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Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 9:31:21 AM

ScarletKissesx

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This is my first time posting on the forums although I've been on cm for a considerable amount of time under different aliases for my own safety. I often read threads griping about 'pro dommes' being nothing but worthless human beings and other terms etc

as a pro in Ireland I'd like to make it clear that not all pro's are such awful creatures. I'm aware this may be met with criticsm and abuse but feck it, if your mature enough to understand where I'm coming from then fair play to you.

I became interested in kink during my early teens, the exploration years, and became enthrawled in it. Years later it had become a significant part of my life, due to the economy of ireland in recent years I had to drop out of college as I could no longer afford to attend. With the jobs market virtually dead and buried I started to research the areas that will never die, they are weddings, funerals and the sex industry.

I saw an oppurtunity to make a living for myself as a pro, offering as much as possible to have a monopoly on the market, after extensive research I decided rates that were industry standard if not lower, I don't do online play and from the on set I'm straight up that I'm a pro, I do not lead people on and demand tribute after a few days of correspondence, its made clear from the beginning.

Throughout my time as a pro I have started a nest egg to use in order to go back to college to earn a business degree, I also run a vanilla business, although pro work is more profitable and stable, for the time being at least.

I work hard, respect health,safety and privacy with my life. So if I'm considered an awful person for doing what I have to do in a country thats so fecked for the next 20 years then thats your opinion, deal with it. Being a pro isnt easy, ive had bad experiences and some that were truly terrifying. What I don't understand is how the men on here condemn pro's when he majority of men have no problem paying for an escort. Hypocracy is amazing I must admit.

So before you condemn me, realise this I'm in my early 20's trying to make a living in a country destroyed by the recession, unemployment at an all time high along with mental health issues and drug and drink abuse.

I do all this to give myself a better future, is that so wrong?

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 9:35:14 AM

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I think you might be confusing this board's attitudes of Pro Dommes vs Fin Dommes.

The former actually give a service in exchange for money and have to continually update their clothing, equipment, personal skills and dungeon frequently at great personal expense.

The latter seems to just be a bunch of little duck lipped teenaged panhandlers and we treat them as such.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 9:40:48 AM

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From what I've seen of recent, they have all been tarred with the same brush, although usually I would hold my tongue and not speak up, seeing as there is littl to no input from pro's on the subject I wanted to restore a little faith in humanity that not all are duck faced and money hungry :)

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 9:47:21 AM

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That was very well written.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 9:48:14 AM

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For me, I don't have a problem with Pro - dom or sub. I think I don't understand why CM is used as an advert place for your business.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 9:53:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ScarletKissesx

From what I've seen of recent, they have all been tarred with the same brush, although usually I would hold my tongue and not speak up, seeing as there is littl to no input from pro's on the subject I wanted to restore a little faith in humanity that not all are duck faced and money hungry :)

I think the vast majority of us here do know the difference between a pro-domme and someone who is hoping for a quick buck. You will probably notice that those posters who do bitch about pro dommes in that way are not regulars on this side, and just pop over to vent about how no one will get them off for free.

I think a pro domme who knows what she's doing is worth her weight in gold. There's a whole bunch of people out there who realistically will not get the experience they want without one - because they want something lots of people don't like, because they want something incredibly specific, because they are not willing/able to put the time and effort into a relationship which could meet those needs etc etc. A pro domme who knows how to do these things safely can be a wonderful thing.

And I have no doubt you work damn hard for your money. The people who come under fire are those who clearly haven't done their homework, who post a picture of them sticking their middle fingers up and a poorly-punctuated paragraph about how they deserve to be worshiped by the unworthy worms and demand money.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 10:11:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
You will probably notice that those posters who do bitch about pro dommes in that way are not regulars on this side, and just pop over to vent about how no one will get them off for free.

That hit the nail on the head. There actually are a few pros on the forums who are respected posters.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 10:19:47 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I think the vast majority of us here do know the difference between a pro-domme and someone who is hoping for a quick buck. You will probably notice that those posters who do bitch about pro dommes in that way are not regulars on this side, and just pop over to vent about how no one will get them off for free.

I think a pro domme who knows what she's doing is worth her weight in gold. There's a whole bunch of people out there who realistically will not get the experience they want without one - because they want something lots of people don't like, because they want something incredibly specific, because they are not willing/able to put the time and effort into a relationship which could meet those needs etc etc. A pro domme who knows how to do these things safely can be a wonderful thing.

And I have no doubt you work damn hard for your money. The people who come under fire are those who clearly haven't done their homework, who post a picture of them sticking their middle fingers up and a poorly-punctuated paragraph about how they deserve to be worshiped by the unworthy worms and demand money.

There are pros and ex-pros who are highly respected members of this forum. They bring a wealth of knowledge and experience to the table, and most of us find their input invaluable.

Most of us also have little time for scammers and 18 year olds who think b/c someone handed them a crop they are now a "domme."

BTW: We get threads like this one on a very regular basis. Learn how to use the search function and perhaps we won't think you're just trying to drum up business.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 11:43:55 AM

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quote:

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I do all this to give myself a better future, is that so wrong?

To even START thinking that it might be wrong I'd have to agree that there is something wrong with selling sex for money and I don't think that. So that basically makes me pretty cool with both pro and fin dommes since it all looks like just another business transaction to me. For you in particular, you have a cute body and a kinky brain and you've put them to work for yourself. Yay!

