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tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Funny Messages from the "Other Side" (11/23/2012 11:06:22 AM)
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I finally have one (though it showed up as a wall'o'text I'm going to insert paragraphs to make it easier to read. The guy obviously didn't read my profile. Nothing new there though right? Not even personalized. [8|]
Dated:
11/22/12 10:41 AM
I am a 6'3 Tall Dominant Caucasian Male with Piercing Eyes, Large Solid Frame. Very masculine, strong, manicured and well groomed, I am intelligent, educated, outgoing, and posses excellent communication and writing skills. I will be retired at the age of 46 after a successful career in military, i am 45 now. I lead my life, my vanilla life and my D/s life all with a high level of honor and integrity. I am strict but fair, compassionate, understanding and loving. I am described by my friends as Insightful, Empathetic, Thoughtful, Creative, Intuitive, Balanced My life revolves around principles of loyalty, honor, trust & respect.
Respect is not given, unless it is earned, if you give it, you'll get it. it's a lesson well learned WHO YOU MUST BE negotiable ................................ You must be intelligent, outgoing, loyal, obedient, respectful and able to carry on a conversation. You must have a desire to be trained with the rituals and protocols of the lifestyle and be willing to accept discipline. Your mental state of mind regarding your submission and surrender is far more important to me that your physical appearances. You are disease free. Words like Honor, Respect, Integrity and Obligation have meaning to me and they must to you also. As a submissive you do best with strict rules and guidelines and we will have open dialogue and communication so that my expectations of you are clear. A desire to learn and grow in your role as my property is key to a successful long term Total Power Exchange. You must believe, live by and feel in your soul that a Master/sub relationship is a reality based 24/7 life choice, it's not all about play. with honest & open communication & NO GREEN EYED MONSTERS!
The Commitment Of A Master/sub relationship is a two-way street and you must know that I do not hand out collars like prizes from a vending machine, you must earn my collar so that it has meanng and value to you. You must have a strong work ethic and a sense of self worth and high self estemm, I do not want a dish rag. Domination is the desire to exert control over a consenting partner for the purpose of mutual gratification. How one expresses their Dominance is as individual as their finger prints so understand that what in last 17 yrs you have gone through will be changed now.I feel that taking ownership of a submissive, is taking the responsibility to train them, teach them and inspire them to become the submissive you want them to be while letting them be the person that they really are. Also at the same time encouraging them to experience their own growth as you grow with them. As a Master, I must allow submissive to keep their individuality, creativity and intelligence or all you end up with is a dish rag.
Relationships are a two-way street. Once they become one-way, they soon become a dead end. For it to flourish, a relationship must be maintained and nourished. I believe that a good Dom teaches, an excellent Dom explains, but a true Master inspires. I train with heavy emphasis on the Mental part of Ds because I believe that if you capture the mind, the body, heart and soul will follow, BUT IT START WITH THE SUBMISSION OF BODY AS MIND IS INSIDE OF YOUR BODY AND IF YOU SUBMIT WITH YOUR BODY ONLY THEN MIND KNOWS WHAT IS GOING ON.
I believe that what's between your ears is more important than what's between your legs. The sexiest part of a woman is her mind. The foundation of your Ds training will be the 12 Elements of BDSM based on: Loyalty, Obedience, Respect and Discipline Honor, Integrity, Growth, Humility, My attitude is very upbeat and positive. If asked how I feel, my usual reply is I'm all good all the time. I see the glass as completely full because it contains 50% liquid and 50% air. I truly feel that my life has been blessed with happiness and that my most valued assets are my good friends. I would only consider a woman that takes this lifestyle seriously. she would fully understand that 90% of Ds is mental. I want what's between your ears first... not what's between your legs.
I believe that Dominant and submissive behaviors are natural traits we are born with and are not learned behavior. I also believe that they are rare. The type of person I am attracted to are brutally honest but compassionate, very strong willed, and extremely intelligent persons... the kind of person that can walk all over most men and will surrender only to their true Master when he finds her. A good submissive is not someone who wants to be abused; a good SUB is a smart, intelligent, strong individual who enjoys taking a break from life's responsibility of making their own decisions. A true submissive is able to hand this over to a trustworthy Master who won’t take advantage of her or him and always does what he feels is in their best interest.
I create a living environment that makes it safe for you to be who you are in a situation where you can let go of every detail and know you have given power and control to someone worthy, honest and trustworthy. We will live by the guidelines of Safe, Sane and Consensual. I will consider allowing a submissive to continue in their career and work outside of the home.
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