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ORIGINAL: southernfemmeboy

This is always a controversial area because some are very offended by engaging the public in our kinks. However there is a way to balance this and keep it between D/S partners.

One of my favorites as a CD submissive is to wear lingerie under clothes, also a gender role reversal at dinner where my Domme orders for us, especially fun when she grabs the wine list and approaches the hostess regarding seating options. This may seem really minor but they do go against the tendencies of many vanilla folks.

Vibrating bullets can be fun, too and for those into medical play what about going with a sub to a colonic. They encourage visitors, the rooms have chairs and you can do a lot since they mostly leave you alone (mostly!)

Curious what others enjoy that does not offend the innocents

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ORIGINAL: southernfemmeboy
Curious what others enjoy that does not offend the innocents

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ORIGINAL: southernfemmeboy

also a gender role reversal at dinner where my Domme orders for us, especially fun when she grabs the wine list and approaches the hostess regarding seating options. This may seem really minor but they do go against the tendencies of many vanilla folks.

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Vibrating bullets can be fun, too and for those into medical play what about going with a sub to a colonic. They encourage visitors, the rooms have chairs and you can do a lot since they mostly leave you alone (mostly!)

Curious what others enjoy that does not offend the innocents

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ORIGINAL: southernfemmeboy

The colonic can be very kinky because if you are receiving the cleansing, youre not going anywhere for an hour. A Dom can have a very captive audience and unlike at a traditional doctors office plenty of privacy.

Are those nipple clamps coming out? wonder if the colonic nurse will notice

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Yeah, the making out thing in elevators and alleys...has nothing to do with bdsm, just the moment overtaking each other. Nothing different than we both have done as teenagers a million times.

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those into medical play

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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those into medical play

When I used to see an acupuncturist for my knee, I got a big kick out of her use of the needles and the TENS. I have my own TENS now <weg>

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

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ORIGINAL: southernfemmeboy

also a gender role reversal at dinner where my Domme orders for us, especially fun when she grabs the wine list and approaches the hostess regarding seating options. This may seem really minor but they do go against the tendencies of many vanilla folks.

[Maybe it's just me but I see this all the time with all kinds of people...females ordering for males, males ordering for females. Sometimes it's just that one party knows more about the food, wine or restaurant than the other person does.

Master orders food for me all the time simply because he's better at it than I am. He's worked in the service industry and he knows me well.

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Vibrating bullets can be fun, too and for those into medical play what about going with a sub to a colonic. They encourage visitors, the rooms have chairs and you can do a lot since they mostly leave you alone (mostly!)

Curious what others enjoy that does not offend the innocents

bullets and other vibrating toys might be fun for about five minutes. After that I forget they are even there to be honest. Unless something is strongly vibrating on my clit, I'm just not going to be all that turned on. Most vibrating wearables are not that strong and any others are too loud for public wear.

As for the colonic. How is that bdsmy? My husband used to sit in the room when I would go for a pap smear or go to any doctor's appointments. He always liked to go along in case he had questions to ask or in case I would forget to ask which happens to me all the time. He also liked being able to make me comfortable while there by talking to me and just being there. I don't see how the reverse would be any different.

Master and I are just ourselves in public. He's always in control, he's always the leader so neither of us really think about what we're doing and we really haven't had any interest in any kind of subtle public play. I think the most public play we ever did was him playing with me in the car while driving someplace or ducking into an alleyway for some touchy, feelly, ouchies type stuff.