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 12:07:23 PM

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If by "sex" you mean any sort of genital contact, the Pro Dommes I knew in Florida did not include that.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 1:49:38 PM

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Hey OP I accept your challenge.

A mile in your shoes agin an hour in my pants

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 5:37:14 PM

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What Hill said.

Although, honestly, I'm a big believer in the freedom of perceived value. If both parties are consenting adults, I might think the customer is an idiot, but it's not my money, so it's not my call.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 5:38:26 PM

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I meant to reply earlier but I got tied up, no pun intended of course ;) thank you all for your feedback and the compliment about my body and brain? Much appreciated :P as for posting in the wrong section, apologies, but hey off topic, this kind of is right?

I didn't post this to drum up business as I know the forums are dominated by america and the uk, sure what would I be doing travelling there? I simply felt the need to give a pro's perspective, as I've seen very little input from actively working dommes. As a young woman in my early 20's I just wanted to point out not every young buck is looking for a quick buck :)

Actually on the irish scene there has been a recent influx of 'fin dommes' or the 50 shade brigade as I like to call them, which has in fact damaged my business as I've been categorized with them. A minor annoyance, but I digress :)

To the wonderful gntleman above me, pull a proclaimers in my heels, then we'll talk ;)

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 5:39:45 PM

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I meant to reply earlier but I got tied up, no pun intended of course ;) thank you all for your feedback and the compliment about my body and brain? Much appreciated :P as for posting in the wrong section, apologies, but hey off topic, this kind of is right?

I didn't post this to drum up business as I know the forums are dominated by america and the uk, sure what would I be doing travelling there? I simply felt the need to give a pro's perspective, as I've seen very little input from actively working dommes. As a young woman in my early 20's I just wanted to point out not every young buck is looking for a quick buck :)

Actually on the irish scene there has been a recent influx of 'fin dommes' or the 50 shade brigade as I like to call them, which has in fact damaged my business as I've been categorized with them. A minor annoyance, but I digress :)

To the wonderful gntleman above me, pull a proclaimers in my heels, then we'll talk ;)

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 5:42:13 PM

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I meant to reply earlier but I got tied up, no pun intended of course ;) thank you all for your feedback and the compliment about my body and brain? Much appreciated :P as for posting in the wrong section, apologies, but hey off topic, this kind of is right?

I didn't post this to drum up business as I know the forums are dominated by america and the uk, sure what would I be doing travelling there? I simply felt the need to give a pro's perspective, as I've seen very little input from actively working dommes. As a young woman in my early 20's I just wanted to point out not every young buck is looking for a quick buck :)

Actually on the irish scene there has been a recent influx of 'fin dommes' or the 50 shade brigade as I like to call them, which has in fact damaged my business as I've been categorized with them. A minor annoyance, but I digress :)

To the wonderful gntleman above me, pull a proclaimers in my heels, then we'll talk ;)

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 5:47:08 PM

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`ell no its NOT wrong!

There are many here, and some post alot...

Theres a purpose and a need nor would there be pro domme`s.

Years back back I contacted one from a web site in Colorado...If I would have had lots of money...I woold have drove every weeked to see her!

Just her accepting me made me feel good...then, come to find out years later she is on this site and does very well in her buisness...

Laugh all the way to the bank I say....and really, who cares what people on a forum really thinks...ppfffft.

More power to you and keep on truckin`...

Peace.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 5:52:24 PM

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Your BTW is kinda callin` the kettle black if my memory is correct...and it is.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 6:33:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: ScarletKissesx
I saw an oppurtunity to make a living for myself as a pro, offering as much as possible to have a monopoly on the market, after extensive research I decided rates that were industry standard if not lower, I don't do online play and from the on set I'm straight up that I'm a pro, I do not lead people on and demand tribute after a few days of correspondence, its made clear from the beginning.

I think experienced professional dommes (not the 20 year olds that want extra dosh for shopping) provide a vital service for many men. Having said that I think the OP is a wee bit self pitying because many of the regulars usually slam critics of pro's. There will always be people who rage about them. At best I think some might be men are surprised by the number of pros on CM but others are just venting their spleen, perhaps after being ripped off for being thick. But its good that the OP is open about being a pro (as per her profile).

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What I don't understand is how the men on here condemn pro's when he majority of men have no problem paying for an escort. Hypocracy is amazing I must admit.

I wonder how true the above is about the majority of men. I don't know of any man who has used an escort or anyone that has acknowledged it at least.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 6:41:01 PM

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Self pitying in what way?

Your in dublin, thats the most concentrated area of escorts in this country, what man is going to admit he couldn't pull countless imes and resorted to having a guarunteed experience for a fee? Isnt that against the alpha male bravado to admit your secrets.

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RE: Wallk a mile in my pro heels - 10/19/2012 6:49:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: ScarletKissesx
Your in dublin, thats the most concentrated area of escorts in this country, what man is going to admit he couldn't pull countless imes and resorted to having a guarunteed experience for a fee? Isnt that against the alpha male bravado to admit your secrets.

I assume Dublin has plenty of escorts but then again what capital city doesn't? I assume some wouldn't admit it but plenty of men wouldn't care that much about their pride of they weren't able to pull since everyone knows its not always easy even for those fortunate enough to be very attractive (as I should know no doubt )!!

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