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why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 8:48:02 PM   
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in Joplin Missouri; i went to a bar; a waitress worked there; i expressed interest in her;
then she got all paranoid
accusing me of being outside her apartment; got some people pissed at me
i did not know where she lived
i am easily discouraged
easily shot down
one time; i was walking down the alley; a short cut to the convenience store; the library; any place i wanted to walk to in Joplin; i saw her leave an apartment building by that alley
i thought; ah ha
we both live in the same area
everytime i went down the alley to where i need to go; she thought i was stalking her
wrong!!!
just in the same area; funny thing, she never took the time to acknowledge that my passing by her place was coincidence
how paranoid

now in my place;
there is a woman
who had a coat without sleeves;
i gave her a jacket to wear under it
she knew that a lot of guys find her attractive
but she is not the only attractive woman here
she got all paranoid
in the 2 months that i have known her;
i only knocked on her door twice
i only see her in the common areas
she got the impression that i am obsessing over her
she got kinda freaked
i have way too many problems to obsess
over anyone
i am too full of myself
to concern myself
with anyone
other than myself
like no car
little money
other things i lack
my teams losing
i am an utter malcontent
how can i obsess over anyone
when i am so full of myself?
she told some friends
that i freak her out
she gave the jacket to a friend
to give back to me...

it is not the only time
when a crazy woman gave me grief
the worse was my wife
who i left over 3 years ago

that is why i feel so blessed to be alone
i will not settle for less
i will have a sane woman
who will accept me for who i am
not a woman with some mental illness

otherwise; i just walk alone
i will never settle
or compromise
ever again'
because everytime
i do
i regret it

the friend that picked up the jacket
relayed that message
to that woman
that i think she is being paranoid

anyway;
i better not even say one word to her
in the common areas
that would feed her paranoia

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 9:09:06 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		Hmm...so you expressed interest to a woman in a bar, who later found you outside her apartment on more than one occasion.

And then you offered a coat to another woman, whose door you knocked on twice AND who you see around town.

You think they're being paranoid and "mentally ill", and can not understand why they might have some concern over this?

You do realize women do get stalked, raped, and otherwise violated, yes? If either of the above happened to me, I'd be concerned, too. Having been stalked before, I can tell you that not feeling safe is a horrible feeling. Leave those ladies alone and stop knocking on women's doors unless you're invited.

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 9:18:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		i guess you failed to get the message;
i live in the same area
i did not follow her; i did not investigate where she lived
i live in the same area
i live in the same area
i live in the same area
i hope that sinks in
60 days, knock on a door twice; 10 seconds total
10 seconds out of 60 days, times 24 hours times, 60 minutes times 60 seconds
i spend 10 seconds out of 5,184,000 seconds at a door...
could it be paranoia supports other schizophrenics

i did not say that stalking does not happen
i neither have the time
or the energy
or the motivation to do so

as stated in a post
if you like me, all is well
if you don't, then go to hell

it means, i leave you alone
you leave me the hell alone

does that sound like a stalker?

hell fucking no!!!

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 9:21:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		No, you did not get my message. Coincidence or not, these women are seeing you around, apparently often. There is NO reason to knock on their doors if not invited to do so. Do not do it. Whether twice in 60 days or twice in 160 days.



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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 9:23:31 PM   
godmonger666


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Status: offline 		btw, i was invited...
i never knock unless invited
sometimes i don't go to a room if invited

a friend asked me to come to his room
i said no
in my mind; i was too self absorbed;
now if he was going to give me a pack of smokes
i would have went
there was no point in going

plus another female
who is christian
last night i told her she lied about something
i told her that i did not like being chastised and her going holy roller on me
i told her we will never speak again
she is good looking too

so does it sound like i would stalk or obsess over a woman?

damn... i had to confess to being a narcissistic asshole
which i myself border on paranoia; because of crazy women
making my life hell; i will not allow anyone to complicate my live ever again

sheesh!!!

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 9:24:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Women have every right to be "paranoid," as you put it. There is a long standing history of violent crime towards women, so realistically, a lot of women have to be mindful of the people around them and the attention they receive.

You might've only knocked on her door twice - but obviously YOU made HER feel uncomfortable. I can hardly imagine how she felt once she knew what she looked like, where she lived, where she worked, etc.



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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 9:24:53 PM   
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so you are saying
do not knock on anyone's door

do not knock on anyone's door

be a total shut in
be an anti social

that is exactly what you are saying.

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 9:27:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yep - legally speaking you have no right to visit someone's house without their permission. It's called trespassing.

She rejected you, deal with it - you come across fairly odd in your behaviour here on a forum - are you the same in real life?

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 9:31:14 PM   
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quote:

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so does it sound like i would stalk or obsess over a woman?


you claim to not obsess over a woman/women.. and yet.. here you are, obsessing over women!!!



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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 9:33:31 PM   
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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 9:35:05 PM   
Muttling


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Status: offline 		If she is so paranoid as you describe then why worry about her at all?

