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searching4mysir -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 5:30:24 PM)

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I have yet to meet a sub that shows up on time for the first meeting. Indeed-- I have yet to meet a woman who does.


Then meeting you is simply not a priority to her.

I'm on time (if not early) to my appointments if the appointment is important to me. Even when I was commuting to NYC on a daily basis, I padded my commute with 30 minutes to account for delays because I felt it important to not be late to work. I was late to work twice in 10 years. Both times my train hit a person on the tracks.



DaddySatyr -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 5:58:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

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I have yet to meet a sub that shows up on time for the first meeting. Indeed-- I have yet to meet a woman who does.


Then meeting you is simply not a priority to her.

I'm on time (if not early) to my appointments if the appointment is important to me. Even when I was commuting to NYC on a daily basis, I padded my commute with 30 minutes to account for delays because I felt it important to not be late to work. I was late to work twice in 10 years. Both times my train hit a person on the tracks.


Jesus H. Christ on a pogo stick! Please tell me you weren't an engineer for the MTA? LOL



Peace and comfort,



Michael



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 6:45:37 PM)

That's what you got out of what I said?

Wow, just wow. You are far more of a brick wall than even I understood. I so stand corrected. Please carry on, and you shall get just exactly what you deserve.

And yes, Kana, I did say reams, another most excellent word that has so very many meanings.






descrite -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 6:54:47 PM)

Me: X.

ChatteParfaitt: Not X. I have a vast compendium of knowledge and insight on this topic, and I know Not X. I can teach your grandmother to suck eggs.

Me: Cool. Care to share specifics?

CP: No. But Not X. And some words that sure sound like Y.

Me: Y? Y is ridiculous. I would never do Y.

CP: No, of course not Y-- what are you, fucking stupid?



Gosh, your subs sure have it good. Who wouldn't want to be a student under you?




kalikshama -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 7:18:16 PM)

Although that was a fucking hysterical summary, I would argue that CP did not express Not X, but (A-X), where (A-V) equals her understanding of you based on your earlier posts on other threads. Being male, you are prone to focus on X, and so hilarity ensues.



NuevaVida -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 7:31:54 PM)

Random thoughts:

Have not seen the ad quoted in the OP. I never log out!! I just minimize my browser, which has several tabs open at a time. But it's definitely a dumb ad and I agree with DarkSteve about it focusing slely on getting laid.

Loved Kana's post - very awesome.

I was a half hour late to our second date, for reasons he thought were hilarious. Fortunately, he thought it was worth the wait :)



searching4mysir -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 7:51:09 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr

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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

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I have yet to meet a sub that shows up on time for the first meeting. Indeed-- I have yet to meet a woman who does.


Then meeting you is simply not a priority to her.

I'm on time (if not early) to my appointments if the appointment is important to me. Even when I was commuting to NYC on a daily basis, I padded my commute with 30 minutes to account for delays because I felt it important to not be late to work. I was late to work twice in 10 years. Both times my train hit a person on the tracks.


Jesus H. Christ on a pogo stick! Please tell me you weren't an engineer for the MTA? LOL



Peace and comfort,



Michael



No, Michael. I was a lowly secretary on Wall Street.



descrite -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 8:11:01 PM)

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Although that was a fucking hysterical summary, I would argue that CP did not express Not X, but (A-X), where (A-V) equals her understanding of you based on your earlier posts on other threads. Being male, you are prone to focus on X, and so hilarity ensues.


I...think I get that.

The responses still didn't clarify A at all. Which, I think, is what I was asking for.

Can you imagine a teacher telling a student, "I have the answer to the problem. But I am not going to tell it to you because you are too dumb/immature/innately incapable of understanding it. Plus, I don't like you"?

I mean, even if that's true, you don't taunt the kid; let the little shit fail the test on his own.




kalikshama -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 8:20:40 PM)

Perhaps she saw you as looking at symptoms and, based on your entire medical history/aka posting history, she was offering a treatment for the root cause of said symptoms?

I didn't get this vibe from her post at all:

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Can you imagine a teacher telling a student, "I have the answer to the problem. But I am not going to tell it to you because you are too dumb/immature/innately incapable of understanding it. Plus, I don't like you"?





SlipSlidingAway -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 8:21:17 PM)

I guess that I missed the part where she was your teacher?

Just because someone disagrees with you, or because they think you are way off base, it does not fall on them to educate you.

