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Anal first time - 10/31/2012 2:56:28 AM

VNasty

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yes my butthole is a virgin lol, so i was always was scared to try it before but i want to now anyways i just wanna know if most dominant guys like it more then pussy , and what should i expect when i do get my cherry taken lol

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 4:06:19 AM

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You should expect your experience to vary depending on your choice in men.

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 4:09:10 AM

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1. Up at the top of this screen at the right, it says Collarchat.com - BDSM forum. Below that are ten links, one of which is Search. Click on that, and search on "anal" and you will see lots of stuff written previously.

2. Nobody's done a scientific survey of Doms to see what percent prefer anal to vaginal.

3. In my case, it's not just the act itself. I like the fact that my woman is giving more of herself to me, that I own her breasts, her mouth, her pussy, and her ass.

4. There are also men who like the fact that they will be your first.

5. Make sure that the man knows what he's doing. A lot of men don't know/don't care and are only playing to get their rocks off, and have no concept of safety. Lots of lube, and lots of time.

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 4:19:32 AM

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yeah, some doms like anal, others don't. steven is right...there are a bunch of threads about just about everything you want to know about kink/bdsm and the search box is your friend if you're curious.

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 4:32:11 AM

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For those who are inexperienced, If your Dominant doesn't start you with toys alone, go slowly, and wait until you are ready, He is doing it wrong.

A proper Dominant acts with the safety and care of His charge/possession.

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 5:33:28 AM

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Lets break this down -

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yes my butthole is a virgin lol,

Wow - you must be easily amused to think that is funny -

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and what should i expect when i do get my cherry taken lol

LOLOLOLOL!!! Yes, that was a real knee slapper!!

but seriously -
Expect a marching band to come in the room and play "Hail to the Chief"

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 6:19:25 AM

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Sounds like you want to try..so why wait?.......be proactive and start by yourself.....you stuck your fingers in your pussy before it ever seen a cock, this is no different...work your way up to a toy.....and of course, use plenty of lube, and then add some more!

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 6:24:32 AM

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Sorry i didnt make u laugh, im not a comedian and wasnt trying too

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 6:33:55 AM

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If you weren't trying to be funny, why all the LOLs?

I think that was Janah's point.

In any case, once you learn how to use CM's clunky search feature, you will find numerous threads on this topic.

Here's a recent one:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3633991/mpage_1/tm.htm

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 6:43:05 AM

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Now...as I originally stated above... The second " lol", you posted, was hysterical. I was laughing so hard - that I choked on my cereal, tipped over in my chair and quit breathing. My dom had to give me mouth to mouth and call an ambulance. I currently am in the emergency room ...and they want to drill into my brain to make sure that I will be okay. Please.... Don't try to tell me your "lol" wasn't funny... Cause that really was out of this world.

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Sorry i didnt make u laugh, im not a comedian and wasnt trying too

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 6:58:10 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

Lets break this down -

quote:

yes my butthole is a virgin lol,

Wow - you must be easily amused to think that is funny -

quote:

and what should i expect when i do get my cherry taken lol

LOLOLOLOL!!! Yes, that was a real knee slapper!!

but seriously -
Expect a marching band to come in the room and play "Hail to the Chief"

Really? When I had my first anal experience the band played "You Give Love a Bad Name".

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 7:06:08 AM

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Red... I will have to get back to you on that later. I have a drill in my head... But the ER docs here say that everything looks fine.

The OP.... trying to tell me....that their second "lol" wasn't funny..... god... Im gonna lose it again just thinking about it. SOMEONE GET THE DEFIBRILLATOR!!!!

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 8:06:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JanahX

Red... I will have to get back to you on that later. I have a drill in my head... But the ER docs here say that everything looks fine.

The OP.... trying to tell me....that their second "lol" wasn't funny..... god... Im gonna lose it again just thinking about it. SOMEONE GET THE DEFIBRILLATOR!!!!

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 9:16:38 AM

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Anal is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are gonna get until you try it

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 10:37:02 AM

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OP: it's a natural reaction to want to laugh when you're nervous. It defrays the tension. You don't need it in text form, though.

That said, DarkSteven gave very good advice. Be selective with whom you lose your anal virginity. Take your time with it. I hope it goes well for you.

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RE: Anal first time - 10/31/2012 11:28:29 AM

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Red... I will have to get back to you on that later. I have a drill in my head... But the ER docs here say that everything looks fine.

The OP.... trying to tell me....that their second "lol" wasn't funny..... god... Im gonna lose it again just thinking about it. SOMEONE GET THE DEFIBRILLATOR!!!!

I like getting drilled, but not in the head!! Those LOL's are dangerous, man....:)

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RE: Anal first time - 11/2/2012 2:51:31 PM

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Just thought we'd mention...as far as if most (dominant) guys like it more than pussy, some guys like feet more than pussy...there's no accounting for taste. Not knocking anyone's cup of tea here, but the point is some guys prefer lots of things over others. In general, take 1,000 guys and most are going to like anal (in our opinion)...just like they like blowjobs....it's not 'more than pussy' but it's great fun that is totally different than the other options. It's just one more thing to enjoy.

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Another anal thread..... - 11/2/2012 4:14:10 PM

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RE: Anal first time - 11/3/2012 8:07:19 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VNasty

yes my butthole is a virgin lol, so i was always was scared to try it before but i want to now anyways i just wanna know if most dominant guys like it more then pussy , and what should i expect when i do get my cherry taken lol

This isn't a d/s thing or even a kink thing imo. Some men like anal (and some women too) so when you are communicating with a fella just bring it up and if they say ewwwww then you know its not what you are looking for. Myself, i won't date men who aren't into fucking my ass. It is something that i have enjoyed sexually far too long to give up.

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RE: Anal first time - 11/3/2012 9:00:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: autumnember

quote:

ORIGINAL: VNasty

yes my butthole is a virgin lol, so i was always was scared to try it before but i want to now anyways i just wanna know if most dominant guys like it more then pussy , and what should i expect when i do get my cherry taken lol

This isn't a d/s thing or even a kink thing imo. Some men like anal (and some women too) so when you are communicating with a fella just bring it up and if they say ewwwww then you know its not what you are looking for. Myself, i won't date men who aren't into fucking my ass. It is something that i have enjoyed sexually far too long to give up.