RemoteUser -> RE: Baby monkeys develop autism symptoms after obtaining doses of popular vaccines (11/27/2012 9:47:59 AM)
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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins no i don't mean genetic. i did say most as i am well awear that some chilren/adults have problems. i do mean that kids are developing into disruptive little shits because some parents allow them to be. i have worked with lots of children with learning disabilties, and adults. far too many children just need to be taught to respect their elders, and have some manners. they are lumped in to having attention disorders because it's easy and makes money. also a dr doesn't have to tell a parent that they are the one creating the monster because they are neglecting their duty to their child. as for arm chair guessing, not a chance. it's something i've worked with on and off for 23yrs. and just so you know; alot of what you have explained about your son is exactly what my son was like when younger. however, he was brought up with manners, taught to respect his elders, taught it's wrong to be disruptive just because you are having a hard time. he did not have drugs, he did have alot of support through our dr, his school (which i had to fight like a bitch to get), and a child psyc. he could quite easily have been diagnosed with adhd, but he doesn't have that. in fact no-one was quite sure what he has. asperger's was suggested, as was mild autism, but he doesn't show enough signs to be truely classified in those two groups. he was starved of oxygen when born as he was born with the cord around his neck, and he got rather stessed during a long hard labour. he still has problems now, but he has learnt how to deal with them. so, like i said, i'm not saying that it never occures, i'm saying that alot of the time it's bullshit and down to bad parenting....as well as being let down by the system because it's easier. needles My son does have Asperger's as well as the ADHD. I'm glad your son was able to cope with a combination of counselling and social reinforcement. I would very much like to be able to do the same with my own son. He has been taken off the vyvance and carbamazepine before, both had disastrous results. I'll retract the armchair guessing and replace it with, generalisms make unfair/inaccurate labels. If CC has proven one thing time and again, slapping a label on a group is detrimental to the individuals, and not wholly representative. I'll agree that the system generally fails in almost every aspect where ADHD and autism is concerned (at least it does in Canada). That puts more on parents, not less; and then scapegoating the parents who don't have that support is unfair. There will always be idiots who just shouldn't have kids, let alone handle ones with mental issues. That doesn't strike me as the majority, however, and is certainly not indicative of the people I know in the Niagara Region where I live.
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