Especially if the don't like you.

Not saying that she falls into that category; just paraphrasing your obvious take on the situation.

...and, from previous threads, you don't generally come across as open to the ideas of others. Even when they are valid.

Eventually people just stop trying.



RemoteUser -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 8:39:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: descrite

Because, honestly...there are so many perfect women in the world. So many whose intellect, appearance, and tastes all dovetail neatly with mine. And they're all battering down my door, because they all love making the first move. I should really just hold out for those.


The only commonality between these women and you, is you. That's what people are trying to point out. We all have less than perfect experiences. Kana goes with the flow. Chatte examines herself.

What do you think you should do?




descrite -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/14/2012 11:22:15 PM)

Me? Shit, I'll keep trying. That well ain't gonna pump itself. Get back on the horse. Like riding a bike.

And any other cliches I can think of.

I have been dating women for probably as long as most of these posters have been on the planet...to more or less rewarding effect. A few bad dates will not deter me; the net cost, while painful, is nowhere near debilitating.

The vast majority of such experiences have been rewarding and pleasureable. Those outliers? Well....they can be doozies. Whew!

Vive la difference, non?





ChatteParfaitt -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/15/2012 5:13:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: RemoteUser



The only commonality between these women and you, is you. That's what people are trying to point out. We all have less than perfect experiences. Kana goes with the flow. Chatte examines herself.

What do you think you should do?




And the RemoteUser observes, and reports.

ETA: It should be *sometimes* reports. I've a feeling the Remoteuser does much more observing than reporting.



Aswad -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/15/2012 8:45:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sarahcupcake

i've never seen the ad personally. but i think it's pretty obvious. sleeping around is for selfish shallow or silly ppl. everyone wants someone to love and look after, and everyone wants in some way to be loved and looked after too.


I fail to see the contradiction between the two.

I could claim that drinking wine is for selfish, shallow or silly people, that everyone needs water and everyone wants to avoid starving. But the fact of the matter is that an occasional glass of red is no impediment to maintaining proper nutrition and hydration. In the same way, it is perfectly possible to sleep around in a responsible manner, with the full knowledge and consent of one's partner, without ever diminishing the relationship to the partner.

IWYW,
— Aswad.



Aswad -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/15/2012 8:53:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: descrite

I should really just hold out for those.


Might be for the best.

IWYW,
— Aswad.



kiwisub12 -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/15/2012 2:01:58 PM)

I guess i'm shallow and easily lead by a pretty face - i thought a subhunt was a funny way of describing it. It bought to mind images of Elmer Fudd creeping along with shackles in hand, saying "ssh, i'm hunting a wascally sub". [:D]



RemoteUser -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/15/2012 2:14:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

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ORIGINAL: RemoteUser



The only commonality between these women and you, is you. That's what people are trying to point out. We all have less than perfect experiences. Kana goes with the flow. Chatte examines herself.

What do you think you should do?




And the RemoteUser observes, and reports.

ETA: It should be *sometimes* reports. I've a feeling the Remoteuser does much more observing than reporting.


It's not really my place to report. Reminding seems friendly enough though. Sometimes summaries have more impact - I wasn't trying to alter your message, apologies if it came off that way. I agreed with everything you said (but wasn't sure it was getting through to your audience).




descrite -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/15/2012 7:53:15 PM)

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It bought to mind images of Elmer Fudd creeping along with shackles in hand, saying "ssh, i'm hunting a wascally sub".


Okay, that's just hilarious.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/15/2012 10:01:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Aswad

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ORIGINAL: descrite

I should really just hold out for those.


Might be for the best.

IWYW,
— Aswad.



Might be a VERY long wait...but no matter. More hilarity will ensue.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: The "Death" Of Your Dating Life... (10/15/2012 10:13:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Anaxagoras

We've heard a lot about the pop-up advert so is anyone a bit pissed (or pleased) at the insulting/patronising (or useful) content of the large advert that greets one after logging off -


I haven't seen the ad. But if someone's dumb enough to fall for it, he's either a complete idiot, desperate, or both.

If it really worked so well, why would the author of that ad share his secret?

Reminds me of the 'how to make a million dollars in the stock market' kind of book. If somebody actually does it, why does s(he) need to bother writing a book...s(he's) already rich, right? Why would this person need more money from book sales? Same reason the 'I get laid without dating' guy needs to advertise his 'method'.



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