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abamas -> What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 7:37:09 AM)

What is wrong with you? Why there's so much fakes? How to find the real one?



wnyThroatLover -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 7:42:57 AM)

There's nothing wrong with me...what the hell is your problem?

Just like any kind of dating...patience young grasshoppah!



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 7:43:29 AM)

Abamas,

Looking at your profile, what's wrong with us is we're bored with someone who has so little imagination the essay portion of his profile is a copy & paste of his Fetlife fetish list. For crying out loud, is that the best you can do?! If it is, that is really really sad.[8|] It's not that we're fake(we're not), the problem is you're boring and we want better than that.

NBMG



OttersSwim -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 7:43:48 AM)

I'm sorry I caused all that cancer...



JanahX -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 7:47:05 AM)

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What is wrong with you?


many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many, many things.

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Why there's so much fakes?


Because youre using Miracle Whip.

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How to find the real one?


You use your batman decoder ring.



MistressJude -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 7:47:29 AM)

Maybe the problem is that your profile is only a list of fetishes from the other site (links and all lol) and that you've never bothered to tell anyone about yourself as a person. While we may be doms seeking subs we're also interested in how well those subs will fit into our "everyday" lives and that means being compatible as a person not just what your wank-list is about. If you're profile is just fetishes that tells anyone looking at it that you're only interested in scenes, sessions, or getting a good jerk off.



LadyPact -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 7:53:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: abamas

What is wrong with you? Why there's so much fakes? How to find the real one?
Why am I surprised this is in Ask A Mistress?

Answer #1 - Insomnia. My ass shouldn't be up this early in My time zone.

Answer #2 - They answered that in the "common complaints" section of the FAQ.

Answer #3 - Shut off your computer and go to a munch.

Not especially helpful and nowhere near as funny as Janah's Miracle Whip comment.




abamas -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 9:10:35 AM)

oh thank you. "i learned a lot"



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 9:33:11 AM)

Abamas,

If you listened, you would learn a lot. Look at your profile. Sixteen of the twenty-eight interests listed on the left are kinky/sexual, the essay portion to the right is entirely made up of your fetlife fetish list. Aside from that, it's your personal stats and what you're looking for. It looks like all you are really looking for is sex/kink.

It's no wonder you think everyone else is fake. They want nothing to do with you because you're profile says nothing about who you are as a person and a lot of Dommes(since you did post it in Ask a Mistress) are interested in more than a do-me with a list of fetishes, we already get way too much of those in our inboxes. We want to know who you are as a person because, lets face it, we can't be doing that all the time.

Before you go any further, please, PLEASE read the Ask a Mistress FAQ and that will tell you a lot about how you can improve your chances of finding the right One for you. Because what you're doing now is apparently not working well for you.

NBMG



LittleMsMary -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 10:04:54 AM)

What I tell anyone who asks (or posts about it on a forum like this) about why the quality of responses they are getting isn't very good, is to start looking at how you're presenting yourself and who you are presenting yourself to, and go from there. In other words, ask if there is something YOU are doing that is turning people away (because, yes, there are"real" Dommes around) and if you can't decide that on your own, ask for help. Sometimes it's little things that are sending the wrong message, sometimes the entire profile is bad, sometimes it's a lack of grammar and spelling, sometimes it's that people message every female profile with a porn model picture, etc and those are often going to be scams. Figure that out first and it will dramatically improve your chances with all of the actual women on this site.

Best wishes in your search.



GreedyTop -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 10:27:18 AM)

Aside from my headache, just now, nothing is wrong with me, thanks for asking.



Alecta -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 10:39:27 AM)

this is not the first time he's asked this question.



LadyPact -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 10:41:41 AM)

Fair enough. It's not the first time I've had insomnia, either.

Wakka, wakka, wakka.



SlipSlidingAway -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 10:43:41 AM)

We are all "fake" because you have decided that the only people who are real BOTH share your kinks AND wish to participate in them with you.

There are a ton of real people out here, just because they are not interested in fulfilling your fantasies does not mean there is anything "wrong" with them.



MsLadySue -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 10:44:09 AM)

OP due to the content of your profile, the chances of you finding the right one is next to ZILCH/NADA/NONE. You are young and thinking with the wrong head.

You are searching for a Fetish Delivery Service and the only dominant women providing that service are Pro-Dommes you have to pay.




NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 10:50:51 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MsLadySue

OP due to the content of your profile, the chances of you finding the right one is next to ZILCH/NADA/NONE. You are young and thinking with the wrong head.

You are searching for a Fetish Delivery Service and the only dominant women providing that service are Pro-Dommes you have to pay.

Yes, and they are most definitely real. REAL expensive. [:D]

NBMG



VioletViolence -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 12:47:39 PM)

Ok, so I'm a domme who's near-ish to your age and who shares some of the same kinks with you. And I would pass you right by. Why? Because kink isn't something that every damn dude off the street gets to engage in with me. I have to know you, not forever, but I need a sense of what you're like as a person and I need to feel like my partner's as interested in me as the kink. Only then do I start to let out that side of me.



LaTigresse -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 1:05:07 PM)


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ORIGINAL: abamas

What is wrong with you? Why there's so much fakes? How to find the real one?


There is nothing wrong with me but thank you for your concern.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 1:32:14 PM)

I haver a very itchy minge.



mnottertail -> RE: What is wrong with you? (10/10/2012 1:34:23 PM)

Get thee to a chankre mechanic and get some powder on it then.




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