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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 10:45:02 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: giving

It seems like offended some people.. apologies to you. Here is my story... I am married for 13 years. Early October a friend of mine found out about this lifestyle. She introduced it to me. She didn't really think to much of it. i on the other hand am completely attracted to it. I found all kinds of web sites and had to actually google things. The person I had my first meeting with we started by computer then phone. Once I felt comfortable we meet. I tried to talk to my hubby about what I wanted to try. I even went to my very first sex store. All I bought was flavored oil and liquid chocolate paint. My hubby told me to pick up my bible. I felt dirty. That was in October. No sex since then.


You didn't offend us. We just think you're amazingly foolish for doing what you did with a complete stranger. And yes, he was a complete stranger. People lie over the phone and internet. You have no idea who this man is and you're thinking with your genitals.


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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 10:47:15 AM   
giving


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Status: offline 		Oh my goodness yes, I have tried and tried to talk to him. But there is something calling me on this Dom/ Sub. I have never felt like this before.

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 10:50:47 AM   
giving


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Status: offline 		You are right. I am completely honost with the people I am talking to ,he knows my situation and understands.

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 10:51:53 AM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: giving

Oh my goodness yes, I have tried and tried to talk to him. But there is something calling me on this Dom/ Sub. I have never felt like this before.



What are you saying yes to? The fact that you are cheating? The fact that you told your husband that you are going outside the marriage for your sex life? The fact that you have a vibrator?

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 10:57:13 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: giving

You are right. I am completely honost with the people I am talking to ,he knows my situation and understands.


Yeah, but you don't know if he's been completely honest with you.


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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 11:02:58 AM   
giving


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Status: offline 		No vibrators, yes I have like I said tried talking to my husband. He does not want to hear it. He thinks it what I want is dirty. I am wanting to experience so much..

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 12:06:47 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		No condom huh sounds like you are asking for an STD.  When Master and i first starting playing (NOT n tg=he first meeting) i insisted on one, maybe it is not sub like but i was not going to risk it.  Oncw we both got tested and came out ok  then we did not need it anymore.  Ask this guy to get tested and to show you the resluts, if he refuses you should dump him. 

It does like you are in sub frenzy

Matt's littleone

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 12:25:48 PM   
absolutchocolat


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Status: offline 		i'm with osidegirl, stop thinking with your ladyparts. you've been deprived for so long, so now you're hot in the ass (as my grandmother would say) and you're not thinking clearly. this has sub-frenzy written all over it.

so, this person made you feel so good that you're willing to risk getting an STD and passing it along to your husband? minus the five orgasms you had in the front seat of your car, do you like his personality? is he a good person?

my advice to you is to deal with the situation with your husband first. are you going to stay married to him and fool around on the side? i'm guessing he won't share your joy if or when he finds out.

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 12:45:46 PM   
chatterbox24


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ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

i'm with osidegirl, stop thinking with your ladyparts. you've been deprived for so long, so now you're hot in the ass (as my grandmother would say) and you're not thinking clearly. this has sub-frenzy written all over it.

so, this person made you feel so good that you're willing to risk getting an STD and passing it along to your husband? minus the five orgasms you had in the front seat of your car, do you like his personality? is he a good person?

my advice to you is to deal with the situation with your husband first. are you going to stay married to him and fool around on the side? i'm guessing he won't share your joy if or when he finds out.


Hot in the ass? LMAO. Somebody bring some water, IM hot in the ass I tell ya.

Is anyone going to tell me how to double quote or not? or direct me to the nearest instructional video?

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 6:26:47 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: giving

I was talking earlier about feeling cheap and used but there is so much more. i want this more than anything!!!! He gave me 5 orgazims in the
front seat of my car!!!! He got his to. But know I am confused about being "owned or not" I emailed he what he wanted.
He told me yesterday what to do in my email. I did that. Today I had some messages from other Dom's and he said I could reply.
What does that mean?

It means he has no concerns about you talking with other men. It could be because he already got what
he wanted from you, which was an easy no strings attached bit of fun in the front seat of a car.
Allowing randominternetman to have his way with you does not mean he wants to own you.
Besides, you are already owned, for better or for worse, till death do you part, and as long as you both shall live.

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 7:22:57 PM   
sexyred1


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You are married and your husband is being judgemental of something that interests you.

Ok, keep talking to him. If he persists in telling you to pick up your bible, tell him that will be a problem for you and if you feel your newly awakened submissive feelings are worth throwing your marriage away, then do whatever you need to do.

You are delving into something very quickly that some of us have been into for years. So you have sub frenzy; calm the hell down.


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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 8:47:00 PM   
theRose4U


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quote:

ORIGINAL: giving

I am extremely new to this life style, so new infact I meet my very first Dom yesterday. We meet in a publc place. Wedid not have sex, but we did somethings. I want I am so excited about this lifestyle but I have a few concerns. One,he does not want to use condoms. Is this the way most Dom are? Also,after I got home and was in bedI started to feel cheap and used. Is this normal?. Could someone give me some advice about this lifestyle. Thank you.

Sadly guy feeling you up on first date & not using condoms...wanker not a dom, keep moving. Many doms worth having actually care about your mind, your belief system, your health when they are screwing others,your limits...did he even bother to bring these up?

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 8:47:53 PM   
FrostedFlake


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*PrincessRoze*

You didn't ask, but you may if you like change the photo next to your posts.

Like so :
1/ Scroll up.
2/ Press "My Profile" in upper right
3/ Scroll down to "My Avatar".
4/ Click "Upload my picture (will replace the existing one)"
Go through the motions to select a photo, max dimension 145 pixels.
6/ Scroll down.
7/ Press "APPLY"

And, Hi!

