Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Introductions] >> Introduce yourself



Message

SirElegance7 -> Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 5:45:22 PM)

Hello submissive women,

Im a down to earth genteel man on collarme looking for a female sweet heart who craves to serve, please and obey. Im also open for female submissive's who would like a Dom as friend, mentor or protector. I think I give good emotional support and directions regarding this lifestyle. I believe submissive women come first over vanilla women and should be at least protected in this cruel world.

*If this does not apply to you, then dont reply!




OsideGirl -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 5:48:56 PM)

Welcome to the forums.



JanahX -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 5:49:12 PM)

WRONG

Im submissive and I sure as hell dont need protection from you or anyone else. Thats pretty funny that you portray submissive women as some helpless, little beings that need to hide under your wing from the big bad world.




BurntKitty -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 5:49:48 PM)

Welcome to CM, 7!



SirElegance7 -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 5:59:36 PM)

Thank you
quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Welcome to the forums.




SirElegance7 -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 6:45:14 PM)

If im not talking about you then dont share your opinion.



searching4mysir -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 6:52:40 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: SirElegance7

If im not talking about you then dont share your opinion.



Welcome to the discussion boards. Here we are all equals and chat about stuff kinky and non. Good luck in your search.

The funny thing about discussion boards is that you don't get to decide who gets to respond where. As long as you stay within the TOS, it pretty much is a free-for-all. If your skin is too thin to deal with opposing opinions, prepare to be disappointed in this side.



OsideGirl -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 6:53:19 PM)

It's an open forum. Anyone is allowed to post.



JanahX -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 6:55:49 PM)

S/so S/sorry S/sir -/- I/i D/didnt M/mean T/to O/offend Y/you./.



stef -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 6:57:39 PM)

Thank god, someone is finally here to protect the poor submissive women from this cruel world!



OsideGirl -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 7:01:45 PM)

I found that offensive as well. I'm not some helpless, broken, brain dead woman that can't function unless a man protects her.



poise -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 7:15:24 PM)

[sm=welcome.gif]



SirElegance7 -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 7:25:02 PM)

Wow, didnt realize my post offended people or would even bring out negative responses. I was offering other services as well, "friend and mentor;" not just protection. From my experience in this lifestyle, some submissive's would like and appreciate some form of chivalry. My intention was not to cast a stereotype and imply "ALL" submissive's are what your interpreting my words as. My intention is to offer support for the submissive's from a male Dom's point of view.



stef -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 7:31:58 PM)

When complete strangers offer their "services" as a mentor or protector, it sends up red flags. From your experience in this lifestyle, you should be aware of this.



OsideGirl -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 7:34:17 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

When complete strangers offer their "services" as a mentor or protector, it sends up red flags. From your experience in this lifestyle, you should be aware of this.


Agreed. And IMO, Mentors should be real life, and also the same gender and orientation as the mentoree.





SirElegance7 -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 7:34:20 PM)

Yes sure we all have the same rights. And I was offended by your point of view of my introduction. Life goes on i'll forget about this in a few minutes but your perception of what my intentions are distorted. I know it still may still change any ones mind but its important to me that its on record that im not implying in any way that "ALL" submissive are weak, helpless and what other negative adjective.



stef -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 7:39:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirElegance7

Yes sure we all have the same rights.

"Rights" have nothing to do with this.

quote:

And I was offended by your point of view of my introduction.

I vow to endeavor to persevere nonetheless.

quote:

Life goes on i'll forget about this in a few minutes but your perception of what my intentions are distorted.

Time will tell.

quote:

I know it still may still change any ones mind but its important to me that its on record that im not implying in any way that "ALL" submissive are weak, helpless and what other negative adjective.

All righty then.



Alecta -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 7:46:11 PM)

Friendly warning, the "Dom mentoring a sub" demograph is populated largely by men who abuse it to take advantage of women without putting back the same responsibility due to an Owned sub. Maybe you're not that, no-one can know just from you offering to mentor complete strangers. Try finding better words to elaborate on what you want to do.



SirElegance7 -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 7:46:25 PM)

If Offering my services bring up a red flag then thats fine. We both no its not gonna work. But at least I tried. Life goes on. Some submissive's would like a man's point of view, friendship, mentorship. I also know of Dom's who would like opinions, suggestion or just friendship from other sub's. Sometimes what works for you may not work for someone else. Some people are still finding there way through bdsm.



JanahX -> RE: Earthly-Dom. Blk/M 30yr old In D.C area. (11/3/2012 7:48:22 PM)

What do you mean by "mentor" anyways? I dont understand.



Page: [1] 2   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.0625