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Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 3:22:33 PM   
RyTheDominantSub


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Status: offline 		Hi, why can't we filter between fin dommes or professional dommes and people who are just looking for a relationship? I believe this will be a better experience for everyone. Subs, don't have to filter through hundreds of dom's asking for tribute ect and professional dominatrix's don't have to deal with time wasters.
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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 3:41:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		most of us are capable of performing that "filtering" all by ourselves.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 3:47:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Hi, why can't we filter between fin dommes or professional dommes and people who are just looking for a relationship?
What about people not looking for a relationship?


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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 3:50:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Hi, why can't we filter between fin dommes or professional dommes and people who are just looking for a relationship?
What about people not looking for a relationship?


Well I guess they are fucked...of course we could just leave CM alone and everyone could keep going about the tiresome task of finding another who meets the criteria you want

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 3:52:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slvemike4u


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Hi, why can't we filter between fin dommes or professional dommes and people who are just looking for a relationship?
What about people not looking for a relationship?


Well I guess they are fucked...of course we could just leave CM alone and everyone could keep going about the tiresome task of finding another who meets the criteria you want


Yeah, we're probably just being silly, expecting to have to put some effort into the search.

Can you imagine how tweaked he would be if he went to a munch? OMG, he'd actually have to figure out if each woman was Domme or sub...and then whether they were a pro. Brains would melt.


< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 10/14/2012 3:54:45 PM >

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 3:58:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Hi, why can't we filter between fin dommes or professional dommes and people who are just looking for a relationship? I believe this will be a better experience for everyone. Subs, don't have to filter through hundreds of dom's asking for tribute ect and professional dominatrix's don't have to deal with time wasters.


See, here's how that filtering thing works Ry.....when they ask you for money....they're a FinDomme.

If you don't want to give them money....that's the point where you say.....

"No thank you....you're a bloodsucking piece of human sewage"....and then....all is well.

(See how that works?).

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 4:20:43 PM   
RyTheDominantSub


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Status: offline 		Do you think I don't understand how to spot a findomme? What I'M saying is that it's incredibly time consuming to do that. When I really shouldn't have to, it'd be very simple to set up. You can filter through age, race, sexual orientation. Why can't you filter that? It's annoying when 90% of the dommes I see are fin dommes and I have to keep searching when it could all be avoided with a simple filter system. I don't like wasting my time. Perhaps you don't realise the extent to which this is a problem, look for female dominants and see how hard it is to find one that isn't looking for cash.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 4:40:34 PM   
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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 4:50:33 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		I can understand your frustration, but I really don't think it would work as favorably as you think
in the long run, as now you would be relying on the fact that they would actually bother to check a box.

Why not spend some more time on this side of the site and interact with us a bit? There are many
dominant women here who aren't financial or professional, and it's a great way for you to get noticed.

< Message edited by poise -- 10/14/2012 4:51:38 PM >

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 4:52:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Do you think I don't understand how to spot a findomme? What I'M saying is that it's incredibly time consuming to do that. When I really shouldn't have to, it'd be very simple to set up. You can filter through age, race, sexual orientation. Why can't you filter that? It's annoying when 90% of the dommes I see are fin dommes and I have to keep searching when it could all be avoided with a simple filter system. I don't like wasting my time. Perhaps you don't realise the extent to which this is a problem, look for female dominants and see how hard it is to find one that isn't looking for cash.

I'm sure any future Lifestyle Domme will be impressed by your willingness to put the work in,to move mountains ,it is truly promising to know that you will let no obstacle deter you from your objective
Do you get it ?
You are not impressing anyone with this plea to make things simpler for yourself,some folks feel it should be har and are impressed when you put an effort in,try to wrap your mind around that.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 6:12:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Hi, why can't we filter between fin dommes or professional dommes and people who are just looking for a relationship? I believe this will be a better experience for everyone. Subs, don't have to filter through hundreds of dom's asking for tribute ect and professional dominatrix's don't have to deal with time wasters.

For the same reason we can't filter all the lazy whinebags, the software doesn't allow it.



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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 7:20:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		I want a married cheater filter!

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 7:31:52 PM   
MsLadySue


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Status: offline 		Ry, you are not getting the responses agreeing with you because this is a very old and often asked question. I don't spend as much time on here as some but I would say this question, in one variation or another, is asked at least once a week. Keep in mind this is a free site.
Oh, and welcome.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 7:39:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Do you think I don't understand how to spot a findomme? What I'M saying is that it's incredibly time consuming to do that. When I really shouldn't have to, it'd be very simple to set up. You can filter through age, race, sexual orientation. Why can't you filter that? It's annoying when 90% of the dommes I see are fin dommes and I have to keep searching when it could all be avoided with a simple filter system. I don't like wasting my time. Perhaps you don't realise the extent to which this is a problem, look for female dominants and see how hard it is to find one that isn't looking for cash.

Time consuming?

DOOD, I can spot them, click next and forget they ever existed in under 3 seconds.
You spend so much time obsessing over the bad that you won't ever see the good.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 7:43:39 PM   
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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 7:48:42 PM   
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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 8:12:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

I want a married cheater filter!


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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 8:38:57 PM   
TNDommeK


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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


quote:

ORIGINAL: RyTheDominantSub

Hi, why can't we filter between fin dommes or professional dommes and people who are just looking for a relationship? I believe this will be a better experience for everyone. Subs, don't have to filter through hundreds of dom's asking for tribute ect and professional dominatrix's don't have to deal with time wasters.


See, here's how that filtering thing works Ry.....when they ask you for money....they're a FinDomme.

If you don't want to give them money....that's the point where you say.....

"No thank you....you're a bloodsucking piece of human sewage"....and then....all is well.

(See how that works?).


But some of us are soooo good at it.

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 8:47:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are a few of us who are "lifestyle" Dommes but also financial and/or professional Dommes. Which filter do we fit into? :P

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RE: Why can't we filter pro dommes/doms? - 10/14/2012 10:06:58 PM   
Alecta


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Status: offline 		Filters won't help you with scammers... They're scammers. They are going to lie :p

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