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 8:52:32 PM   
theRose4U


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quote:

ORIGINAL: giving

I was talking earlier about feeling cheap and used but there is so much more. i want this more than anything!!!! He gave me 5 orgazims in the front seat of my car!!!! He got his to. But know I am confused about being "owned or not" I emailed he what he wanted. He told me yesterday what to do in my email. I did that. Today I had some messages from other Dom's and he said I could reply. What does that mean?

This means thanks for the blow job but because you didn't fuck me without a condom like a prostitute, I won't be seeing you again

Oh & just for the group: this is starting to sound EXACTLY like a repeat of the my fiancee is muslim/athiest & won't spank me thread...thaty turned out to be a writer pushing people to her blog

< Message edited by theRose4U -- 11/9/2012 9:01:14 PM >

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/9/2012 9:18:17 PM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Killerangel


quote:

ORIGINAL: giving

Oh my goodness yes, I have tried and tried to talk to him. But there is something calling me on this Dom/ Sub. I have never felt like this before.



What are you saying yes to? The fact that you are cheating? The fact that you told your husband that you are going outside the marriage for your sex life? The fact that you have a vibrator?

There are people out there who get their kicks from luring married people from their relationships. It's a sport, and I've watched folks go through this before. If you weren't married he probably wouldn't be as interested in you.

And YOU need to recognize that what you are feeling is the same as ANY married person who has been tempted by an outside affair. This person is NEW...he is INTERESTED IN YOU...all this is EXCITING...a new adventure. Meanwhile, your marriage is established and probably has become ROUTINE, which compared to this new fellow makes it seem MUNDANE, STAGNANT, and BORING.

RESIST THE URGE TO CHEAT. You obviously love your husband, otherwise you would not have married him. You aren't thinking clearly right now due to the surge of hormones resulting from this new experience. Don't let this outsider destroy what you have built together. Excitement fades, and in the end you will realize you've lost what really matters: love and stability.

Not the best article to explain it, but it's late and it's all I feel like looking for. http://www.reuniting.info/science/sex_and_addiction

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/10/2012 6:50:00 AM   
LonDom61


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quote:

ORIGINAL: chatterbox24


quote:

ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

i'm with osidegirl, stop thinking with your ladyparts. you've been deprived for

.

Is anyone going to tell me how to double quote or not? or direct me to the nearest instructional video?


Hi chatterbox.

I scrolled down & it looks like no one else has, so I will take a shot at it.

(This is a manual method. And it is theoretical. Should work. There may be a quickie button way, but I dunno about that)

1. Obviously you know how to single quote. Do that for the first post you want to quote. I will call it Post A.

2. See the words quote and slash quote with square brackets? They surround the text that will show in a box. Like HTML code. I will show them here with round brackets...cuz if I used square ones they would make a box.

3. Manually copy the part of Post B you want in the second box. Paste it where you want it in your reply.

4. You will want the (quote) Original: nick of Post B writer to go above the Post B pasted chunk. And (slash quote) to go after it. Please note: my keyboard is currently stuck on extended ascii; I typed slash; you should use the symbol.

5. That should do it. If you do this a fair bit, you could have the following pre-typed in a wp doc on your task bar:

(quote) ORIGINAL:



(slash quote)

Just copy & paste that in, then add the Post B chunk in between.



6. If you want to do, like...5 chunks in one post, interspersing your own comments, do the first one with the quote button. Then copy the text from your pre-typed doc (or retype it). Then paste, hit CR a few times, paste, hit CR a few times, paste...etc. And go back to the chunks you want to quote and drop them, in order, in between the (quote) and (slash quote).

7. Type your comments in between the (slash quote) from the one above and the (quote) from the one below.

Simple, no?


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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/10/2012 7:01:45 AM   
LonDom61


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Status: offline 		Just thought of a (slightly) more elegant way. And yes, I am aware of the irony that in my previous tutorial about quote boxes...that I goofed and ended up putting the whole thing inSIDE a quote box by mistake.

To quote from, say, 3 different posts:

1. Click the quote button on Post A & select the text you want. Use this reply window for your reply.

2. Click the quote button on Post B. Copy the text you want, including the (quote) ORIGINAL: BPosterNick
text chunk
(slash quote)

3. Paste that whole thing into your first reply window. Close the second reply window.

4. Repeat as needed for Post C, etc.

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/10/2012 8:55:38 AM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		LOndom61,

Clear as mud! lol I am kidding, thank you very much for the help and taking the time to explain it. I do think I understand it. BIG HUGS.

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/10/2012 9:06:33 AM   
chatterbox24


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quote:

ORIGINAL: absolutchocolat

i'm with osidegirl, stop thinking with your ladyparts. you've been deprived for so long, so now you're hot in the ass (as my grandmother would say) and you're not thinking clearly. this has sub-frenzy written all over it.

so, this person made you feel so good that you're willing to risk getting an STD and passing it along to your husband? minus the five orgasms you had in the front seat of your car, do you like his personality? is he a good person?

my advice to you is to deal with the situation with your husband first. are you going to stay married to him and fool around on the side? i'm guessing he won't share your joy if or when he finds out.



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I am like a box of chocolates, you never know what variety you are going to get on any given day.

My crazy smells like jasmine, cloves and cat nip.

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RE: Pretty new need some help! - 11/10/2012 9:16:08 AM   
thishereboi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: giving

I was talking earlier about feeling cheap and used but there is so much more. i want this more than anything!!!! He gave me 5 orgazims in the front seat of my car!!!! He got his to. But know I am confused about being "owned or not" I emailed he what he wanted. He told me yesterday what to do in my email. I did that. Today I had some messages from other Dom's and he said I could reply. What does that mean?



It means he thinks he has found an easy lay and he will hang on as long as he is getting his rocks off. Good luck with that.

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