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Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/8/2012 5:56:04 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		http://www.kval.com/news/national/Police-Man-binds-burns-bites-and-beats-woman-177000271.html

Nothing like a little non-consentual attempted murder to start your day! This is why us "old farts" tell you young uns to run.

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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/8/2012 7:11:54 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		That is a very sad story but.......it really has nothing at all to do with BDSM or power exchange relationships.


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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/8/2012 7:21:30 AM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		How many girls have come on here with "he did things on my hard limits list & hurt me,...but he leeeerves me!!" Guy doesn't have that kind of gear laying around without some kind of kinky root

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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/8/2012 4:13:05 PM   
absolutchocolat


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Status: offline 		there's no indication that they were seeing each other, nor any that suggests they just met. he could have just been a random lunatic. or her boyfriend. article doesn't say.

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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/8/2012 5:16:19 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		What gear? Guy sounds like a typical thug beating up an addict.

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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/8/2012 5:22:17 PM   
JstAnotherSub


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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

http://www.kval.com/news/national/Police-Man-binds-burns-bites-and-beats-woman-177000271.html

Nothing like a little non-consentual attempted murder to start your day! This is why us "old farts" tell you young uns to run.

He seems to be just another fucking wacko to me. I would guess that since they had an "on again off again" type relationship, things weren't exactly a bed of roses.

I don't see how this relates to newbies on here though. But, I aint the brightest tool in the shed. Or somethin like that.

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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/8/2012 7:08:44 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Ok....but what does this have to do with bdsm? It's not like someone she just met. It seems as though they have been in a relationship for a little while. He's just a typical abuser. This happens everyday in the world.


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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/9/2012 6:20:19 AM   
artemiss


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Status: offline 		It said spousal abuse, so kinda sounds like they may even have been married.


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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/18/2012 5:34:33 PM   
fucktoyprincess


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Status: offline 		I am generally one of those who issues a lot of cautionary warnings to people about meeting people over the Internet, about screening BDSM partners very carefully, about not rushing into full-blown scenes too quickly, etc. However, I am in agreement with many who have posted that I am also failing to see the explicit BDSM link. It also seems like they have a prior connection/relationship, and the abuse was over a specific argument that they had (i.e., this was not random, it was not a stranger, it was not negotiated BDSM play that went awry).

Women often end up on the receiving end of non-consensual violence at the hands of men. It is called abuse, and can lead to murder. But this type of thing exists in the vanilla world. This is a general concern that all women have, whether in a vanilla or BDSM lifestyle. All women, as a very general rule, need to be careful. I'm not sure this particular article demonstrates how one needs to be careful in the BDSM lifestyle in particular. Again, perhaps something was left unsaid in the article (?)

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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/19/2012 10:32:59 AM   
littleone14


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Status: offline 		I've read other articles about this. It wasn't a random encounter with some guy she'd just met. The two of them had been dating.......

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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/21/2012 1:37:22 PM   
ServiceBoy89


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Status: offline 		Women...you cant understend them to the end of your life...

Everyday people are dying all around world.

Now this is sick
Hallucinating Thai mother kills, cooks and eats her young sons because she thought they were pigs

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2192034/Thai-mother-kills-cooks-eats-young-sons-thought-pigs-police-say-hallucinations-involved.html#ixzz2Ctcba7Qy


< Message edited by ServiceBoy89 -- 11/21/2012 1:48:03 PM >

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RE: Newbies:this is why we warn you! - 11/21/2012 1:51:44 PM   
kalikshama


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Guy doesn't have that kind of gear laying around without some kind of kinky root


I didn't see any mention of "gear" in the three articles I read. However, one does not need to show one's RACK card in order to buy gear.

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