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theRose4U -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/18/2012 7:32:30 AM)

Its ok sebastian I'll found your harem of queer queens so FIP can get past it. Maybe while she's so busy reading & re-reading your profile she'll eventually catch on that you're not straight!!

ETA: sorry hag harem was already taken [8D]




MstSebastian -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/18/2012 12:44:12 PM)


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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

Its ok sebastian I'll found your harem of queer queens so FIP can get past it. Maybe while she's so busy reading & re-reading your profile she'll eventually catch on that you're not straight!!

ETA: sorry hag harem was already taken [8D]

Oh, nice! I've always wanted a harem! Granted, I always wanted my harem to be male...but, hey, who am I to judge? [;)]




kalikshama -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/20/2012 12:05:35 PM)

Are you familiar with poster Lance Hughes's fag hags?




MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/20/2012 12:16:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: JeffBC

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ORIGINAL: whantsonlyu
To me if a person ignores a q I ask, it's the same as they are ignoring me.

Yeah... that's pretty obvious. I also heartily concur with the "follow your instinct" line of reasoning many have stated here.

But I am sort of curious about this "ignoring your question" thing. Seriously? You asked the questions you've indicated in some medium and with some degree of vigorousness to ensure they didn't just get lost in the flurry of chat text and he simply blew them off??? multiple times??? without any sort of comment or explanation??? What? Was it simply dead air space? I'm a bit lost as to whether the questions were ignored or not answered to your satisfaction.




Yes, I know from experience it's easy to not SEE a question when chat is flying by, or when writing a lengthy answer to a prior question. Still, if you ask them, DID YOU SEE MY QUESTION?, and they still ignore you without saying something like, "I'm not ready to answer that quite yet," that's a huge red flag.

Some questions have private answers (such as personal info when you haven't established the appropriate level of trust yet), but if it's something like, "Are you married?" or some such, the answer should be told right up front.




MstSebastian -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/20/2012 12:30:58 PM)


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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Are you familiar with poster Lance Hughes's fag hags?

No, can't say that I am.




Hillwilliam -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/20/2012 12:37:08 PM)

I havent seen Lance posting in a while.
Good dude. Old school Leatherman.




osf -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/21/2012 2:12:08 PM)

The best thing is to listen for consistency, does what he say agree with things he's said before.




Kana -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/21/2012 2:24:54 PM)

Holy shit-that's an OSF sighting. Happy Turkey Day-cooking a goose manana?




osf -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/21/2012 2:31:57 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Kana

Holy shit-that's an OSF sighting. Happy Turkey Day-cooking a goose manana?


same to you.




Regweld -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/26/2012 5:19:43 PM)

I took the coffee route...in less time then it took to let the coffee cool, I knew I had found the right one...that was about 5 years ago...

Ups and downs in those years but definitely worth driving 2 hours for that first cup of coffee!




theRose4U -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/26/2012 6:55:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MstSebastian


quote:

ORIGINAL: theRose4U

Its ok sebastian I'll found your harem of queer queens so FIP can get past it. Maybe while she's so busy reading & re-reading your profile she'll eventually catch on that you're not straight!!

ETA: sorry hag harem was already taken [8D]

Oh, nice! I've always wanted a harem! Granted, I always wanted my harem to be male...but, hey, who am I to judge? [;)]

I'm a domme, can rope, ride, spit, shoot, make sailors blush & teamsters cry, my honorary balls come in a dump truck & draw back in your world is big god given boobies!!! Can ya cope?




theRose4U -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/26/2012 6:58:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I havent seen Lance posting in a while.
Good dude. Old school Leatherman.

Saw him briefly last week was a leather drive by!




Silentrunner26 -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/27/2012 4:25:54 AM)

I have been talking with my new sub about a month and the first thing she asked was if I was looking for long term . I have never understood that question .
How can you not want something that will last through the years . How do you not want to commit to someone who will be there no matter what . I have had one nighters .
Hell I had some last a month or more . In the end never found one who wanted the long term till now . My answer to her was "2 life times" . You want something to last give me 2 lifetimes
and I will make you happy enough for a 3rd . Well we settled for a 30 year term with the option for more and we are moving in together next year . Some times you get lucky .




MstSebastian -> RE: What are good questions a newbie should ask of a potential Dom? (11/28/2012 5:39:17 AM)


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ORIGINAL: theRose4U

I'm a domme, can rope, ride, spit, shoot, make sailors blush & teamsters cry, my honorary balls come in a dump truck & draw back in your world is big god given boobies!!! Can ya cope?

I can cope! You sound like just the kind of woman I love spending time with. Anyone who can make sailors blush and teamsters cry has a place, and a beer, waiting for them at my table! As a friend of mine always says, "If you can't say anything nice, come sit next to me."

(Oh, and boobies are not a draw back. I may be gay, but I believe boobs are a wonderful thing!) [:D]




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