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VNasty -> too kinky (10/31/2012 4:09:18 AM)

so i was with some dom i met and they liked having me suck on theyre tongue , he also liked spitting into my mouth , im pretty freaky n nasty and like doing trying new sexually but i was kinda grossed out at first, is some of this stuff too kinky u think



SimplyMichael -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 4:13:20 AM)

Honey, that's just foreplay...



absolutchocolat -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 4:16:00 AM)

welcome to the forums! and by the standards of of many, that's like holding hands here.



Mezrem -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 5:24:38 AM)

Welcome... and if you (OP) think that is kink then boy oh boy are you in for one strange ride...



Toysinbabeland -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 5:37:42 AM)

Hands you a butt plug....



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 5:39:17 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: VNasty

so i was with some dom i met and they liked having me suck on theyre tongue , he also liked spitting into my mouth , im pretty freaky n nasty and like doing trying new sexually but i was kinda grossed out at first, is some of this stuff too kinky u think


All that matters is whether it was too kinky for you personally.

I don't think it's especially kinky but I have to admit I find spitting gross too.



crazyml -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 5:41:01 AM)

Hey there,

Oh hell... loads of the stuff I see here is too kinky.... for me.

But then I'd only score about 4 on the Kana scale.

The key is the "... for me" bit though, or in your case the ".... for you" (unless you're saying it, in which case you'd say "....for me".

There are lots and lots of kinks, fetishes out there that make me shudder, but I try not to impose my definition of what is "too much" on others. A while ago I said the following:

"You don't have to understand everyone's kinks, you don't have to like them, you don't have to not feel "squicky", but it is beholden on you to try not to judge others."

I'm not suggesting for a second that you're doing any judging btw, just sharing my p.o.v.



ivone1 -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 6:05:53 AM)

that to me doesnt sound kinky at all... sounds gross and i hope he is disease free... yuck.... but there is alot of kinky stuff i find not to my like...



CRYPTICLXVI -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 7:11:35 AM)

I thought someone said kinky...



kalikshama -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 7:39:21 AM)

quote:

he also liked spitting into my mouth


For a short time, I tolerated this for someone who enjoyed it. I didn't consider it kinky but [:'(]



Spiritedsub2 -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 7:50:04 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

Oh hell... loads of the stuff I see here is too kinky.... for me.

But then I'd only score about 4 on the Kana scale.



I think a whole thread devoted to self-ranking our kink on the Kana Scale would be great fun. But we would need a benchmark. What is Kana on the Kana Scale? A 10? So a 1 to 10 scale?



Rochsub2009 -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 8:36:54 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: VNasty

im pretty freaky n nasty



Relative to most of the people here, you sound like a Girl Scout. You haven't really mentioned anything freaky.

Now if you had said that they tied you up and put you in a cage, then pissed all over your face, then force-fed you fresh shit, then suspended you by your tits and carved pictures in your breast with a sharp instrument, branded their names on your ass, stuck pins into your pussy lips, then connected you to a mechanical fucking machine with a 20 inch dildo attachment and let it fuck you for an hour as a warm-up before dressing you up as a Catholic school girl and taking you to a biker bar to let 20 bikers run a train on you, all while being filmed and streamed live on the internet, THEN I might say that you were a little kinky. But what you described is like light petting. [:D]

BTW, welcome to the boards. [;)]



ChatteParfaitt -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 8:37:36 AM)

Using FR:

People do seem to have a wide variety of responses when it comes to sharing various body fluids. For instance, some don't have a problem swallowing their partner's come, and yet his urine is a big no no.

Likewise, some swallow semen, but wouldn't taste their own juices if you paid them good money.

And don't let me get started on two (non-gay) males together, not only do you have to make sure dicks don't touch, but another man's spunk may as well be radioactive or something.

All this has to do with personal taste, and I don't even view it from a kink POV.

As far as someone spitting into my mouth, if you french kiss the way Himself and I do, trust me, you have his kooties. So I don't see the health hazard there (maybe there is something I am missing?)

