizon of not serious..........

slavegirl2sir -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 11:19:15 AM)
very serious.....

wnyThroatLover -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 11:39:59 AM)
Here, OP (and everyone else, why not)... We are also searching for the elusive unicorn. We've tried everything...leprechaun piss, ogre sweat, fairy dust, angel dust (if you can see her it's real, right?), and even sugar cubes...damn thing is hard to find! But let me tell you this, while I (the male half of this dynamic duo) may do pretty much 99% of the forum posting and conversation starting, I still do my best to make it clear that WE are in this search TOGETHER. I've just been charged with weeding out the con artists, creepy old men, and complete vapid rubes. We have also been together for 5 years and have known eachother for 15. Quite clearly stated in our profile. We also have a somewhat better description of who we are and what we are looking for than...esentially...just, "another woman." You're new and haven't been searching long...get ready for the long haul. Though someone did tell me something about the use of elf testicle as a unicorn lure.........you could try that!

GreedyTop -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 11:46:46 AM)
I totally like you, wnytl~!! :D

wnyThroatLover -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 11:49:37 AM)
What can I say, Greedy, I'm one verbally sexy son-of-a![:D]

GreedyTop -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 11:54:48 AM)
with every post, you are proving yourself so, more and more ;)

wnyThroatLover -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 12:04:57 PM)
Luckily for me there is a backspace key...when I actually speak my brain often works faster than my mouth, words get jumbled and come out in random and unexpected orders and...well...I often look like a big dickblister trying to poke a twatwaffle whom is already involved with a douchecanoe... But boy howdy can I write! Haha So...now that I'm sexy...wanna do the horizontal howdyado, the adult time macarena, the dirty twist, the 4 hand hoopaloo? Lmao. Comeon, you know a hoopaloo sounds like fun [;)] That's how I'm supposed to act now, right? [;)] (Insert preemptive comical and snarky comments aimed at everyone who inevitably will take this wrong..........HERE)

amaidiamond -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 2:02:45 PM)
Hmmm my thoughts - as a bi girl who has had her "unicorn" days.. The woman seeking the girl for her Dom is a HUGE red flag, to me it says that he is lazy and not willing to put in the effort amongst other things. You are a new couple, 8 months is a pretty short space of time in my perspective to be adding a 3rd to the dynamic especially as there has already been a big change, a girl being released. For me, if a Dom had one girl, got another, released the first then sought to add to the collection in such a short space of time it would ring my warning bells. Nothing wrong with big girls, I prefer them However you need to bear in mind what you are seeking is the grain of rice in the haystack

BouncyBoo -> RE: Sir is looking for another sub/ sister sub (10/12/2012 8:08:49 PM)
Is it bad that I read "hoopaloo" thought "oompa loompa" and then couldn't get that thought out of my mind? quote: ORIGINAL: wnyThroatLover Luckily for me there is a backspace key...when I actually speak my brain often works faster than my mouth, words get jumbled and come out in random and unexpected orders and...well...I often look like a big dickblister trying to poke a twatwaffle whom is already involved with a douchecanoe... But boy howdy can I write! Haha So...now that I'm sexy...wanna do the horizontal howdyado, the adult time macarena, the dirty twist, the 4 hand hoopaloo? Lmao. Comeon, you know a hoopaloo sounds like fun [;)] That's how I'm supposed to act now, right? [;)] (Insert preemptive comical and snarky comments aimed at everyone who inevitably will take this wrong..........HERE)

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