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mnottertail -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 7:43:25 AM)

There are places you cant.  Like the quick reply box thats at the bottom doesnt offer it. you have to do it by post reply or with a new thread post.  I think instructions are up in admin announcements, but essentially it is upload and click the embed picture in post box.   Some of these guys can put multiple pictures in there, nad I am not sure how they do that.   I don't have such a portfolio anyhow. 




LaTigresse -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 7:45:31 AM)


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ORIGINAL: kitkat105

You are coming across batshit crazy. There is nothing "casual" about this "banter" from you.



Indeed.




godmonger666 -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 7:49:35 AM)

this is what the thread is about


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godmonger666 -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 7:50:58 AM)

@mnottertail
thanks for the info :-)




LaTigresse -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 7:51:16 AM)

I see.

A skinny little ugly redneck with a mullet.

yay




mnottertail -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 7:55:45 AM)

Cut a mans hair like a fish and you can think about eating all day.




godmonger666 -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 7:58:08 AM)

so you know of the movie; Joe Dirt starring David Spade?
seems some on here has not




wnyThroatLover -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 7:58:31 AM)

I can kinda see where the Op is coming from here...

...I used to live in Saratoga Springs, NY. A bustling little metropolis. Lovely place. Anyway, I walked pretty much the same path to and from work every day and it just so happened that part of the path went through a little alley that ended kiddy corner to my apartment. Thatalley was super helpful, allowing me to cut a diagonal across quite a bit of the back roads on my way to the main drag, so I ended up walking that alley sometimes dozens of times a day. One day I got served an order of protection for a woman who just happened to live in one of the apartments that faced the alley whom I had never met, letalone SEEN before. I wasn't stalking anyone, but this paranoid person ended up adding 15 minutes to my walking route to everywhere. Eventually (after quite a few visits to the judge) it was dropped...




godmonger666 -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 8:01:55 AM)

@wnyThroatLover
thank you very much for sharing your experience. I knew i could not be the only one; sometimes, guys get a bad rap, just for being guys.




Hillwilliam -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 8:03:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: godmonger666

so you know of the movie; Joe Dirt starring David Spade?
seems some on here has not

It was a stupid movie about a stupid person. What's your point?




OsideGirl -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 8:20:04 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

FR to the OP. It's not that all women are paranoid. They're paranoid about you. Maybe you should look inward to see what kind of vibes you give off

It reminds me of that old saying:

If you meet one person and you think they're an asshole.....they're probably an asshole.
If you meet three people and you think they're assholes......they might be assholes.
If you meet ten people and you think they're all assholes......you're the asshole.




Marc2b -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 8:29:02 AM)

I agree. Women are totally paranoid! I keep telling them that I'm just being a friendly neighbor... checking their windows for cracks... but they insist on screaming and calling the police.



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chatterbox24 -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 8:32:28 AM)

lol, you definitely have a very unique posting style. If you do really have asbergers, it would be no stranger to you to not fit in socially, and others misinterpreting you.

Well, some of the stuff you have said, does sound a bit creepy, puts out a weird vibe, making you sound unstable. Maybe socially, you just didn't see how your actions might have scared these women. You have to have the social intelligence, and if it lacks, well it really is not your fault. We all have our weaknesses.

I would say though, as far as intelligence in other ways, you are pretty damn smart to make a guess.




godmonger666 -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 8:39:24 AM)

@chatterbox24
thanks :-)
one time, i was bored. actually i have been bored more than once.
i took an IQ test; did not even focus
the result
my IQ 160




tj444 -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 8:53:14 AM)


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ORIGINAL: godmonger666

@chatterbox24
thanks :-)
one time, i was bored. actually i have been bored more than once.
i took an IQ test; did not even focus
the result
my IQ 160

IQs dont mean much to me.. what difference does it make if your IQ actually is 160 if you dont use it??? I remember watching one of those documentary type programs on the smartest guy in Mensa.. he lived in a small converted garage and worked as a bouncer in a bar.. So what good is a high IQ if the person doesnt use it to help himself or others or improve the world.. its just a wasted resource.. oh well..
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chatterbox24 -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 9:03:05 AM)