Lets be frank, you're going off about some waitress who claimed you were stalking her. Just roll your eyes and forget about it like a normal person instead posting retort after retort about it like a stalker.

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 10:00:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: godmonger666


so you are saying
do not knock on anyone's door

do not knock on anyone's door

be a total shut in
be an anti social

that is exactly what you are saying.


The way you present yourself is anti-social. Its odd. (yea... pot calling the kettle thing). If you want to get out, and we all need human interaction, you might want to try meetup.com Find a group.

Not "BINOCULAR ENTHUSIAST MEET UP GROUP"
or
"Camouflage tips and Tricks meet up"

Just find a group. I understand lonely, for years as a consultant I went from town to town, I really do. Try the meetup thing bro. You are going feral. Stay out of bars, terrible places to be by yourself.

Don't walk that way any more (the street that the girl was on), you scared her. The end result of your freedom is stressing out a fellow human being. VERY uncool. (and come on bro... seriously, you sound like you are preparing an alibi.)

Don't show up at peoples houses, unless they SPECIFICALLY invite you. If all the women in your life are crazy, perhaps the constant is the way you react to them??

From what I have read, there is no way I would want you anywhere near my friends. Im a big tent kinda guy, but you just come off angry, obsessive and hurt. That is not a good mix.


Best,

Michael...,





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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 10:19:45 PM   
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did you look at her like this? 'cause if you did, i can see why she was paranoid. sorry, couldn't resist.

in all seriousness though, one woman who thinks you're stalking her could be an honest misunderstanding, but two? c'mon. i understand that you feel some sort of way about your wife leaving, but all women aren't mean and cold. best of luck to you.

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 10:23:16 PM   
godmonger666


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Status: offline 		to be rejected
one has to ask for something
i never asked
point invalid

rejection means
no to an offer
there was no offer
no rejection to be had

i tried to talk with a friend
there was two other people
i could not get a word in edgewise

one of them said it was a 3 way conversation
the person i was trying to talk to
was supposed to be a friend
a friend takes time for his friends
fuck him
i unfriended him on facebook
i unfriended another person from where i live

i unfriended several people here
the only facebook friend i have here
is a member of staff

since he works here
he has his stuff together
the people who live here
are broken misfits
or they would not be living here
low income housing

yes, don't make friends
tresspassing my ass
i live here
i cannot tresspass where i live

i won't bother trying to make friends here
i have no problem being an isolationist

people are just trolls, and lemming like

i stand pat
if you like me, all is well
if you don't then go to hell

people will conform, do what others want
just to fit in
i refuse to do that
i don't give a shit

i will not ever believe in christian mythology
i am godmonger666
which means
fuck god, fuck every religion that prays to god
goddamn hypocrites

people want to be so politically correct
people are fakes
they pretend so they can be liked
since most people have apathy and don't care
only about those close or family
christmas is a farce
goodwill toward all
bull fucking shit

cliques/clicks (groups of people who think alike; all others are outsiders)
since i don't think like anyone else
i am an outsider
an outsider by choice
like the late George Carlin stated
btw, George Carlin is my hero
he is my guru
he is my motivator
he inspires me with the truth about people
he is funny as all hell

anyways;
i won't bother being around people
since i can't be around people
i will post and respond to groups here and elsewhere.

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 10:27:32 PM   
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Actually,
i left my wife
she was in the mental ward
i went to visit
she told me
i want a divorce, bring me my stuff
i then left los angeles
she lied about me, backstabbed me (talked behind my back),
cheated everytime we broke up
she always had a man to get her off the streets
i had to get myself off the streets
i did not cheat till a year and a half
after i left her in late march 2009
btw, recent news
a new facebook pic she put up
she had set herself on fire again
another skin graft on her arm
with staples holding it in place
i may not have to get a divorce
if she keeps it up
she might succeed in her suicide attempts
make me a widower

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 10:31:14 PM   
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i stand corrected about your wife. either way, i think making some friends can only help, not hurt you.

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 10:34:46 PM   
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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 10:38:35 PM   
godmonger666


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i am scheduled to Start Anger Management on November 6th
duh
i wonder how many times, i have to type that

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 10:48:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		If I had been one of those women and you came knocking on my door like that = after seeing you one too many times- I would of answered the door with a shotgun in your face.

and why dont you shut the fuck up about your wife - Im sure she wouldnt appreciate you spreading her business all over the internet.

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RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? - 10/22/2012 11:00:32 PM   
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quote:

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see a therapist;
i am scheduled to Start Anger Management on November 6th
duh
i wonder how many times, i have to type that


You've never mentioned that on this thread.

Duh.

We don't follow you around, checking on your posts and making notes.

You are seriously creepy. I'm not surprised these women were freaked out by you if you are even one tenth as creepy in real life.

They are not paranoid, you just don't seem to have much in the way of social skills or empathy.

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