The act of spitting, however, may seem debasing or demeaning to some, and so the turn off may be emotional, not physical. Turn-offs often are.






AthenaSurrenders -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 8:46:35 AM)

I love snogging and I know you share a lot of saliva that way. But some how the deliberate transfer of saliva squicks me out. Also spit once outside the body becomes disgusting. I can't say why.



Spiritedsub2 -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 8:55:05 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Using FR:

People do seem to have a wide variety of responses when it comes to sharing various body fluids. For instance, some don't have a problem swallowing their partner's come, and yet his urine is a big no no.

Likewise, some swallow semen, but wouldn't taste their own juices if you paid them good money.

And don't let me get started on two (non-gay) males together, not only do you have to make sure dicks don't touch, but another man's spunk may as well be radioactive or something.

All this has to do with personal taste, and I don't even view it from a kink POV.

As far as someone spitting into my mouth, if you french kiss the way Himself and I do, trust me, you have his kooties. So I don't see the health hazard there (maybe there is something I am missing?)

The act of spitting, however, may seem debasing or demeaning to some, and so the turn off may be emotional, not physical. Turn-offs often are.


That was interesting to read. I had always thought the idea of swallowing a man's urine squicky, but after reading your post I'm now wondering why that would be any different than swallowing his come. And spitting in the mouth is no greater saliva transfer than deep kissing, and it has (or could have) a dominant feel to the act. I appreciate posts like this that crack open my mind a bit!



SimplyMichael -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 8:57:29 AM)

Getting people honest about their edgiest kinks isnt likely. Plus, for many of us, that edge moves and shifts depending on our chemistry with a person. Take two women, one a 3 and another a 7 on some imaginary kink scale. Its as hot for me to push a 3 to a 4 as it is to push from a 6 to a 7.

Also, the whole meaning of a kink act changes based on chemistry. It can go from deep personal intimacy for one couple to deep degredation for another, and every shade between.

People dont tend to talk about edgy stuff for fear of driving off potential partners, changing how people percieve them.



sexyred1 -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:09:24 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009


quote:

ORIGINAL: VNasty

im pretty freaky n nasty



Relative to most of the people here, you sound like a Girl Scout. You haven't really mentioned anything freaky.

Now if you had said that they tied you up and put you in a cage, then pissed all over your face, then force-fed you fresh shit, then suspended you by your tits and carved pictures in your breast with a sharp instrument, branded their names on your ass, stuck pins into your pussy lips, then connected you to a mechanical fucking machine with a 20 inch dildo attachment and let it fuck you for an hour as a warm-up before dressing you up as a Catholic school girl and taking you to a biker bar to let 20 bikers run a train on you, all while being filmed and streamed live on the internet, THEN I might say that you were a little kinky. But what you described is like light petting. [:D]

BTW, welcome to the boards. [;)]


To answer the poster above you, THAT might register high on the Kana scale!



crazyml -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:11:28 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2


quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

Oh hell... loads of the stuff I see here is too kinky.... for me.

But then I'd only score about 4 on the Kana scale.



I think a whole thread devoted to self-ranking our kink on the Kana Scale would be great fun. But we would need a benchmark. What is Kana on the Kana Scale? A 10? So a 1 to 10 scale?


Well, I'd say Kana is 100% Kana... so let's make him 10.

Could be, dare I say it, badder than Kana, in which case your KQ (Kana Quotient) might be 15!



NuevaVida -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:14:42 AM)

What we (generic we) consider edgy can change over time. Things I used to find shocking I'm now not even phased by. Then again, things I haven't minded so much in the past would be bothersome for me now.

It really depends on where we are in life, who we're with, and a bunch of other circumstances. What matters is how *you* are affected by things and where *you're* willing to go.



SimplyMichael -> RE: too kinky (10/31/2012 9:16:29 AM)

For ME, golden showers/piss play is very hot. And despite my love of humiliation and degredation, for ME, golden showers has nothing to do with either of those. Instead it is a most intimate act, only shared with someone I have the deepest attachment to. It is a part of me rejected by all but having it accepted, even welcomed is a deeply bonding moment.




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