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RE: really don't understand - 10/21/2012 10:52:44 AM

wnyThroatLover

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ORIGINAL: Bimbofied
"BDSM is all about the pain and not the pleasure, you my dear are living in a fantasy world if you think there is such a thing as a gentle dom"

What?!? Gentle doms don't exist?!?

...I can feel myself being scrubbed from reality as I type this...hopefully I can hit the "ok" button before I fully vanish!

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RE: really don't understand - 10/21/2012 10:53:40 AM

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Until we read about him in the paper and all the neighbors saying, "He was a quiet guy, kept to himself..."

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RE: really don't understand - 10/21/2012 11:26:39 AM

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W/we all have our limits of what we will and will not do and that is ok and frankly a good way to let Dom/mes have some basic idea if they are even interested in contacting you to get to know you. even i have had some that have also pulled this on me because i have poly as a hard limit, or tell me they can break me from being a switch, i just delete them and move on. i would not waste time worrying about his dumb-ass comment personally. continue on with you're personal growth and eventually the right one will come through. even had one Dom try after 3 times of us just meeting come out and try to tell me that he now owns me- duh not on you're life as first off it takes a good while to get to know someone really well and to honestly find out if you are really compatable. take time to get to know them= ask tons of questions- and the ones that don't answer them or tell you to shut up at a face to race are all red flags.

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RE: really don't understand - 10/21/2012 12:05:39 PM

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Good call. Consensual non-consent, abduction etc is the kind of play that you should only do with someone you really know and trust, not some random stranger. Dunno if he was a rapist or just some crazy idiot who watches too much BDSM porn, but either way he's someone to avoid.

My husband and I played Kidnap & Torture...after 10 years of marriage. Now, I wouldn't need to wait that long in my next relationship, but would find a complete stranger suggesting rape roleplay extremely distasteful

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RE: really don't understand - 10/21/2012 12:26:35 PM

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Please don't vanish just yet lol

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RE: really don't understand - 11/13/2012 3:16:25 PM

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you think you got limits...LOL...i think i have more limits than most any human on the planet...doesn't matter how many or how few limits you have, if you feel submissive, then that's what you are. i'm just saying

(oh, for those who know me...i'm baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaackkkk!!!!)

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RE: really don't understand - 11/13/2012 7:43:49 PM

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Serious question: how do you do this regularly & not have a cavernous echoing vagina as a result (please don't say kegels)
2) Is it just me or do you feel like a muppet ?

Seriously wasn't for me, pretty sure launching into miss piggy & kermit routine didn't help matters!!

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