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just a submissive - 11/6/2004 8:32:04 AM   
liljoy


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Status: offline 		In every post it seems there is slave this and this slave. It kinda make me wonder if there is anything of value that i as just a submissive can add to the conversations. This is in no way putting down the Owners of slaves, slaves or even my self as i know how smart i am. It's just thatas s submissive in a D/s relationship, i often don't know how to relate in conversations geared toward M/s or if my input would even be of value. i love this board and would like to be more active on it
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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 9:05:40 AM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		liljoy,
I think a majority of the poster's here identify with being a submissive. Yes, there are a few whom consider themselves slaves. I think the majority though are submissives.
Regardless, since when does a person have nothing worth while to say? I've never met one yet. Even when I disagree they still have something worth hearing.
Hope that helps.

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 9:06:13 AM   
subbiejenn


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Status: offline 		liljoy --

i am a submissive and participate in he boards a lot. I post my feelings and thoughts on a lot of different subjects even if it is something i do not have first hand knowledge of. i "try" to always put in JMO - Just my opinion so that is all it is. i am sure there are many who read it or just skip over my post but that is there option and mine is to post what i feel and that is why the forum is here. There are some topics i do not post to for different reasons but most of the time either it isn't interesting to me or i know absolutely nothing about it to even form a opinion.

Don't be discouraged, i for one would love to see you posting more and interested in your views.

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 9:46:49 AM   
afmvdp


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Status: offline 		From the opposite side, I don't look for or desire or hope to train "slaves". To me it doesn't imply the relationship dynamics that I want to create, as to me a "slave" is one who stays there beyond even their will to stay, they listen because they have no choice but to listen, they are owned property. To me a submissive is submissive to me because they choose to be submissive to me, they stay because the choose to stay and cause I choose to keep them.

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 10:39:07 AM   
Mercnbeth


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It kinda make me wonder if there is anything of value that i as just a submissive can add to the conversations. This is in no way putting down the Owners of slaves, slaves or even my self as i know how smart i am. It's just thatas s submissive in a D/s relationship, i often don't know how to relate in conversations geared toward M/s or if my input would even be of value. i love this board and would like to be more active on it


there are a variety of folks here, some of whom identify as slaves, others as submissives or bisexual (or both!), liberal, petite, masochist, artistic, Domme, generous, active, sadist, the list could go on and on--the important thing is that they are here and genuinely contribute their perspective on a wide variety of topics. this slave understands what u mean about having difficulties relating in certain conversations, as she has had a hard time as a slave in a r/l M/s relationship relating to conversations regarding those in D/s or even online relationships. don't let that deter u from offering your input. this slave must agree wholeheartedly with gloria:
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since when does a person have nothing worth while to say?

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 11:27:05 AM   
feline


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Status: offline 		Welcome ro Collar Me. Jump on in the waters fine! We're always looking for new and different opinions.

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 11:40:07 AM   
Estring


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even my self as i know how smart i am.


Well liljoy, let us know are smart you are. Start posting. Everyone is welcome, and it does get addicting.

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 12:31:32 PM   
liljoy


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Status: offline 		Gloria,jenn and feline i was hoping ya'll would come out and speak on this. i've seen you speak on the boards a lot. ya'll are some wise ladies i'm proud to be in such company.

afmvdp,
wow i love those words, Your thoughts reflect exactly how Master and i see our relationship. Thank You for Your fedback.


beth,
Glad you joined this discussion. i've seen many, many posts from your Master but i believe this is the first post i've seen from you. LOL i read Master all the posts here and after your post Master said. "yeah so there, in other words shut up stupid and type"

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 1:02:20 PM   
Nvernilla


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Status: offline 		well liljoy you should post whenever and whatever you want we are all learning,all teaching and each has a valid view that at least one other can learn from whatever lable describes your taste has no bearing on the importance of your post

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 1:05:03 PM   
liljoy


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LOL just like a Dom to use my own words on me ~grins~ OK i'll start posting. Besides i really do need to get rid of the vanilla tag on my name. How many posts does it take to rid ones self of that?

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 2:34:38 PM   
blushes4u


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Status: offline 		Well i don't ever think my post are very interesting, or my replies ever sensible, but i post anyway lol. Now if i can just figure out how to classify myself...submissive? slave? vanilla submissive? lol guess i'll find out one of these days.

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 2:52:52 PM   
proudsub


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quote:

How many posts does it take to rid ones self of that?


25 posts

Feel free to post anytime you have something to contribute under any forum.

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 5:08:35 PM   
MistressFire70


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Status: offline 		The whole phrase "just a submissive" might be some insight as to why you feel you don't have anything to contribute. Value who you are and the path you have chosen, hon. So what if you don't identify as a slave? A slave is no better than a submissive, just a different kind of person. Don't undercut yourself because you're an apple, not an orange.


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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 6:11:53 PM   
Suleiman


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Status: offline 		"just" a submissive? You make it sound so mundane! Being a submissive is a glorious, wonderful thing! So many dominants would have nothing to do if there were no submissives to feed the raging fires of their overwhelming vanities. "just a submissive". Bah! Humbug! There is no such thing!

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 7:00:41 PM   
happypervert


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Status: offline 		If you've got something to say, then just say it. The worst that can happen is someone disagrees with you, and that will only happen with folks who aren't as smart as you.

< Message edited by happypervert -- 11/6/2004 7:44:41 PM >

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 8:50:14 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Submissives aren't stupid or mindless; they're just submissive. A submissive can have as much to contribute to a conversation as anyone else. In fact, submissives know a lot about something doms don't: what it's like to be submissive.

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 9:00:35 PM   
newflowers


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quote:

just" a submissive? You make it sound so mundane! Being a submissive is a glorious, wonderful thing! So many dominants would have nothing to do if there were no submissives to feed the raging fires of their overwhelming vanities. "just a submissive". Bah! Humbug! There is no such thing!


Definitely what he said!!!

newflowers

P.S.

Speaking of bah and humbug, did you know that there are only 35 more days until Christmas - is your goose getting fat???

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 10:09:34 PM   
EStrict


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Speaking of bah and humbug, did you know that there are only 35 more days until Christmas - is your goose getting fat???


::laughing:: I don't know about that one, but I do know my closets are getting full.

LilJoy, don't let the boards intimidate you. One of the hardest things people tend to have a problem with is learning to understand that someone *disagreeing* with you isn't a personal slam against *you*. How boring the boards would be if everyone agreed with everyone!

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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 10:44:46 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: newflowers

Speaking of bah and humbug, did you know that there are only 35 more days until Christmas...

Unless they moved Christmas to another day in December, I think you might want to check your math.

~stef


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RE: just a submissive - 11/6/2004 10:49:55 PM   
newflowers


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Status: offline 		OOps! that;s days until the break. 49 until the really real day to open presents and eat cookies.

-a-

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