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ORIGINAL: tj444


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ORIGINAL: godmonger666

@chatterbox24
thanks :-)
one time, i was bored. actually i have been bored more than once.
i took an IQ test; did not even focus
the result
my IQ 160

IQs dont mean much to me.. what difference does it make if your IQ actually is 160 if you dont use it??? I remember watching one of those documentary type programs on the smartest guy in Mensa.. he lived in a small converted garage and worked as a bouncer in a bar.. So what good is a high IQ if the person doesnt use it to help himself or others or improve the world.. its just a wasted resource.. oh well..
[sm=2cents.gif]


Just because someone is highly intelligent in one degree, does not equip them easily to deal in society if they have other factors or demons that influence their lifes.




tj444 -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 9:07:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

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ORIGINAL: tj444


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ORIGINAL: godmonger666

@chatterbox24
thanks :-)
one time, i was bored. actually i have been bored more than once.
i took an IQ test; did not even focus
the result
my IQ 160

IQs dont mean much to me.. what difference does it make if your IQ actually is 160 if you dont use it??? I remember watching one of those documentary type programs on the smartest guy in Mensa.. he lived in a small converted garage and worked as a bouncer in a bar.. So what good is a high IQ if the person doesnt use it to help himself or others or improve the world.. its just a wasted resource.. oh well..
[sm=2cents.gif]


Just because someone is highly intelligent in one degree, does not equip them easily to deal in society if they have other factors or demons that influence their lifes.

again, what good does a high IQ do? That is why when someone flaunts a high IQ, its sorta funny to me.. cuz unless you use it for something its like having a lambergini sitting in the garage 100% of the time.. [8|]




chatterbox24 -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 9:17:47 AM)

Hmmmmm, well lets use the lambergini, for an example, if its in the garage 100% of the time, for the time being its an investment, gaining worth, who is to say it won't be drove out and used one day?

But it is true, if you dont use the gifts given, its a waste.




OsideGirl -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 9:21:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: tj444


quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

quote:

ORIGINAL: tj444


quote:

ORIGINAL: godmonger666

@chatterbox24
thanks :-)
one time, i was bored. actually i have been bored more than once.
i took an IQ test; did not even focus
the result
my IQ 160

IQs dont mean much to me.. what difference does it make if your IQ actually is 160 if you dont use it??? I remember watching one of those documentary type programs on the smartest guy in Mensa.. he lived in a small converted garage and worked as a bouncer in a bar.. So what good is a high IQ if the person doesnt use it to help himself or others or improve the world.. its just a wasted resource.. oh well..
[sm=2cents.gif]


Just because someone is highly intelligent in one degree, does not equip them easily to deal in society if they have other factors or demons that influence their lifes.

again, what good does a high IQ do? That is why when someone flaunts a high IQ, its sorta funny to me.. cuz unless you use it for something its like having a lambergini sitting in the garage 100% of the time.. [8|]


It's very similar to the "idiot savant" thing. I have met some brilliant people that did some awesome things....but they lacked the ability to function beyond what they were working on.




angelikaJ -> RE: why are a lot of women paranoid? (10/23/2012 9:52:00 AM)

"A woman's worst nightmare? That's pretty easy. Novelist Margaret Atwood writes that when she asked a male friend why men feel threatened by women, he answered, "They are afraid women will laugh at them." When she asked a group of women why they feel threatened by men, they said, "We're afraid of being killed." "

From:
http://www.pbs.org/kued/nosafeplace/articles/nightmare.html

It really doesn't matter that what you did seemed innocent from your point of view or that your intentions were okay from your perspective.

What matters is what your behavior looks like even if it is just circumstantial and you had no ill intentions.

From your behavior you look like a creepy-stalker dude.
Even more so concerning, is that you are being dismissive and are unable to see things from the women's perspectives.


They are not wrong for feeling as they do regardless of your 'benign' intentions.
They know that if you are some creepy-stalker dude and they don't pay attention it could result in their being harmed or worse and you refuse to accept that as being a reasonable part of their reality.... or that you have an issue with seeing and respecting other people's reasonable boundaries and make adjustments to your behavior.

In other words, you are unable to see or hear that their "Nos" are a perfectly valid response... and at that point you have just become something worse than just a creepy-stalker dude.

edit: missing comma




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